Can you file a I-129F and marry the person while waiting?

[Reza 0]

You would be making a huge mistake to marry after you have waited this long. Patience is a life journey, not just for a K-1 or anything else. My darling 18-year-old daughter died in my arms 5 years ago from an asthma attack (on Easter Sunday). I have to wait for my eternal trip to see her----i HAVE to be patient for this, so you can be patient for your K-1

so Sad to hear that, god be with you and all of us...

Love is never be easy

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn't married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

Lets wait and see the result of your actions before you go recomending them to others..... It is very easy to prove you are married but it is very hard to prove you are not.... lets hope your interviewing officer understand what you have done and that you have some form of proof to show them that you are not married....

Kez

Edited July 26, 2007 by Niagaenola

[john_and_marlene 162]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn’t married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

But, you haven't been approved yet either.

Doesn’t matter! What is going to be? Deny my file for what type of reason? I don't have a proof of my marriage period! Which I write and notarize that by public notary they do understand and they are so professional with full of information about countries and religions!

as I am working with GOV I know what is going on, they are not dumb! as I said buddy if you dont have avidance write letter and notarize it and send it back!

First, I'm not your buddy--I don't even know you. I just don't think you can hold your situation up as a valid example of success until you actually have success.

The only thing a notary proves is that you are the one that signed a document--it provides no validity to the content.

[Reza 0]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn't married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

Lets wait and see the result of your actions before you go recomending them to others..... It is very easy to prove you are married but it is very hard to prove you are not.... lets hope your interviewing officer understand what you have done and that you have some form of proof to show them that you are not married....

Kez

as I said, nor do I or my Fiance have any doc says we are married! but we married and I send them the weeding pics, and I explain and I said, if you going to say you married I can't proof my marriage with any type of doc! those are just a ceremoney!

I know it well be fine and I spoke with my friend which is a attorney of law and he says right, people have a different culter and religions... ect.. if you married proof of your marriage if not go with I-129f no matter what as long you don't have a doc to shows that you are married

[Reza 0]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn’t married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

But, you haven't been approved yet either.

Doesn’t matter! What is going to be? Deny my file for what type of reason? I don't have a proof of my marriage period! Which I write and notarize that by public notary they do understand and they are so professional with full of information about countries and religions!

as I am working with GOV I know what is going on, they are not dumb! as I said buddy if you dont have avidance write letter and notarize it and send it back!

First, I'm not your buddy--I don't even know you. I just don't think you can hold your situation up as a valid example of success until you actually have success.

The only thing a notary proves is that you are the one that signed a document--it provides no validity to the content.

the notary is proof of your word, which can take you to the law of court, mean that you are saying the true by notary! proof of your signature if your doc and... what ever act

[john_and_marlene 162]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn’t married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

But, you haven't been approved yet either.

Doesn’t matter! What is going to be? Deny my file for what type of reason? I don't have a proof of my marriage period! Which I write and notarize that by public notary they do understand and they are so professional with full of information about countries and religions!

as I am working with GOV I know what is going on, they are not dumb! as I said buddy if you dont have avidance write letter and notarize it and send it back!

First, I'm not your buddy--I don't even know you. I just don't think you can hold your situation up as a valid example of success until you actually have success.

The only thing a notary proves is that you are the one that signed a document--it provides no validity to the content.

the notary is proof of your word, which can take you to the law of court, mean that you are saying the true by notary! proof of your signature if your doc and... what ever act

So, if I'm ever accused of a crime, all I have to do is write a letter professing my innocence and get it notarized and I'll be surely set free.

[TimsDaisy 0]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn't married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

Lets wait and see the result of your actions before you go recomending them to others..... It is very easy to prove you are married but it is very hard to prove you are not.... lets hope your interviewing officer understand what you have done and that you have some form of proof to show them that you are not married....

Kez

as I said, nor do I or my Fiance have any doc says we are married! but we married and I send them the weeding pics, and I explain and I said, if you going to say you married I can't proof my marriage with any type of doc! those are just a ceremoney!

