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14 hours ago, ATT said:

Wonderful and empowering advice! Thank you very much, I will think of this when the times are tough. I will be sure to have that talk with my family. You made so many points that explained how I was feeling and thinking, that I just couldn't get the words out. But also things that I needed to hear.

 

I ended up speaking to my husband and we have agreed to set some boundaries. I wont be taking their phone calls anymore, or I'll be redirecting them to him. We have decided to do our own thing on the 4th of July and other holidays (lake beach this time because I miss the Australian beaches! Close enough right?) instead of going to their get together :). We wont be visiting them on his one day off a week that we should be spending together. It's a nice starting point. I definitely re-evaluated the situation and found it very clear that although it's nice to want to get along with those that my husband is close with, I can't make myself unhappy by doing so. So while I'll remain polite in the situation, I'll politely be enjoying life without them.

Thats a great start, glad your husband understood you. It's tough only at the beginning, once you start making your own friends, get a job, settle in, it'll get a lot better.

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