FAAAAAAAAACK

[Krikit 1,163]

This is the first topic I've seen where it's appropriate to have mixed emoticons. How frustrating, Cutie. On the bright side, at least you know he's approved. But that's probably not very comforting at the moment. Sorry.

[MissStacey 1]

I don't know what to say.

As the person above me said- at least you know the Visa was approved. I hope you guys get all that stuff you need from the Military quickly. Is there a higher up that he can talk to to get things done faster?

[jg_am 0]

Wow. Sorry to hear about this. Hope everything works out.

[CutienPurg 0]

Thanks everyone...........it really does suck

Bottom line is he does have tenative approval which is good. I got pretty wound up when i wasn't sure if my husband would have the proper discharge papers to satisfy the consul immediately upon release or if it was one of those things he'd have to wait a lil bit longer for. all I could think of was the amount of time ( even if small) mailing the papers, waiting for someone to acknowledge them and then send the visa . at this point , any delay is a day too many.

hubbby is calling DMCARM( i typed DMEDCARM earlier oops ) himself 1st thing Monday am to see where his file is.......from there to see a padre....and anyone with more stripes than he has.......i mean what are they gonna do kick him out

anyway....guess we'll see

again , thanks you guys

[Emancipation 2]

First off.. your hubby has one of my most respected jobs of all time.. so hats off to him for serving our Country..

Second off... GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel horrible for what's going on!

I wish you both the best as you wait word this weekend...

[KarenCee 3]

Wow... I read the Topic Head and I was like... oh no.. not something else and I was not sure when you said denied pending release since I thought your ordeal was finally over. Hope this gets resolved soon.

I have yet to come accross a govt institution (Canada and US) that give priority to Family issues. I mean its not like their lives are being affected by all of this and I cannot understand how these people can distance themselves from issues relating to family and not care.

It's called the "I don't give a sh!t" syndrome...it's unfortunate, but quite common methinks. (sarcastic smilie needed here)

Cutie...gawd, I hope this gets settled soon. Hope Monday gives you both good news.

[lynamon 0]

My heart really goes out to you after reading your post .. it's amazing how much compassion we feel for other VJ members going through this process when you are reading about their lives and their struggles daily.You've really had some kicks .... it will all work out in its own sweet time (grrr) .. but we will be here waiting with you in the meanwhile ...birds of a feather ....

[meauxna 15]

....but ......the medical release is worth an additional $38,000.00 of pension income over 2 years...... so we wait. I cant even guess how many times ive said screw the 38 grand and come home.

From one to another, chickie.. stick it out! 38K (even canadian "dollars", lol) will buy a lot of making up for lost time... on a nice tropical beach, for starters.

Hang in there Cutie.. I hear Canada's a nice place to visit! <g>

[CutienPurg 0]

yeah we probably will hold on......im getting a new car though dammit

thanks everyone

this will work itself out like everything else does. plenty of people have life a lot harder than we do......hopefully a few on Monday will share our unhappiness lolololol

[cdancer 0]

WE ALL FEEL YOUR ***PAIN*** RIGHT UP THE BUTT!

WOW! WHAT CAN YA SAY....

SORRY TO HEAR THIS!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Cutie,

I am so sorry my dear - this is just so complicated and insane sometimes that makes one wonder.... why do our marriages have to be someone else's bizz??????

Sending you big hugzzzzz, L&B.

[CutienPurg 0]

So after all this waiting and all the guarantees of medical release.....it was denied.

the good side .......it's an answer. which means now he can release voluntarily and be out in 30 days.

bad side......those empty promises cost us an additional month......maybe more.

and I dont think im getting my GD NEW CAR

[MissStacey 1]

And we are back to:

FFFAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKK!!!

[riblet 0]

Wow that sucks!! I'm sorry - but at least things are resolved now. I hope he is able to come down soon!!

[Flames9_RN 358]

I'm sure once he is out he could redress the medical issue. Never hurts, all they can do is say no.