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  1. 1. If you found out that your immigrating SO likes to sleeps on the same side of the bed as you currently do.. Would you be..

    • Willing to give up your favourite side to your SO considering they have just given up their entire life to be with you
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    • Not be willing to give it up.. the SO should suck it up and get used to it
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    • Toss a coin to see who wins it
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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: India
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Had a conversation with my SO the other day, and found out that we both like to sleep on the same side of the best (the left side).. we kinda joked out who would have to give up the left side.. we are still 5 months away before she get's here.. but thought it was an interesting question about if the SO who live here in the States would be willing to give up somthing this trival to make their SO's adjust that much easier..

In the end.. I think I would give up the left side for my wife

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Filed: Other Country: India
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:lol: Funny poll

Of course I picked, "Willing to give up your favourite side to your SO considering they have just given up their entire life to be with you"

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I don't care what side of the bed I sleep on and neither does he. We change around all the time!

same here....except I prefer to sleep on the side of the bed NOT closest to the door. Maybe I watched to many scary movies in the past, lt him be closer to the door where the intruder comes in :P

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I have no idea what side of the bed i like to sleep on :lol:

I think I always used to sleep in the middle of the bed....

and I notice that I like to sleep on the side away from the door, if possible.... I guess in case someone comes in they will have to go through hubby first :whistle:

hubby also likes to swtich sides all the time, although he hasn't done that in awhile....

I don't care what side of the bed I sleep on and neither does he. We change around all the time!

same here....except I prefer to sleep on the side of the bed NOT closest to the door. Maybe I watched to many scary movies in the past, lt him be closer to the door where the intruder comes in :P

:lol:

I posted my response before I read the other posts...

at least I know I am not the only crazy one :lol:

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I voted that we would flip a coin! But mostly because that is how we would joke about it!

Honestly if it were a serious issue between us I would allow him to choose. Nothing to lose sleep over! *grin*

We just kinda happened to sleep where we do. No one picked!

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I am a wife!! Whoa this is weird!

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It doesn't matter which side of the bed I sleep on. However, in keeping with the poll, I would have given up my side of the bed for my husband.

LOL, reminds me of a question on here a while back about bathroom tissue.....over or under.

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I have no idea what side of the bed i like to sleep on :lol:

I think I always used to sleep in the middle of the bed....

and I notice that I like to sleep on the side away from the door, if possible.... I guess in case someone comes in they will have to go through hubby first :whistle:

hubby also likes to swtich sides all the time, although he hasn't done that in awhile....

I don't care what side of the bed I sleep on and neither does he. We change around all the time!

same here....except I prefer to sleep on the side of the bed NOT closest to the door. Maybe I watched to many scary movies in the past, lt him be closer to the door where the intruder comes in :P

:lol:

I posted my response before I read the other posts...

at least I know I am not the only crazy one :lol:

:lol: VJ- the place you come to find you are never alone!

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we both like the left side... there was no question... i happily gave it up

most often tho, we both wind up on the same 2/3rds of the bed, because both of us sleep better in each others arms

"True love is falling in love with your best friend,

and only then, will you find the meaning of happiness."

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I have cubital tunnel syndrome* in my right elbow, so if I sleep on the right side I can't snuggle my husband because I need to have my right arm extended (I used to have to wear a brace to break the habit of bending it, but now I've gotten over it). So that wasn't even up for discussion.

*It's like carpal tunnel except: (1) it's a different nerve so it affects the nerves to a different part of your hand, (2) it gets trapped in the elbow and not in the wrist, and (3) it's caused by sleeping with your elbows bent tight and/or spending a lot of time leaning on your elbows, not by repetitive stress.

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I have no idea what side of the bed i like to sleep on :lol:

I think I always used to sleep in the middle of the bed....

and I notice that I like to sleep on the side away from the door, if possible.... I guess in case someone comes in they will have to go through hubby first :whistle:

hubby also likes to swtich sides all the time, although he hasn't done that in awhile....

I don't care what side of the bed I sleep on and neither does he. We change around all the time!

same here....except I prefer to sleep on the side of the bed NOT closest to the door. Maybe I watched to many scary movies in the past, lt him be closer to the door where the intruder comes in :P

:lol:

I posted my response before I read the other posts...

at least I know I am not the only crazy one :lol:

:lol: VJ- the place you come to find you are never alone!

:thumbs::lol:

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Netherlands
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I always sleep on the right side here & at d' Netherlands. He is so nice that he let me pick which side I wanted to sleep... because I told him otherwise I would have nightmares :whistle: (Is that consider a bribe lol :innocent: )

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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I don't care about sides, I care about being far away from the door, always, no matter which side. We got lucky because Charles likes to sleep closest to both bathroom and bedroom door. :thumbs:



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*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
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*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
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