Second Fiance Visa Question

[John245 0]

Ok people, there is no need to be giving me any moral advice about my private life. It is my business what I do in my private life and how I handle things. All I asked for was for information about the process in this particular situation. Anyways, FYI I do live and work in Macedonia and do own property, so I really have no need to go anywhere. Thanks to everyone.

[Kristy S 13]

i think most of us don't understand why you would want to marry someone you can't be honest with? that's what marriage is about. you can't really share your life with someone if you are hiding things from them.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Thank you for the answers.

FYI, when asking about this they typically do not do so "gently". They are not discrete and have no intention of it. They will try so shock someone anytime they can. You know how this would be presented...possibilities

So what are you, his 3rd or 4th Macedonia wife?

Did you know he was still having sex with another woman from Macedonia when he met you...oh wait, no, maybe he had divorced her first. What do you think of that?

what will you do when he divorces you like his last wife from Macedonia?

How can you be sure he knows what he is doing this time?

So you not only need to tell her, you need to tell her ALL ABOUT it. The whens, the wheres, the why-fors. She will need to be able to answer questions easily, matter-of-factly and be able to calmly dispute any false information presented to her. "Did you know he was still married to another Macedonian woman we he met you?" She can answer. "That is not correct. he was divorced from her 3 months before he met me" THEY know when you were divorced...if SHE doesn't, it is a problem. But if you were not divorced before you met her, they know that also, so her answers need to be CORRECT and it needs to be acceptable to her and not a problem.