Jacque and Gerry

Thanks everyone!!!
I can only paraphrase his general info. I'm going to try to have him write a review on here when he gets back home.
"stupid french rude b**** asked me my fiancees middle name, which after having spent an hour and a half outside in the cold didnt come to me until I recalled my middle name reminder of Arrested Development (Anne). and tore me a new one for not having her original divorce records as oppossed to what i had in my folder (copies) which were ALSO COPIES in the original petition which were ok. My actual immigration officer that I saw after was awesome, totally chill and entirely what I expected after all the PAPERWORK being done. I think he said something to frenchy after I mentioned her conduct to him because on the exit instructional part she was real nice. I was only asked where my fiancee worked and a few questions about previous addresses she had. One of which i could only guess at, one of the addresses i imagined was her work addy. no big deal. At the start youre sworn in, i wasnt asked to raise my hand or anything ridiculous. He asked me if i had any moral or religious objections to being sworn in. So I told him Im canadian so naturally Im an Atheist to which he chuckled to and did the swear in in non crazy (god) speak. It was as easy as pie. The first person you see isnt the immigration officer (like my quebec woman) so if they act like d***s dont let it get to you, they have #### all to do with anything."

Agreed. Most green card scammers at least make an effort to keep their sucker on the line until they get the green card. She's not even trying. My guess is she's either not capable of keeping up the charade, or she's incredibly stunning and her ego is telling her that she doesn't need to put forth any effort, or he's so hopelessly in love (mcat???) that she figures she's got it clinched no matter what she does.
To the OP: Don't even call her. She'll change her attitude faster than you can switch a light on and try to talk you out of it, and you'll be so happy to see her change in attitude that you'll let her do it. Just file for the divorce, and then go out with your buddies and get drunk.
BTW, hookers treat their johns better than that because they want them to come back.

First, just to clarify the Prostitute thing, the Prostitute is the one who receives pay and provides sex, the John is the one who provides payment and received sex. She is the Prostitute and you're her highest paying John!
Now if you want to use the labels "BLIND", "DUMB", "STUPID" then go right ahead.
I'm assuming shes physically stunning? Maybe you feel she's "out of your league"? If that's the case then your ego wants so badly to believe that you are worthy of a woman you've elevated so much.
The irony is that her actions have proven that her beauty is very shallow and masks a lot of ugliness just beneath the surface. She is the one who should be hoping she is worthy of a man such as yourself.
I think you know the answers to your questions and how she will not change if you bother to import her to the US.
In short if the sex is worth the expense then go ahead and bring her her but expect to lose that in very short order.
Otherwise just file for divorce locally (where you live) and move on with your life...

I think in your heart you already know the answer to the question you are asking. How can you work out a marriage with someone who won't even talk to you? You should file for divorce in the USA and move on with your life. My ex-husband also became cold and distant after we got married. He made my life hell. It does seem as if she only married you to get a visa. Most people that run these scams will at least pretend they love you until they get over here but she can't even do that for you.
I can tell from your post that you are unhappy and in a lot of pain over this relationship. Once you move on with your life you will feel better and God willing you will find someone that really loves you.

Why? You have listed no good reasons. All you did was make up some statistics.
I'm sorry, you have to realize you're a part of a forum full of people still going through the process and still finding it very difficult, stressful and emotionally draining. To have someone who is finished come on and say for no good reason that the process should be made even MORE difficult is a bit of a slap in the face, I imagine.

Online game L4D

Lavi, I called NVC yesterday and was told my case was under additional processing...no timeline, no they don't know how long it will take, etc. Call NVC and ask them about your case. Make sure you have your NVC case number and both your birthdays handy. 603-334-0700. GOOD LUCK!!!

We met playing world of warcraft - I've noticed a cpl of others have too (yay for gaming geeks finding love online )
He joined our guild and we started chatting during our first raid - turns out he thought i had a cute accent on vent.
After we finished killing things we kept talking, 14 hrs later we were still talking and needed to go to work ...
Been talking ever since

Good news flying through this thread. Nice to hear it.

Hey, their website isn't the best thing in the world, for some people doesn't change at all.. in my case I saw our NOA2 there, before my baby got the text, it worked great for us (at least to see the approval lol ). Don't worry about the website, really. If you can get them to change it to what's ''normal'' as Initial Review, great.. if not, oh well. You will hear from them, I'm telling you.
As for the waiting, no one can help you really.. only advice is to stay busy, and focus on your relationship, to make it work and stay beautiful, this will carry on to the future. Good luck

First, before anything else is said and done, she needs to be divorced. Nothing else can happen until then.
Hope for the best for them....but also love the fact that a food stamp recipient can afford to go on TWO cruises since October of last year.

Sounds like your former fiance(e) dodged a bullet, in my opinion.

I would hope, I know in my situation it was true ... We as a couple, from 2 different countries had to have the conversation of whom would move to whom. And a back up plan in place, with a back up plan to that one. Just because the USA denied, didnt mean that I couldnt sponser him to Canada, and if that was denied, I was on my way to England to try there. I guess were lucky that it didnt have to go that far, but we were both willing to do whatever we had to to be together.
Part of me is quite surprised that someone would make a finacial comment and then claim its over and theyve moved on already. I see no revelance really to this post and I scream troll. Its hard to feel sympathy for this OP with no information, no trials and tribulations being shared before hand.
Everyone who knows anything about immigration knows that it isnt 100% guaranteed and as a couple you have to be prepared for it, you dont have to like it, but you do have to acknowledge the possibility.
On a personal note, I did + a couple of other posters comments as I agree with them but I see no reason to debate this thread further exept to say that maybe this K1 was denied for quite obvious reasons.

