Andie

Reread what you posted:
she has been fighting me on the most littlest things, in the most unrea-
sonable ways. She would also put my priorities in the backseat and would focus on
her relatives in San Diego and attend to their plans. She would ignore gifts and
good gestures from my family like she doesn't want to do anything with my family.
She has threatened to leave me before and she's verbally abusive (I would some-
times record her)
It's okay to make a mistake but to have a family with this woman would be a disaster. Something is wrong. Seek individual counceling by an independent source.
You are blinded by love for this woman obviously. That is no way to live the rest of your life.

No, it doesn't have to be notarised... just original signature.

Kids will do what kids do i.e. act i.e. behave and act irresponsible. The real villains are fully grown adults who see no problem encouraging kids to take on crippling debt when they know full well this debt is never likely to be repaid. Why are American kids told that they aren't mature enough to drink a beer, yet they consider the very same kids are considered mature enough to take on life altering debt that they can't ever walk away from until there debt has been fully repaid.

So what have you against people with dyslexia?
Really? Did you figure this out all by yourself?

DeeDee, I said it before, you are the one that was acting like a lady, and the grandmother was the one acting like a "common #######" only in America, they call it white trash. To use you like a slave, to try to beat you into submission and debase you, and to try to break up your marriage is ridiculous. To be honest, knowing you, I'm surprised that you WERE so submissive, and honestly, I picture you streaming off several colourful Romanian words to her instead. That you didn't, (not even knock out a tooth) shows maturity on your part, and I'm proud of you for that.
As to the abusive family that Sam apparently has, well, that doesn't look too good. Neither does the upbringing that you had. You and Sam are a family of two, and need to be constantly vigilant for either of you falling into both rages, and impotency, which is more how I saw Sam's not defending you, than him not wanting to. It's hard to recognise something for what it is, especially when you live with it. It took their treatment of you for him to actually notice how they've been for so long, and good on him for standing up for you once he did. Hopefully he'll stand up for himself now as well as recognise in himself those tendencies.
Counseling is a good idea for you both, especially as Sam could use the self esteem help and after this thread, you might need some security that he's committed to making it work with you. I know you both love each other, but you're both young, and this is HARD. To have doubts based on someone having a bad upbringing just makes it harder, so do yourselves a favour and look into it. As for money, and supporting yourself, there's a lot of work out there if you just keep looking...

... but really... I wish it didn't take so long. 2 weeks would be good.

I am so sorry to hear all of this... don't bring her to the US. Get out of this "marriage." Find a woman who really loves you; there is one out there.

I think in your heart you already know the answer to the question you are asking. How can you work out a marriage with someone who won't even talk to you? You should file for divorce in the USA and move on with your life. My ex-husband also became cold and distant after we got married. He made my life hell. It does seem as if she only married you to get a visa. Most people that run these scams will at least pretend they love you until they get over here but she can't even do that for you.
I can tell from your post that you are unhappy and in a lot of pain over this relationship. Once you move on with your life you will feel better and God willing you will find someone that really loves you.

The callousness of some people on this website never ceases to amaze me. Perhaps the OP made some mistakes, but I think some of you (G/A seems to be a repeat offender on a variety of threads, perhaps having friends who work at USCIS clouds their judgment, or just maybe it's a personality defect) lose your basic humanity here, much like the faceless bureaucrats who we are depending on for making decisions about our futures. The OP is dealing with a variety of issues, several miscarriages and a pregnancy, which even the dumbest should realize is very high risk after 3 miscarriages. If you can't offer meaningful assistance, then why not stay away? If you need a place to dump your own psychological bilge, find some website and troll it where the subject material does not have any real impact on people's lives.
And as for comparing flying billion dollar aircraft to some made up paperwork process, you'd have to be a fool to relate those two. Aircraft are designed logically, there are fixed and well established rules on their operation. This paperwork nightmare dreamt up by a committee often has no rhyme or reason to it.

My understanding that it is compulsory to have met within the previous 2 years prior to filing (and be able to supply evidence to that fact).

But on a personal level.... it may be for the best if this is how you deal with it.

Amelie
(very quirky)
about my 5th viewing of it.

Amelie
(very quirky)
about my 5th viewing of it.

Photographs are only secondary evidence...One of you must have travelled... Do you have boarding passes? There must be passport stamps so you would send copies of those and hotel booking/receipts or anything else that proves you were in the same place at the same time within the last two years. Photos on their own are not enough.

This is cool! Very visual... Congratulations!!

NVC told you that...? No they always go via NVC
Some of you have only had 3mths or less between NOA1 and NOA2... ( wish it was me )

... and by the way...what did you find on the sidewalk?

In the context of your other evidence it shows you were in the same place at the same time, so worth using.

Then sounds like you just haven't supplied supporting information that they need to show it is a bona fide relationship etc. - agree that the form itself doesn't give you full guidelines. If you check the guides on the site here they explain what is required. You will know more when you receive their letter as to the options you have. Again, I'm sorry you have been through all the waiting to get to this point. I hope it all works out for you soon.
Have a look at this link ... sounds similar
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/256528-how-to-reapply-a-denied-k1-visa-china/