My new Journey..Please Advise

[Houstonian6000 0]

I don't know but I would think my case is not that completed but will need an open and innocent advise. Just say it like you see it.I would love every input as much as possible

 

Okay here is my story

I married a US citizen back in 2011 and immigrated to the US using K1 visa back in 2011,Everything was good, We had a beautiful baby together and life was good. Like every other marriage, Things get tough and rough but we made it through . My wife was really a nice and a caring woman. I cant complain, we shared everything together, Life, love, trips, Move from state to state with in the US as the case maybe..Good....Fast forward . I became a US Citizen in 2014/2015..Somewhere around there.  But lately, I felt like the I don't have much of intimate desire for my wife anymore and I find my self cheating sometimes but I try so hard not to disrespect her in anyway, shape or form, She never cut me cheating but that intimate connection doesn't exit for us anymore...Me for sure but to her, She want us to get better but I don't ever see that happening and I just cant look at her and tell her the truth about it cuz I honestly don't wanna hurt her feeling or see her cry for me neither can I stand hurting my now 7 years old baby. She is everything in the world to me

 

 Fast-forward to 2017,I left the US and went back to my home country and ended up rekindling my old high school sweetheart and I honestly have not forgotten her all this years, I just didn't know what to do ,I just felt If I knew what I know now back then, I should not have left my country or my job back then to come to the US ….Don't get it twisted, United States gave me money, name, security and everything but after all this years, I find life to be bigger than just money . I ended up staying right about 4 to 5 months in my home country and came back to the US...I kept n touch with my old sweetheart even after I got back but like everything in me don't wanna hurt my wife neither do I wanna hurt my daughter. Ever

 

Fast forward to 2018,I finally convince my wife that I wanted a divorce and after everything, I convince her and she signed off and we got divorced in 2019..I still take care of my daughter and my now ex wife in every way I can...You can barely even say we are divorce sometimes cuz in every step , I still take care of her to make sure she get the support she need, Be her job or she need a new car, I still take charge for it....Again. Is never the same. The sentiments is always there and till today, My daughter is 7 and I cant be able to explain to her that I divorce her mother cuz she probably will be mad at me

 

So Here is my input

 

I have made up my mind to go and marry my high school sweetheart and bring her here in the US ,Even if not for anything, I feel like I love her and I could bring her here in the US for a better life just for old times and hopefully things work out for us but if not, Then is what it is. One more side note to this...I have dated my  high school sweetheart for over 7 years back when i was back home, We attended the same university together and even live in the same hostel  but hey...Destiny have it for us . I left the country right around after we left school. So I  really know her in and out including every member of the family and so as mine....

 

Another side input, All my immediate family is here in the US including my Parents,  They honestly do not support me going to marry my old sweetheart because to them , I'm married here in the US and they don't wanna be part of it. I  tried convincing my mom about my feelings and everything, She said she cant support me unless am divorced but now that am divorced. I decided not to tell anybody anything and just do what I wanna do

 

So, I plan on going home early 2020 to marry my high school sweetheart and bring to the US. ..Just worried a little on how my new immigration journey will be  since I immigrated to the US just about the same way...I have a very solid credit report and make way above poverty line. as soon as my ex...She makes a lot more than me aswel

 

My question now is

 

If I marry and file for CR-1 sometime in early 2020,..Will that a problem since I just got my divorced finalized around middle of 2019.

 

I was married for about 9 years in my previous marriage and became a citizen in 2015...So it will be about 5 years of me been a citizen by the time I file this petition.

 

My first immigration journey was approved with out hassle from the start to end...Was easy. Even my ROC was approved without interview back then..Just a little concern of the whole circumstance...Please advise and am open to any impute no matter how little..

 

Than You in advance!

 

 

 

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My assumption is that the extent of the Consulate investigation will be Consulate dependent.

[user555 196]

1 hour ago, Houstonian6000 said:

I honestly don't wanna hurt her feeling or see her cry for me neither can I stand hurting my now 7 years old baby. She is everything in the world to me

Morally, it seems like a contradiction because you don't want to hurt your family while cheating on them. The government will not look at that. They'll just look at the forms and fees.