So, you're somehow more important or better than the March filers we're to take from that comment? I only have one word to describe someone using a statement like that, and it's spiteful. (actually only one word I can use here, the others might get me banned)
I will repeat, it's not about how long you wait, everyone gets their turn and the USCIS does not process them in the order they come in. Waiting is hard, but please stop making yourself out to be special because you've been waiting longer. It's pissing me off, and probably a ton of others on here too.
USCIS LOST my first petition. They SCREWED UP my second petition. Did I feel entitled to get my NOA2 before others did? NO, in fact, while I should have been a January filer, or a March filer, I ended up being a May filer. Did you see me bashing people who got their NOA2 before I was originall hoping for mine? NO! Did you see me telling anyone lamenting about the wait that they have no reason to complain unless their cases were screwed up like mine was? NO!
I'm sick of your poor me attitude. You're not the only one that has had problems in this process, you're not the only one that ever will. Quit thinking it makes you special because it doesn't!!!!!!!
EVERYONE WAITS. It's unfair, but that's the way it is. If you didn't know that coming in, then NEWS FOR YOU!!!!
Your long wait sucks, I hope it's over soon. But quit with the attitude, you're no better than anyone else.

Lets all take a deep breath here everyone.
I think Moneyfers situation and meaning to their original post and posts since then have been largely misinterpreted. Lets all please realize this it's stressful for all of us, we are all equals and emotions do run high. I don't see the need to run after each other with pitchforks throwing stones. All they said from the start was basically "walk a mile in my shoes and be grateful you aren't me" And personally I don't blame them or anyone wanting to be handled first considering circumstances like those or even yours Stuart and Thea. I don't believe there is any I am better than you going on it's just stress, frustration and agony coming out and very little opportunity in text to explain ones self better. I don't think there was ill will intended at all. But when people are going through this we can take offense and read into things that aren't there.
For the record I think what you have had to endure Stuart and Thea is terrible too and I am very sorry to hear it but I am also so happy to see that even with the bump in the K-1 road you still managed to get your NOA2 in just shy of 6 months. That's fantastic considering what happened to you and if you were in Vermont I fear the outcome would still be pending sadly Regardless of all that congrats on your NOA2!
In the end we need to handle each other more gently. Take a minute to really think about what we all are and have gone through. No one on here thinks they are better than the other but they may feel cheated by the system and rightly so. I know I would if I was Moneyfer or Stuart and Thea.
PS. please dont chase me with a pitchfork and throw stones at me I bruise easy
-Genee

Waiting to be with the one you love when you should be together is painful. Waiting is hard. But my point is that it doesn't matter how long you wait, whether it's one day, one month or one year, we all have to wait, so we're all in this together. YOU were the one that in your first post said that you were more deserving because you've been waiting longer, when the OP hadn't said anything about her own wait. You misunderstand, and yes, you do appear to be spiteful of others that haven't had to wait as long as you have.
Is it fair that you've had a long wait? No, not at all. No one in here was saying that at all. No one was saying that they needed to be approved before you. No one was saying anything other than the fact that VSC seemed to be slowing down. You're the one that brought up the whole timeline thing.
And to repeat what the OP said again, when it's raining, we all get wet. I'm sorry you've had more rain than others, but you're not the only one here.

Been following her case. My heart goes out to her and her fiance. No doubt it sucked, just like I said before. I respect her, just like I respect everyone else on this board. Respect works both ways. I've not once seen a "me vs them" attitude out of Monyfer. I did yesterday. My point was not to disrespect, my point was just the opposite...have respect for each of our journeys...No one person's journey is more important or any less painful than the other. Pain is relative. And to some extent I would imagine every on this board has felt pain walking this path. We signed up for this knowing it was going to be painful, knowing nothing was guaranteed.
While I'm praying for a speedy NOA2 for them both, I'm also not about to sit here, grovel, and discount the worry others who have been waiting...as you say...as little as "3 months" not knowing what the future holds for them either.
Not how I work. Sorry!

That's just it, the OP wasn't complaining about 3 months waiting, it was the October filer that jumped in and changed the topic of the thread from VSC slowing down its approvals to a: "you've only been waiting 3 months so shut up cause I've been waiting longer" thread.
If people read the OP again, they will see that the post includes ANYONE waiting on VSC and being frustrated by no action on Igor's list.
If you're going to insult someone's English skills, at least learn to spell, it's DICTIONARY, not dictionairy!

eeeeasy killer. that 10 month wait must definitely suck but pullin' everybody else down the drain with you isn't going to get you anywhere.
Giminy Cricket...

Geezzz, sorry for your long wait but is not a matter of who deserves it first or last.
Every situation is different .
We are all on waiting mode and wish that you get your No2 soon and wish the same for us too.

I have no idea why it seems VSC is slowing a bit this week, is so discouraging for all of us who are waiting! Maybe is just people isn't updating timelines? I rather prefer thinking this instead of VSC slowing down again! My VJ timeframe from approval is coming soon... let's hope and pray for everybody over here!
PS. Sorry if this bother someone, but I'm bored and exhausted of the whole process so sue me

OMG! I think there's a lack of reading comprehension over here. I NEVER was complaining JUST ABOUT MYSELF. I just was stating the lack of approvals from VSC over here. Not just for me.
But for sure is not fair to say well I waited more so I deserve first, that's selfish. And I'm not being over here. Just hoping VSC wont slow down again.
When it rains we all get wet people!! :yes:

Shouldn't this guy's posts be removed at the very least? Talk about pushing/peddling.
Mike,
Call the consulate first to see if they will even entertain the idea of a co-sponsor. Then look into the guidelines to see if your brother qualifies. If he is in the military, its 100% of the US poverty level, if he is not, it's 125% of the US poverty level.
http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=720b0a5659083210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=720b0a5659083210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD
Poverty guidelines:
http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/i-864p.pdf