k-1 big stress!

[Lemon75 7]

And once you get your NOA1 you'll be constantly checking Igor's list to see what dates they are approving!! I'm an Igor's list junkie!!

Yeah me too, all the way. My advice is as the other wise poster said: stay busy, stay organized, and stay calm. Talk a lot, take up hobbies (and do not give up your current ones), talk a lot on the phone/email/chat etc. It will go by faster that way, and also make you a lot closer. Wedding planning is another smart way to stay busy, because it takes awhile finding everything that you are looking for.

[chami123 5]

This is great advice. I think my stress level has gone through the roof since I joined VJ as I keep checking Igor's list all the time.

me too

[chami123 5]

definately but sometimes my fiance is not making it easy for me, i swear he be stressing the hell out of me for little things, if i'm tired i go to bed without texting him, the next day he will send me a text a i see u didnt send me a good night text, and start giving me attitude when i ask him, whats wrong ooh i see u not into me any more like ####### really

[Joanne and Adam 15]

definately but sometimes my fiance is not making it easy for me, i swear he be stressing the hell out of me for little things, if i'm tired i go to bed without texting him, the next day he will send me a text a i see u didnt send me a good night text, and start giving me attitude when i ask him, whats wrong ooh i see u not into me any more like ####### really

Hey, its good that he cares so much!! My fiance is useless with paperwork and getting things done on time, I wish he'd be on my back a bit more about this! Its going to be difficult for both of you but the key thing is communication. Make sure you let each other know how you're feeling to keep a strong relationship. Include him as much as you can with the whole process so that he knows what's going on too. You guys are in the same boat as everyone on this website and in the end it will work out for you too Its a tough journey but definitely a great experience for both of you and a chance to see how strong your relationship truly is!

Please don't get too stressed, try to find something to occupy your mind.

[Anvi 5]

man i thought after sending the package that the stress would be over, i swear i feels like the stress as just began, i keep checking my email to see if i can an email from uscis about no1, im so

I have a head breaking pain for three days now!

[lagemela23 1]

Hello Chami.

This is a big long way, because the process it is so long, after the Noa1 approve it is at least 6 or more months to wait,so we need a lot of love and patience in this, in my case we still waiting our Noa2 and ii is 5 months and 6 day waiting,so ,it is so stressful but we have to do this for our love be with us, at least we have this amazing group support.take care and keep going!!!

[chami123 5]

Hey, its good that he cares so much!! My fiance is useless with paperwork and getting things done on time, I wish he'd be on my back a bit more about this! Its going to be difficult for both of you but the key thing is communication. Make sure you let each other know how you're feeling to keep a strong relationship. Include him as much as you can with the whole process so that he knows what's going on too. You guys are in the same boat as everyone on this website and in the end it will work out for you too Its a tough journey but definitely a great experience for both of you and a chance to see how strong your relationship truly is!

Please don't get too stressed, try to find something to occupy your mind.

[chami123 5]

Hello Chami.

This is a big long way, because the process it is so long, after the Noa1 approve it is at least 6 or more months to wait,so we need a lot of love and patience in this, in my case we still waiting our Noa2 and ii is 5 months and 6 day waiting,so ,it is so stressful but we have to do this for our love be with us, at least we have this amazing group support.take care and keep going!!!

wow i feel for you guys

[bingowashisnameoh 17]

OMG! its crazy, i've been looking at price tickets and its ridiculous, i don't know if its because american airline made that merger the prices r ski high.....I really wanna go see my baby its been 5 month since we saw each other.

try budgetair.com i would encourage you to stay away from the major airline websites....unless it's a steal of a deal.

[chami123 5]

Got my case number today no1, now for the big wait

try budgetair.com i would encourage you to stay away from the major airline websites....unless it's a steal of a deal.

thanks i will look into it

[dd215 9]

It doesn't really end until like 3 years or more when the person becomes a US citizen.

After the K-1 is the AOS then the ROC then Citizenship. The whole thing is stressful. Just have to find ways to relax around it.

To me it ends when we are finally together. The AOS and all that stuff we can handle, as long as we're together. The long distance thing really sucks! :-(