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  1. Post Decision Activity

    On February 4, 2013, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I130 IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.

    Love seeing things unfold!

    YAAAYY really happy for you !!!!

  2. I try to be positive seeing I am just about 2 months in but seeing some of the people who have been waiting for so long makes me slighlty annoyed in the sense that there is no pattern there's some serious randomness going on... anyhow.. wish everyone the best and especially those past 5 months... This blows:)

    Thanks Nola for this thread!! especially the ** no happy news allowed lol***

    Sherry

  3. Hi.. sorry to hear about AP but hopefully you will hear back before or within the time they told you. My husband and I went through AP when we did k-1 visa (before we got married) so its not a joyful experience but here's hoping it goes very smoothly for you both!!!

    Sherry

  4. :dance: On January 13th my fiancee pass her interview in Cambodia!!! woooooo hoooo. I am so excited and happy. What an amazing relief. I wish each of you the same result!! She was asked my name, my occupation, my sons name and about him, what I like to do, have I been married and when I got divorced, if I had come to visit her in Cambodia. how we met.

    Hey thats wonderful... has to be the best thing this year so far right? congrats!!!

  5. Hello Friends,

    I am from India. I was married in India and my ex left me for not having same believes as what her family and community believes. She go involve with someone from her community and her parents stand by her and she left me. For one full year i tried and tried to get her back but nothing worked out. I am from a middle class family and only bread earner with a family to take care of. I worked hard and very hard days and nights continuously to and setup my computer business back in my country. Later after getting separated from my ex wife, i met my current wife online and after one and a half year of talking on phone and online we decided to meet in a different country. We met there and i felt like i got a new life to live on and proposed my wife with a ring. " She said yes". We did all paper work after that and last year i entered in United States on K1 Visa.

    She came to India to see my family in 2011 and stayed at our home for 2 months. My K1 application was in process and got completed after she left . Before leaving India and after being a relationship of 3 years i again asked her that is she sure with all her decisions, because i was already divorced once and had that fear somewhere in my heart. Everything was going good,i came to United States, she was happy and we got married. We applied for conditional residence and received my card in December 2012.

    We use to have some little arguments as a couple sometimes but we both were happy and never let those arguments come in between our relationship. Now when i left India, practically no one was there to look after my business and i had to close it down, i left some of my savings with my family and some i carried here with me to have a support for six months for me and my family back in India.

    My wife started working part time in a mall. Now, from past one month i experienced a drastic change in my wife's attitude towards me. Suddenly she started speaking to me like her servants. She started dressing more good. Buying new clothes, behaving more immature. She stopped taking me out anywhere with her. 15 days back we have an discussion regarding her behavior towards me, and she told me that now " She likes someone else " I was shocked to know this and just listened to her quietly. she likes someone from her workplace. I wasn't getting any words any my eyes started shredding water. all night i cried and still can't sleep at nights.

    Somehow i managed myself and asked her to work on our relationship that if there is my mistake, but she says that everything is fine with me but her heart like someone else now and she cannot help it. NOW SHE WANTS DIVORCE. I am out of my head and don;t know what to do. I can't tell anyone about this in my family. My family is tied with strong and emotional family values and everyone likes my wife very much. I am looking for jobs since i got my approval and in middle of several interviews. I have nothing left back in India to earn and here she is on my head to Divorce me. I don't know what should i do and where should i approach. Now if i get a job here, then again i have to leave it coz my conditional residence card will expire in 2 years, and this second Divorce thing is killing me like hell.

    I did everything, i even begged her not to do this but nothing happened. I don't know what to do and my heart still beats for her but same time she don't leave a chance to insult and humiliate me for anything.

    Please Help!!!

    Im very sorry to hear this.. and I dont know exactly what to advise but I really wish u the best and that whatever you have to do goes smoothly...

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