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[johnny828 1]

Hi, my fiance in US is filing for divorce right now, will be done in june, can i file K1 right after her divorce is done? We knew each other for along time, after she decide to file for the divorce we decide to file the K1 for me to be with her. So can i file right after her divorce is final? We been talk everyday since she move out with her kids, how to proof our relation is real? She is coming to meet me in june, is the letter and messages we send to each other before her divorce is final can be use to as proof for relationship? we gonna have engagement party when she come over here, can i use that as a proof? Please help.

[skiptex 225]

Hi, my fiance in US is filing for divorce right now, will be done in june, can i file K1 right after her divorce is done?

We knew each other for along time, after she decide to file for the divorce we decide to file the K1 for me to be with her.

So can i file right after her divorce is final?

We been talk everyday since she move out with her kids, how to proof our relation is real?

She is coming to meet me in june, is the letter and messages we send to each other before her divorce is final can be use to as proof for relationship?

we gonna have engagement party when she come over here, can i use that as a proof? Please help.

first question.

have the both of you already met? what country are you in?

[johnny828 1]

first question.

have the both of you already met? what country are you in?

I met her when i was 16, and i lived in taiwan, she is us citizen. she came here to meet me last august.

[skiptex 225]

I met her when i was 16, and i lived in taiwan, she is us citizen. she came here to meet me last august.

sorry.. i messed up my question.. have you met in the last two years.. if you met in August 2011.. then that is good

there are several threads/questions about how soon after divorce to file..

i can't look for them at moment.. and i don't remember what was said.. but waiting Till divorce decree is in hand is something you want first

[Harpa Timsah 13,263]

Make sure there is no waiting period after divorce before remarriage in her state. In some states you cannot get married for 6 months after your divorce is final, so you could not send in the K-1 until then. A divorce followed by an immediate engagement will add scrutiny to you relationship.

[skiptex 225]

A divorce followed by an immediate engagement will add scrutiny to you relationship.

[stefan y karen 23]

A divorce followed by an immediate engagement will add scrutiny to you relationship.

Especially from her ex-husband...

[johnny828 1]

I check there is no waiting period after divorce in california. Course after filing divorce have to wait 6 months for the divorce to finalize. My question is , can the letter and cards and messages we send each other after filing divorce but before finalize, used as proof of our relationship? she move out since november, we chat everyday, she will come here after she get her final divorce paper, and only engage here in taiwan , and wait for the K1 to pass then we will really get marry in the state. that will be another 6 to 8 months pass, so that's not getting marry right away.

[stefan y karen 23]

Again, I am pretty sure that you can use all of your communications both prior to the divorce and after the divorce as proof of the relationship. There may be additional scrutiny, but they are still evidence of a bona fide relationship--even if she was married at the time. The bigger risk, in my opinion, is if her ex-husband gets access to these documents and then uses them as evidence of infidelity and seeks to reduce his level of support or requests support from her based on these documents. I am NOT a divorce attorney, but I see that as a risk.