BEFORE THE INTERVIEW

[sosoka 0]

Hi everybody!!!

I am just few days before the interview and my blood pressure goes high and higher!!! Those days i am working with the evidences that I have to bring for the interview and I just saw that I have to print 350 pages only!!! Are they going to check every page?! I am going to use as evidence the messages from facebook that we were sending with my fiance all those years. I dont know what else to do! I dont feel stress YET! but i need your support, your experiences, your advices, your wishes and your positive energy so I can feel power and strong enough for the biggest interview in my life

thank you

[JimVaPhuong 4,864]

Hi everybody!!!

I am just few days before the interview and my blood pressure goes high and higher!!! Those days i am working with the evidences that I have to bring for the interview and I just saw that I have to print 350 pages only!!! Are they going to check every page?! I am going to use as evidence the messages from facebook that we were sending with my fiance all those years. I dont know what else to do! I dont feel stress YET! but i need your support, your experiences, your advices, your wishes and your positive energy so I can feel power and strong enough for the biggest interview in my life

thank you

There is no way they will look at every paper. They simply do not have that much time to spend with you. However, since you have no idea in advance what evidence they are going to ask for, it's a good idea to have an assortment of evidence printed and ready to present to them.

By the way, if you have a lot of messages or online chat sessions then you don't need to print them all. If they do ask to see this evidence then they will only flip through them, and perhaps read one or two. It would be best if the one they choose to read is one that paints a picture of a couple with a serious relationship. This means it's ok to cherry pick your evidence, and print only the best stuff. Leave out messages or chat sessions that don't help you, like ones that are boring, and ones that might potentially give them information you'd prefer they didn't have, such as you and your fiance preparing for an interview subject that you're having a difficult time with. If you print only the best stuff then it won't matter which ones they choose at random to read.

Edited April 10, 2011 by JimVaPhuong

[Tim/Mav 305]

There is no way they will look at every paper. They simply do not have that much time to spend with you. However, since you have no idea in advance what evidence they are going to ask for, it's a good idea to have an assortment of evidence printed and ready to present to them.

By the way, if you have a lot of messages or online chat sessions then you don't need to print them all. If they do ask to see this evidence then they will only flip through them, and perhaps read one or two. It would be best if the one they choose to read is one that paints a picture of a couple with a serious relationship. This means it's ok to cherry pick your evidence, and print only the best stuff. Leave out messages or chat sessions that don't help you, like ones that are boring, and ones that might potentially give them information you'd prefer they didn't have, such as you and your fiance preparing for an interview subject that you're having a difficult time with. If you print only the best stuff then it won't matter which ones they choose at random to read.

Good Advice Jim, I was kinda waiting for you answer this. I'm not qualified for this.

They are so far in the process but had several RFE(s) and a waiting time. But, The Noa2 is approved. I don't know jack S. about Greece. I don't even know the Philipphines and how they work as well.

I agree, the Consular will NOT read 350 pages of conversations. But, I did notice that the NOA2 was approved 1/14/2011. Now that would fall under proof of a continuing relationship from that point on if I'm right.

Facebook is OK and do print them. No need to go back since the approval of the NOA2. ( 1/14/2011 ) Did you ever use Yahoo and save Archive that record dates and the conversations.

Jim is right.... They don't want to see 350 pages of Love stories. Whatever you prepare, edit them. (Black-out the odd stuff)

What you really need to know is about him and his family for the interview. I have an idea you do. Simple things, what does he do for a living, birthdate, hense, do you know your fiance.

Don't take my advice. take Jim's... Good luck you have 5 days to prepare.. You will do fine

[sosoka 0]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP

[sosoka 0]

Good Advice Jim, I was kinda waiting for you answer this. I'm not qualified for this.

They are so far in the process but had several RFE(s) and a waiting time. But, The Noa2 is approved. I don't know jack S. about Greece. I don't even know the Philipphines and how they work as well.

I agree, the Consular will NOT read 350 pages of conversations. But, I did notice that the NOA2 was approved 1/14/2011. Now that would fall under proof of a continuing relationship from that point on if I'm right.

Facebook is OK and do print them. No need to go back since the approval of the NOA2. ( 1/14/2011 ) Did you ever use Yahoo and save Archive that record dates and the conversations.

Jim is right.... They don't want to see 350 pages of Love stories. Whatever you prepare, edit them. (Black-out the odd stuff)

What you really need to know is about him and his family for the interview. I have an idea you do. Simple things, what does he do for a living, birthdate, hense, do you know your fiance.

Don't take my advice. take Jim's... Good luck you have 5 days to prepare.. You will do fine

I have plenty of conversations by skype. That i am doing right now, choosing the best parts.

thank you Jim & Tim

thank you

[Tim/Mav 305]

You go Girl! Good Luck.

[Utha 10]

You will make it. Dont worry. Just dont be nervous in front of them. Stay calm. My interviewer even didnt look even in a single look to all of my proof of ongoing relationship. Good luck!!!!