I FEEL STUCK!!!!

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

She does and I wish I could do something to help her.

Most of the people here do. I certainly know that the men here would only be too happy to give him the bum's rush.

[Brother Hesekiel 2,236]

The marriage was stillborn, so there's nothing an Imam, Muhamed, or Allah himself could do to animate it.

The AOS will die if she does not show up.

Once he has left the Land of the Brave and Free, she either files for annulment as it has not been consummated or for divorce in absentia.

I don't know what he knows about the intricacies of the Green Card process, but she can't be alone with him anymore to avoid him finding the hidden VAWA backdoor.

[Fandango 1,440]

What do you need advice from an Imam about? At the end of the day, read your own words. Stop worrying about this bum (who clearly doesn't reciprocate) and worry about YOURSELF.

This is not about culture. This is about being played.

It's self-preservation time, Milky. Be safe.

Edited May 16, 2011 by Anita Cocktail

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

I hope everything is OK, with Milky. Haven't heard from her in a few days.

[Darnell 8,480]

Sorry to step in late-ish, but

you've got 2 issues,

--immigration

--divorce

As is, yer seconds away from an adjustment of status interview - and IF you have no wish to continue with the adjustment of status PROCESS, withdraw (in writing, via a letter) the I-864, affadavit of support, anytime between NOW and interview day

The annulment process varies by state, and is best handled at the county courthouse.

Suggest to him (with a Muallah/Imam at your elbow, in person) that he leave the house, not to come back, you refuse to be the sponser for his immigration paperwork. Perhaps the Muallah from the local mosque can find him lodgings whilst he prepares to leave the USA.

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Sorry to step in late-ish, but

you've got 2 issues,

--immigration

--divorce

As is, yer seconds away from an adjustment of status interview - and IF you have no wish to continue with the adjustment of status PROCESS, withdraw (in writing, via a letter) the I-864, affadavit of support, anytime between NOW and interview day

The annulment process varies by state, and is best handled at the county courthouse.

Suggest to him (with a Muallah/Imam at your elbow, in person) that he leave the house, not to come back, you refuse to be the sponser for his immigration paperwork. Perhaps the Muallah from the local mosque can find him lodgings whilst he prepares to leave the USA.

That is what I've posted and I believe that we are all in agreement on what Milky should do. The Imam's role is to facilitate his removal from the house and help with housing arrangements until he leaves. Each post, I'd like to think, gives her a bit more courage for what is a very painful and daunting task.