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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Jordan

Ok So I am not sure if I am posting in the right location regarding my topic. My husband arrived in the states almost two years ago, and now we are looking at either a legal separation or divorce. He is not the same man he was before. We have a 2 1/2 year old son together, that doesnt even like his daddy, he tells me all the time daddy is mean, daddy scares me...My husband has become so mean so aggressive, he is refusing to help me with any bills, he wont finish his schooling to get his GED..He is working part time at a 7/11 and hanging around the worst types of people.Now I have been trying so hard to make this work I love him to death. He refused marriage counseling at first then agreed to it. Last night we had a huge blow out I left this morning with our son and will be staying with my mom for a few days. Now I was wondering how any of this will affect his green card he has the two year one and we are coming up on the date we are suppose to start filing to remove the probabtionary status off his greencard so on and so on. He really has been so mean to our son, he is not beating him or anything but screams and swears at him etc..our son is legit scared of his own father. I dont even know what to say to our son when he says momma I dont like daddy, I am scared.How do react to that, it breaks my heart. Anyways there is quite a bit more to this story, so I am just asking for some guidance and if anyone has ever been through something similar. I feel as though my husband just cannot handle this culture he hates it here but was staying for me and our son now that he doesnt care about us anymore I would like him to go back to Jordan just for a little while, cause maybe then he will appreciate everything he had here. Anyways I need help and answers please. I am so lost and hopeless as what to do. If anyone wants more to the story please ask, I am at work trying to type this fast LOL!!

thanks Fiona

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: China

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Completed: K1/K2 (271 days) - AOS/EAD/AP (134 days) - ROC (279 days)

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Jordan

He can go back to Jordan if he wants, but you have no control over that. If you get a divorce, he can file for the removal of conditions himself if he wants to stay in the US; he will just have to document a bona fide relationship that didn't work out.

07/19/12 - Married

Adjustment of Status from F-1 Student Visa: Day 00 - 07/20/12 - Sent I-130, I-485, I-765, I-131

Day 03 - 07/23/12 - Confirmation from USPS that package was received in Chicago - signed for by D Colonna

Day 11 - 08/03/12 - Acceptance confirmation texts and emails

Day 14 - 08/06/12 - Checks cleared

Day 18 - 08/10/12 - Received biometrics appointment notice (dated 08/06/12 for appointment on 08/30/12)

Day 22 - 08/14/12 - Completed biometrics via successful walk-in at Columbus, OH office (We were the only ones there!)

Day 25 - 08/17/12 - Received NOAs

Day 36 - 08/28/12 - Notice via text of interview on 10/02/12

Day 38 - 08/30/12 - Received interview notice hard copy

Day 65 - 09/24/12 - Notice via text of I-131 approval

Day 71 - 10/02/12 - Interview

Day 71 - 10/02/12 - Text messages of APPROVAL of I-130 and I-485 - Card in Production

Day 78 - 10/09/12 - Received Welcome Notice

Day 80 - 10/11/12 - Received Conditional Green Card

Removal of Conditions: Day 00 - 07/07/14 - Sent I-751

Day 03 - 07/10/14 - Confirmation from USPS that package was received in California

Day 07 - 07/14/14 - Check cleared

Day 07 - 07/14/14 - Received NOA (dated 07/10/14)

Day 14 - 07/21/14 - Received biometrics appointment notice (dated 07/17/14 for appointment on 08/01/14)

Day 18 - 07/25/14 - Completed biometrics via successful walk-in at Columbus, OH office (We were the only ones there...again!)

Day 38 - 08/14/14 - Text message of APPROVAL of 1-751 - Card in Production

Day 43 - 08/19/14 - Notice via text indicating card has been mailed

Day 44 - 08/20/14 - Notice via text with USPS tracking number

Day 46 - 08/22/14 - Received Permanent Green Card

Naturalization: Day 00 - 08/21/15 - Sent N-400

Day 03 - 08/24/15 - Confirmation from USPS that package was received in Arizona

Day 07 - 08/28/15 - Check cleared

Day 10 - 08/31/15 - Acceptance confirmation text and email

Day 14 - 09/04/15 - Received NOA (dated 08/28/15)

Day 24 - 09/14/15 - Received biometrics appointment notice (dated 09/05/15 for appointment on 09/21/15)

Day 28 - 09/18/15 - Completed biometrics via successful walk-in at Columbus, OH office

Day 32 - 09/22/15 - Notice via text and email indicating in line for testing and interview

Day 35 - 09/25/15 - Notice via text and email indicating interview is scheduled

Day 41 - 10/01/15 - Received interview appointment notice (dated 09/28/15 for appointment on 11/03/15)
Day 73 - 11/03/15 - Interview

Day 74 - 11/04/15 - Text message of APPROVAL of N-400 - Oath Ceremony Scheduled

Day 75 - 11/05/15 - Received Oath Ceremony appointment notice (dated 11/04/15 for appointment on 11/17/15)

Day 87 - 11/17/15 - Oath Ceremony - US CITIZEN

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Congo DR

Wow Im sorry to hear about that ,it seems like people from Jordan are having similar situations.

I-129F sent:06/06/2014

Package Accepted:06/09/2014

NOA1(EMail & Text):06/12/2014

Hardcopy Received(Mail):06/14/2014

Service Request Submitted:10/30/2014

Alien Registration number changed:11/04/2014


NOA2(Hardcopy Received):12/26/2014

NVC Arrived:1/06/2015

NVC Left:1/21/2015

Sent to the Embassy:1/22/2015

Embassy Received:1/26/2015

Medical Date:01/30/2015

Interview Date :02/18/2015

Visa in Hand:3/11/2015

Marriage Date :04/06/215



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