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for sometime now my relationship had been going down hill. it was obvious he was cheating, but i tried to not let my suspicions get the best of me. point of the story is last Monday, he left me he literally moved into a house with some lady and her three kids, and paid the down payment with money that he begged me to send him. some people warned me that the money he was asking me for might be for that so i refused to send it at first, but he swore to god and everything that he loved that he would never do that to me, and as soon as i sent him the money he moved in with her. i cried alot atfirsr but surprsingly im beginning to see things in a new light, and i realize that i have not been happy for sometime, and it was because of him. now i feel happier than ever and i pray to god to keep helping me stay strong. for all of those who are still waiting for immigration to get back to you goodluck, wish you guys the best!

p.s i have been in love with this person since i was 12, and i am now about to turn 24. i have dedicated my life to him, in so many ways, and the way he repaid me was taking my money. and calling me a piece of ####, while i was actually pregnant with his unborn son....i lost the baby by the way.

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So sorry to hear that. God bless.

USCIS Petition(s) Filed

Form I-130: Petition for Alien Relative (mother)

Date I-130 Sent : (2012-02-14)

Date I-130 NOA1 (Receipt)via email : (2012-02-21)

Date I-130 NOA1 (hard copy Receipt)via mail : (2012-02-28)

Date I-130 NOA2 (Receipt)via email : (2012-06-11)

Date I-130 NOA2 (hard copy Receipt)via mail : (2012-06-14)

Date Package Received By NVC : (2012-07-02)

ds3032(Choice of Address and Agent for Immigrant Visa Applicants): sent from mother's email address on 8/3/12. Approved on 8/10/12

AOS paid 8/5/12, IV paid 8/23/12.

ds230,i864ez,aos and iv receipt,documents(6 last pay stubs,job letter,beneficiary's birth certificate(certified and legalized),2 2x2 photos,police report(certified),w2 and transcripts from 2009-2011,copy of beneficiary passport.8/23/12

checklist received from NVC on 8/30/12- missing petioner's documents(marriage certificate,birth certificate,2011 transcript).

checklist sent to NVC by air on 9/1/12 to arrive on 9/4/12.

check list recieved on email 9/13/12 ( petioner INEXTENSA birth certificate and 2011 taxes transcript directly from IRS).

2011 taxes transcript (directly from IRS) sent on 9/12/12.Arrived 9/14/12

petioner birth certificate (INEXTENSA)sent on 9/13/12. Arrived 9/14/12

CASE COMPLETE 09/25/12

10/03/12 INTERVIEW assigned for 11/19/12 received letter via email later on in the day.

Medical done 11/06/12

Visa approved 11/19/12

VISA ON HAND 11/29/12 ( DELIVERED HOME)

POE 12/08/12- SAN JUAN,PUERTO RICO

F2A LPR petitioning for minor children

PD 8/5/13 , NOA2 8/27/13, CASE COMPLETE 3/5/14

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awwwwww sorry to hear that friend,but you dont have to waste your time with that kind of person, he's not worth it and besides maybe he's not the right guy for you.Maybe your suffering stress right now but dont let yourself to get down instead continue your life ina fresh ways without him in your mind, and try to adjust,he's not really worth it :( I got sad when I read some stories like thses :(

OH MARY CONCEIVED WITHOUT SIN, PLS PRAY FOR US WHO HAVE RECOURSE TO thee

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for sometime now my relationship had been going down hill. it was obvious he was cheating, but i tried to not let my suspicions get the best of me. point of the story is last Monday, he left me he literally moved into a house with some lady and her three kids, and paid the down payment with money that he begged me to send him. some people warned me that the money he was asking me for might be for that so i refused to send it at first, but he swore to god and everything that he loved that he would never do that to me, and as soon as i sent him the money he moved in with her. i cried alot atfirsr but surprsingly im beginning to see things in a new light, and i realize that i have not been happy for sometime, and it was because of him. now i feel happier than ever and i pray to god to keep helping me stay strong. for all of those who are still waiting for immigration to get back to you goodluck, wish you guys the best!

p.s i have been in love with this person since i was 12, and i am now about to turn 24. i have dedicated my life to him, in so many ways, and the way he repaid me was taking my money. and calling me a piece of ####, while i was actually pregnant with his unborn son....i lost the baby by the way.

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Im sorry to hear that :( he don't deserve you, as what youve said your just about to turn 24. Your still young, you can find someone better than him.

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It's bitter sweet .... I'm sad that I spent do much time on trying to get him here.... But I'm happy that it all over no more wishing no more crying no more depression .... and no more waiting I va finally move on with my life feels pretty good :)

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Hello my name is Wendy I know that we dont know each other but couldn't help but to write to you.

So sorry to hear of what you have gone thru.But stay strong and ask God for guidance he knows what is best for you.

I hope that you truly find the trueperson who will Respect,Love and Honor you.

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It's bitter sweet .... I'm sad that I spent do much time on trying to get him here.... But I'm happy that it all over no more wishing no more crying no more depression .... and no more waiting I va finally move on with my life feels pretty good :)

thats good you have to move on sis, either way yes they are right youre still young anyway keep the faith up ;)the right guy for you is just around the corner :)

OH MARY CONCEIVED WITHOUT SIN, PLS PRAY FOR US WHO HAVE RECOURSE TO thee

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Hello there:

I do not pretend to know you or your situation, but it seems like you got financially used and emotionally abused. I also know that it is easier said than done, but don't waste anything else on someone that clearly is not woth it. What goes around, comes around, karma can not be escaped.

It might not be worth much, but be thankful that it happened now and not after all the trouble, the waiting, the frustration, the expence, etc. of going through the process.

Sorry you are hurting, my heart goes out to you.

PS. We men or Dominicans are not all the same. Men like him give the rest of us a bad rep. Hope you find someone that will cherish you for the person you are.

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Sad sorry.... But God knows and understand why things happen. Breaks my heart to see our own people doing this type of things. But at the end of the day Thank god it happen like this. And as for your unborn it wasn't that babies time to be in this world nor with a "father figure" like your man. God doesn't give us things we are can not handle. I'm glad you where able to recoup as fast. That was the inner Lord by your side. As you stated "you're about to turn 24" enjoy this time cause one day he will regret what he did!

God Bless you!

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Hello there:

I do not pretend to know you or your situation, but it seems like you got financially used and emotionally abused. I also know that it is easier said than done, but don't waste anything else on someone that clearly is not woth it. What goes around, comes around, karma can not be escaped.

It might not be worth much, but be thankful that it happened now and not after all the trouble, the waiting, the frustration, the expence, etc. of going through the process.

Sorry you are hurting, my heart goes out to you.

PS. We men or Dominicans are not all the same. Men like him give the rest of us a bad rep. Hope you find someone that will cherish you for the person you are.

I could not agree more with his last statement!! I for one feel really embarrassed when I hear of things that man do let alone a Dominican! But like everyone else stated be strong and move on. He never deserved you! He's an idiot and soon enough he will realize it. Treat this guy like a cancer! Tu no lo necesitas Para nada! I know i might sound kind mean Pedro las cosas pasan por razone! Time williams heal everytning!,

Good luck to you!

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Yea.... It's a shame because he wanted the baby so bad we were both always sad that we couldn't have a Baby, and when we finally did that's how he repaid me..... If he fell In love with someone else I understand but he manipulaated me, I changed my number I do not speak to him at all

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