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[^_^ 5,021]

NOT GIVING A ###### IS RAPE.

[Peikko 1,575]

Don't you start!

[mawilson 2,133]

Don't you start!

No, seriously, one can have sex out of boredom and not be into it.

"No problem, honey. Have your filthy way with me, just don't wake me up."

[Amby 490]

I've decided all men need to be more manly and take all the sex they deserve!

[Peikko 1,575]

No, seriously, one can have sex out of boredom and not be into it.

"No problem, honey. Have your filthy way with me, just don't wake me up."

I get what you are saying, but I do not think tt is relevant in the casual sex scenario. We are talking two strangers who are out to get some. Sure, it might not work out, sexual chemistry isn't a given but the point is that when an adult man goes out to get laid, he doesn't go out on the assumption that he will get some and not make an effort to give some in return - apart from anything else a dry ####### is not a very welcoming place.

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...a dry ####### is not a very welcoming place.

[Amby 490]

yeah I'm sure a dry ####### is not a very happy one

[Peikko 1,575]

I am quite aware of the use of gels and lubricants to 'ease' a dry #######. However, in my experience, they are only required in a non prostutute scenario when a woman has lost sexual interest in a partner but hasn't got around to ending the relationship. If a woman who went to bed with a guy on a casual basis couldn't get the juices flowing, I think she would just call it quits, but this might need another poll.

[Amby 490]

Cleo & the vaginal dryness poll

there are some other reasons why women don't lubricate. medical reasons.

[Ban Hammer 12,857]

I am quite aware of the use of gels and lubricants to 'ease' a dry #######. However, in my experience, they are only required in a non prostutute scenario when a woman has lost sexual interest in a partner but hasn't got around to ending the relationship. If a woman who went to bed with a guy on a casual basis couldn't get the juices flowing, I think she would just call it quits, but this might need another poll.

in your experience?

Cleo & the vaginal dryness poll

there are some other reasons why women don't lubricate. medical reasons.

that's something i was gonna say

[Peikko 1,575]

Cleo & the vaginal dryness poll

there are some other reasons why women don't lubricate. medical reasons.

Point taken. I concede that one.

[Amby 490]

google "causes of vaginal dryness". why is it always me who does these types of searches?

[Peikko 1,575]

in your experience?

that's something i was gonna say

Yes Charles, when I was young and inexperienced I allowed a relationship to linger a little longer than it should have - the guy had a fabulous personality, we were great friends but the sex was never great and got worse. No one's fault, just how it was. All part of the learning curve.

[Amby 490]

What causes vaginal dryness?

Normally, the walls of the ####### stay lubricated with a thin layer of clear fluid. The hormone estrogen helps maintain that fluid and keeps the lining of the ####### healthy, thick, and elastic. During menopause, the drop in estrogen levels reduces the amount of moisture available. It also makes the ####### thinner and less elastic. This is called vaginal atrophy.

In addition to menopause, estrogen levels can drop from:

• Childbirth and breastfeeding
• Radiation or chemotherapy treatment for cancer
• Surgical removal of the ovaries
• Anti-estrogen medications used to treat uterine fibroids or endometriosis

Other causes of vaginal dryness include:

• Sjögren's syndrome (an autoimmune disorder that attacks cells in the body that produce moisture)
• Allergy and cold medications and certain antidepressants
• Douching
• Lack of enough foreplay before sexual intercourse

No matter what the cause, vaginal dryness can be extremely uncomfortable. It can lead to itching, burning, and painful intercourse.

http://women.webmd.com/vaginal-dryness-causes-moisturizing-treatments

[Peikko 1,575]

google "causes of vaginal dryness". why is it always me who does these types of searches?

Inquiring minds