I know it well be fine and I spoke with my friend which is a attorney of law and he says right, people have a different culter and religions... ect.. if you married proof of your marriage if not go with I-129f no matter what as long you don't have a doc to shows that you are married

Do you just mean you had a WEDDING but didn't get legally MARRIED?

A stern warning to all who read this thread: until we know the legal details of what constitutes marriage in Reza's country, then it would be STUPID for anyone to follow that advice. If Reza had a WEDDING, but not a legal MARRIAGE, then that's a different kettle of fish.

Language is everything in this process. Certain words are magic and earn you a visa or earn you a long stay in AP or a denial.

Reza, if you had a WEDDING - a party or cultural celebration but free of the legal component - then you're probably fine. But if that's the case DO NOT go around saying you "got married" as a way of telling others that marrying will have no effect on a FIANCE visa.

[TimsDaisy 0]

p.s. Reza - I think you need to research what it is a notary does and what exactly it means to have a document notarized. Wikipedia it. Notaries in the US aren't like notaries abroad. Which even then aren't doing what I think you think they are doing.

[Cassie 8]

threads like these always make me nervous

[Reza 0]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn't married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

Lets wait and see the result of your actions before you go recomending them to others..... It is very easy to prove you are married but it is very hard to prove you are not.... lets hope your interviewing officer understand what you have done and that you have some form of proof to show them that you are not married....

Kez

as I said, nor do I or my Fiance have any doc says we are married! but we married and I send them the weeding pics, and I explain and I said, if you going to say you married I can't proof my marriage with any type of doc! those are just a ceremoney!

I know it well be fine and I spoke with my friend which is a attorney of law and he says right, people have a different culter and religions... ect.. if you married proof of your marriage if not go with I-129f no matter what as long you don't have a doc to shows that you are married

Do you just mean you had a WEDDING but didn't get legally MARRIED?

A stern warning to all who read this thread: until we know the legal details of what constitutes marriage in Reza's country, then it would be STUPID for anyone to follow that advice. If Reza had a WEDDING, but not a legal MARRIAGE, then that's a different kettle of fish.

Language is everything in this process. Certain words are magic and earn you a visa or earn you a long stay in AP or a denial.

Reza, if you had a WEDDING - a party or cultural celebration but free of the legal component - then you're probably fine. But if that's the case DO NOT go around saying you "got married" as a way of telling others that marrying will have no effect on a FIANCE visa.

exactly free of the legal component! I didnt said marriage and aplly for Finace visa, I said if your satiuation is like mines.. your are fine!

Just talk to your attorney... ignore the forums and other ... just talk to your attorney..

[chris4gretchen 1]

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn't married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

Lets wait and see the result of your actions before you go recomending them to others..... It is very easy to prove you are married but it is very hard to prove you are not.... lets hope your interviewing officer understand what you have done and that you have some form of proof to show them that you are not married....

Kez

as I said, nor do I or my Fiance have any doc says we are married! but we married and I send them the weeding pics, and I explain and I said, if you going to say you married I can't proof my marriage with any type of doc! those are just a ceremoney!

I know it well be fine and I spoke with my friend which is a attorney of law and he says right, people have a different culter and religions... ect.. if you married proof of your marriage if not go with I-129f no matter what as long you don't have a doc to shows that you are married

Do you just mean you had a WEDDING but didn't get legally MARRIED?

A stern warning to all who read this thread: until we know the legal details of what constitutes marriage in Reza's country, then it would be STUPID for anyone to follow that advice. If Reza had a WEDDING, but not a legal MARRIAGE, then that's a different kettle of fish.

Language is everything in this process. Certain words are magic and earn you a visa or earn you a long stay in AP or a denial.

Reza, if you had a WEDDING - a party or cultural celebration but free of the legal component - then you're probably fine. But if that's the case DO NOT go around saying you "got married" as a way of telling others that marrying will have no effect on a FIANCE visa.

exactly free of the legal component! I didnt said marriage and aplly for Finace visa, I said if your satiuation is like mines.. your are fine!

