Welome Guest!

Registered members can access many other great features such as finding other local VJ members from their country!


US Immigration from Togo

Showing Togo Topics from Forum:

Pages: 1 2 3 Last  (Viewing page 1 of 12 ) - topics in the last 5 years
Spouse Caught Cheating After Filing N400
10:17 pm December 28, 2018


Read 1641 Times
17 Replies

Hello Everyone,

I am in my worst times as write this. Prior to Christmas, I uncovered that my wife of six years has been cheating on me with numerous guys. I am an immigrant that was married to her and was granted 10 years green card based on marriage last year.

I had the thought that this marriage was for lifetime, but now, my whole life has been shattered by this cheating not only with one guy but numerous guys. I have gone days without eating because I can't believe that she could do something so betraying to me. I am just crying all day asking why did she do this. After I asked why she was chatting and meeting with numerous guys, all she could tell me was she was looking for attention. Up until now she still denies sleeping with any of the guys she met. Moreover, after all the evidence regarding the conversation of meeting and having sex, she is still denying it. She and some of her boyfriends even played mockery out of me during their conversations. She told numerous of the guys in her conversation that she still loves them and wants to be with them. She went further by tearing me apart saying that she married the wrong person. I have been nothing, but a good guy to this lady. I have been providing for she and her kids since we have been together. I don't have a kid and both of us haven't been lucky to a kid together. I pay all the bills and do everything she request of me but this whole situation is killing me. I feel like a ####### and have been played. I told her if she believes she hasn't slept with any of these guys since we married, she should take a lie detector test. I told her that I don't trust her anymore, and only thing that can regain a little bit of trust will be the lie detector test. She refusing to even do the lie detector test. I am very heartbroken and can't believe someone I trusted was able to do this to me. I am confused and don't even know what to do.

Question Regarding N400

We filed our N400 based on the 3yrs married rule. I am currently thinking about getting a divorce, because I don't trust her anymore. I told her if she wants to save our marriage, she should do the lie detector but she's refusing to do it. I have given my all to this marriage but only to be betrayed in a way I could never imagine. Can I leave N400 to process or should I withdraw my application since I want to consider divorcing her?

View Topic

From J1 to O1 VISA without J1 Waiver
9:36 am December 27, 2018


Read 154 Times
4 Replies

Some J1 VISA holders, instead of applying for J1 VISA waiver, did apply for O1 directly. While Exchange Visitor Skills vary from one country to the other, what are the chance of obtaining O1 visa without applying for J1 waiver?

This sounds like a bypass for J1 waiver, but to get the consultation letter?

Any experience to share will be appreciated.

View Topic

I-601 FiancÚ visa
9:22 pm November 13, 2018


Read 141 Times
3 Replies

Has anyone had luck with a successful approved I-601 waiver for a fianc visa? I m having a hard time with extreme hardship and just wondering if anyone has any tips suggestions on where to begin?

View Topic

My children documents!
10:34 pm October 28, 2018


Read 196 Times
5 Replies

I filed for my children they are 15 and 10 years old. They have arrived and up to date, about one and half month and I haven't received any notice from immigration service, I am wondering if I have to pay any money again apart from the one I paid before they to the interview. Secondly, are they going to receive a green card or naturalization certificate? Thanks

View Topic

Filing for my wife.
5:11 am October 20, 2018


Read 223 Times
5 Replies

I am filing for my wife. However, I am wondering if there will be any concern about my case because I got divorced from my first marriage and got married 3 Mont later. Please tell me what could the issues. Thanks .

View Topic

Pages: 1 2 3 Last  (Viewing page 1 of 12 ) - topics in the last 5 years

Recent Visa Approvals

katharine & kossi
K1 Visa
Esperanza & Amour
K1 Visa
Du & Miel
IR-1/CR-1 Visa
guy & nat
F-2A Visa
BlessDem & Blessing
K1 Visa

Upcoming Interviews

Newest Togo Members

( view all )

Top Posting Members

#1 TogoAfrica
#2 duitta2g15
#3 ElieSon
#4 ProudAfrican
#5 Prince2togo
#6 R&Hlove
#8 Ahoueffi
#9 AnxiousCitizen
#10 DuMiel2