US Immigration from Guyana

Hi guys, my wife just came back from her Citizenship hearing and after all the smooth sailing we have had from visa process to now, we finally hit a "determination" wall.

My wife was arrested a few years back because my daughter (her estranged step-daughter) called the cops on her and fabricated a domestic violence case against her. The fight was actually between my daughters and my wife was breaking them up. That one daughter (she has progressive mental illness) went to the precinct and said my wife scratched her and the next thing you know, cops were at the door arresting my wife who spent a night in jail. This is a woman from a upper class family in her country, highly college educated, never seen a jail before so you must know the embarrassment I feel.

Anyway, the case was never prosecuted and it was thrown out AND sealed and we got a disposition stating such, which my wife has used to travel in and out of the U.S 6 times already. We also submitted the ORIGINAL of that disposition with the paperwork, admitting to the arrest by showing proof of the outcome.

Well today, we must have gotten a special officer because he sees the admission of arrest AND the disposition, but he wanted more - he wanted the actual arrest report, partially denied her ("could not make a determination at the moment") and sent her home, telling her to wait for documentation from him on how to submit that.

The arrest happened in New York and we moved to Florida 3 months ago and now it has been HELL trying to get in touch with a competent person in New York to help with this. In fact, all we are getting are voicemails, dead ends and transfers to dead ends. Lawyers are charing $1,500 for the attempt to get it when I've done multiple paperwork for individuals and can do it in my sleep for me to need a lawyer.

The bright side is, he actually signed off on everything telling because she passed everything else with ease, but he cannot yet set a swear in date because he wants THAT arrest record.

Thoughts/advice?

I didn't see a thread for this so I decided to create it.

CR1 TO IR1

Arrive 3 weeks ago via Miami POE.

I can't access my I-94 arrival information online.

I really need my Arrival record to get my State ID to start working. HELP!

My Green card and My Social Security Card has not arrive as yet either.

I'm planning My Final Transition to the USA in a few weeks. My Mother in Law Hate for me is getting more Real. I'm worried and afraid that when I arrive there I will be homeless. The Plan was to live with her until we save up enough, build good Credit and Get an apartment. My Husband don't have any Savings, he has one Job he is struggling with and trying to find another. My Mother in law don't want me at her House. We have never had a problem, no fight, arguments nothing. My Husband is White and I'm Black. My Husband has lived with his Mother all his Life, he's the only Child. My Social Security and Permanent Card will be going to her Address. I feel Lost. I booked My Flight a while ago but I don't want to tell my husband the date because I don't trust my Mother-in-Law but she keeps asking, My Mother in Law and Husband are the Sponsors on the Affidavit.

Nothing has Changed between my Husband and I, Just my Mother-in-Law Constant Nagging suddenly about me living with her and she don't want me at her house. It's Frustrating my Husband. She really dont want him to move out either, she's past Retirement age but she works and he's all she has. Who Experience this?

I came on a tourist visa but got married to a US citizen. We will soon file the package and would like to know if I should use my married name or only my maiden name when filing forms 485/130 since my form of ID has the maiden name.