Just talk to your attorney... ignore the forums and other ... just talk to your attorney..

i find it dangerous to base your argument and your notary document on a few specific points of words in english when your english is clearly lacking. Makes me think that you are not quite understanding how your petition will be read by the powers to be. And i know a number of immigration attorneys who are less knowledgable than the forums here. There are great attorneys and some cases that need their expertise. i think yours will need that so its good you have one to tell you what to do. Im sure your notarized explaination of your marriage without documents to the NSC will make them understand. I hope that your attorney wrote it and not you or i think you'll be in for a long wait while they investigate your situation. good luck with your process, i hope your attorney gives you good advice, something i dont think you are giving at the moment.

Chris

Edited July 26, 2007 by chris4gretchen

[Urge To Race 2]

I agree with TimsDaisy here. While you can have all kinds of celebrations and ceremonies, if the government of the country/state where the celebration(s) took place does not recognize it as a legal marriage, you should still be able to obtain a K1. However, one must take great care when doing something like this. If your ceremony results in a marriage that is legally recognized, whether you got a document or not, you are headed for a world of trouble in your K1 process.

On top of that, Reza submitted "wedding" photos, and apparently called it a "wedding" in his notarized letter I wouldn't follow that advice for sure. Just that you may be married would be enough to force a long look at your case, but to just put it out there with full photographic evidence.

Well, I married, but I don't have proof of my marriage! if you don't have proof of your marriage you can file I-129f as a fiancé which is I did.. I married in sharia.. and i couldn't married by that country law! and another point I had to make a quick decision because my fiancé she well have no family in state and she well be disappointed and depressed so I did weeding ceremony to make her happy while we were there....! Which I explain the situation in my I-129f files!

You can be married without evidence of proof of married by certain country and rules! you can be married and still not married by religions!

as muslim I am married my wife but it still it be a fiance , i cant proof that with any type of doc which we are married!

so sample!

Lets wait and see the result of your actions before you go recomending them to others..... It is very easy to prove you are married but it is very hard to prove you are not.... lets hope your interviewing officer understand what you have done and that you have some form of proof to show them that you are not married....

Kez

as I said, nor do I or my Fiance have any doc says we are married! but we married and I send them the weeding pics, and I explain and I said, if you going to say you married I can't proof my marriage with any type of doc! those are just a ceremoney!

I know it well be fine and I spoke with my friend which is a attorney of law and he says right, people have a different culter and religions... ect.. if you married proof of your marriage if not go with I-129f no matter what as long you don't have a doc to shows that you are married

Do you just mean you had a WEDDING but didn't get legally MARRIED?

A stern warning to all who read this thread: until we know the legal details of what constitutes marriage in Reza's country, then it would be STUPID for anyone to follow that advice. If Reza had a WEDDING, but not a legal MARRIAGE, then that's a different kettle of fish.

Language is everything in this process. Certain words are magic and earn you a visa or earn you a long stay in AP or a denial.

Reza, if you had a WEDDING - a party or cultural celebration but free of the legal component - then you're probably fine. But if that's the case DO NOT go around saying you "got married" as a way of telling others that marrying will have no effect on a FIANCE visa.

[TimsDaisy 0]

Reza - if it's free of the legal part THEN STOP SAYING YOU GOT MARRIED.

You had a wedding. Big deal. You aren't breaking new ground with this strategy, but what you are doing is casually swapping out one term for another when, to a less educated VJ reader, a mistake could spell a 10 year ban or worse.

Be careful with your words. A WEDDING does not a legal marriage make. And the difference between the two is absolutely vital in the K1 process.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

I work for a large bank and I am a notary..... when I sign and seal a document for a client I am confirming that I have verified their ID and have witnessed them sign the document.... nothing more... the content of the document could be total lies...

Kez

[nane1104 146]

Some people really amaze me!! What in the world triggers someone to add wedding pictures to your I-129F petition??

I mean, I had a non-legal wedding ceremony in Germany before I entered the US, but I think that's a whole different thing...