Please Help for some reassurance and peace of mind.

[lilzergling 0]

Hello all,

I am a Canadian born citizen, and I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago. I came to visit during July and left after 2 weeks. It was a very painful experience to leave and we wanted to see each other soon after. I planned another visit during September, however this time I didn't buy a return ticket because I didn't know how long I would be staying. So I was initially declined entry, but managed to get through on the second attempt after bringing proof of ties as well as buying a return ticket.

My boyfriend brought up the idea when my return date was looming to get married and start a life with him. So I did some research and found out about AOS. However, there is a stamp on my passport that I wasn't aware of, because the officer just left me through and told me next time to bring proof of ties.

We have procrastinated out of worry and since it is nearly June now and I have overstayed without applying. We are hurriedly trying to get married and get the process going but I am terrible anxious about the entire thing. I have read a few stories and most seem hopeful. Since our relationship is bona fide that isn't my worry, but I don't want to get deported and be unable to see him or his family.

I was just wondering if anyone could offer any advice as well as help with the process? I'm looking through the forms and fees as well. Since I was allowed in shouldn't we be safe for the marriage interview even if I overstayed? Although there is always a risk I suppose. It's just upsetting that there is so much strain just to be with the person you love.

We are currently living with his mother and paying rent to her, so what evidence could we bring as far as financial goes? We are both fairly young also... 19 and 21.

Thank you so much, I will eagerly be waiting for replies.

[lilzergling 0]

We are in Long Beach California btw.

[Pitaya 2,576]

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Welcome to the forum.

There is no set time requirement as to when to do the AOS process. The sooner the better. easily accessible at the top of the forum page. Additionally, review the USCIS I-485 web page. Due to the current lengthy AOS processing times, suggest that you concurrently apply for the EAD and AP documents, read the USCIS page for details.

http://www.uscis.gov/i-485

Good luck on your immigration journey.

Edited May 28, 2015 by Pitaya

[YouAndMeForever 1,022]

Hello all,

I am a Canadian born citizen, and I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago. I came to visit during July and left after 2 weeks. It was a very painful experience to leave and we wanted to see each other soon after. I planned another visit during September, however this time I didn't buy a return ticket because I didn't know how long I would be staying. So I was initially declined entry, but managed to get through on the second attempt after bringing proof of ties as well as buying a return ticket.

My boyfriend brought up the idea when my return date was looming to get married and start a life with him. So I did some research and found out about AOS. However, there is a stamp on my passport that I wasn't aware of, because the officer just left me through and told me next time to bring proof of ties.

We have procrastinated out of worry and since it is nearly June now and I have overstayed without applying. We are hurriedly trying to get married and get the process going but I am terrible anxious about the entire thing. I have read a few stories and most seem hopeful. Since our relationship is bona fide that isn't my worry, but I don't want to get deported and be unable to see him or his family.

I was just wondering if anyone could offer any advice as well as help with the process? I'm looking through the forms and fees as well. Since I was allowed in shouldn't we be safe for the marriage interview even if I overstayed? Although there is always a risk I suppose. It's just upsetting that there is so much strain just to be with the person you love.

We are currently living with his mother and paying rent to her, so what evidence could we bring as far as financial goes? We are both fairly young also... 19 and 21.

Thank you so much, I will eagerly be waiting for replies.

Fire for AOS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE . http://www.visajourney.com/content/i130guide2

Since you are married to a US citizen, your overstay will be forgiven. You overstayed 180+ days. Do not leave the US until you have your greencard. If you do, you will face a 3 year ban.

Edited May 28, 2015 by YouAndMeForever

[lilzergling 0]

Thank you guys for the links and advice

[YouAndMeForever 1,022]

Thank you guys for the links and advice

You are welcome and good luck.

[mmsk 9]

*Go to Norwalk, CA get married

*Try to have joint account (bills, lease, bank account, what ever you can)

*Have pictures

*File for I485

*File for work authorization and advance parole( if you want to travel during the process of I485)

* Wait for your interview

hopefully everything will be good.

good luck

[Love Marry Stay 1]

Yes echoing everything said above, get married and file asap.

Here are all the links to get you started:

G-1145 Request an e-Notification

I-485 Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status

I-130 Petition for Alien Relative

G-325A Biographical Information

I-864 Affidavit of Support

I-765 Applicant for Employment Document

I-131 Application for Travel Document

I-693 Report of Medical Examination and Vaccination Record

Good luck with everything!