i could not make an eye contact with councelor when i had tears in my eyes.Is it the cause they put me on AP?

[imranjenny 1]

While i had my interview at US consulate Islamabad.She was very rude with me and was treating me like i was a criminal and I did a crime that i married to my wife while she is 12 years older than me and was divorced.it brought tears in my eyes and at that point i could not make eye contact to her at that time.after 70 questions she put me on AP.Is this why because i could not make an eye contact with her while she was disgracing our relationship. please let me know how western people think about maintaining eye contact.

[reese1 68]

Most feel if you can not maintain eye contact you are lying or hiding something. Although this may not have been the reason for her putting you on AP. But look at it this way she did not deny you so there is still hope. Don't let this discourage you just be patient. Best of luck to you.

[hamigirl710 112]

While i had my interview at US consulate Islamabad.She was very rude with me and was treating me like i was a criminal and I did a crime that i married to my wife while she is 12 years older than me and was divorced.it brought tears in my eyes and at that point i could not make eye contact to her at that time.after 70 questions she put me on AP.Is this why because i could not make an eye contact with her while she was disgracing our relationship. please let me know how western people think about maintaining eye contact.

I work for a state government agency. When I am interviewing clients I assess many things. I assess their body language, eye contact, speech control, and answers to my questions. There are so many factors in interviewing that I do not think eye contact will make or break your process. Eye contact is good but if it is not cultural for you to do then they should understand this. Inshallah your AP will be fast and you can be with your loved one soon! Good Luck!

[imranjenny 1]

Most feel if you can not maintain eye contact you are lying or hiding something. Although this may not have been the reason for her putting you on AP. But look at it this way she did not deny you so there is still hope. Don't let this discourage you just be patient. Best of luck to you.

Thanks for quick and nice answer thanks.

[imranjenny 1]

I work for a state government agency. When I am interviewing clients I assess many things. I assess their body language, eye contact, speech control, and answers to my questions. There are so many factors in interviewing that I do not think eye contact will make or break your process. Eye contact is good but if it is not cultural for you to do then they should understand this. Inshallah your AP will be fast and you can be with your loved one soon! Good Luck!

thanks.hoping for being togather.

[dwheels76 5,463]

They know you are nervous and they also do things to intimidate. But really All (well probably 99%) of all Pakistan men and most women go into mandatory AP. I am sure the eye contact has nothing to do with it.

What exactly did she say about your case? Usually they say your case is fine, we just have to do some checks.

Here is the thread for Islamabad AP. Go here you will get alot of help and information for those going through it.

Sorry but it will be okay.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/343005-new-islamabad-ap-tracker/

[aamirpearl 47]

While i had my interview at US consulate Islamabad.She was very rude with me and was treating me like i was a criminal and I did a crime that i married to my wife while she is 12 years older than me and was divorced.it brought tears in my eyes and at that point i could not make eye contact to her at that time.after 70 questions she put me on AP.Is this why because i could not make an eye contact with her while she was disgracing our relationship. please let me know how western people think about maintaining eye contact.

sorry to hear this, i hope it will end with a good news later ....