cheating american husband.........

[Britthaven 0]

Thanks for all your input!i just got my american citizenship last august.i'm here in north carolina.which is i believe has a very strong value when it comes to family thing.this is one of the conservative state in us,i think.i was able to talked directly to the social services"CHILDSUPPORT-ENFORCEMENT AGENT",and they said that they gonna have a meeting with their dept.lawyer about jurisdiction,since my husband is still in pinas.

>and yes,my mother-in-law is keep telling me that,she hopes that her son is gonna realize his mistake before its too late...

thanks again.

[rms 0]

Hi,everyone!

new member here!i'm going to point right away.i need a free legal help and i hope someone here can....

me and my husband agreed that he's going to pinas,to put up a fishing business,since his work here on sale i slow.but to the promised that he's going to stay with my family the whole time that he's in pinas.but to make it shorter....he ended up moving out from my family and he started doing monkey business as well.no phone calls,and he's not letting me know his phone no.and his address!sounds crazy but that's whta he did!but eventually i found out that he met a girl,and that girl become his companion until now.he lft us june 22,he's still there until now...and probably not planning to back.we have a 5year old son!and he's start looking for his daddy!my mother-inlaw is worried too because his the only and yet we don't know where he is!he's just sending us an email when he wants to ask something.so now i have no choice but to file for abandonment and separation.he got our money,so i'm trying to find a free legal help with this matter...i can't believe until now that my husband for almost 7years is going leave me here in the states!i don't have any family here,except friends.and my mother inlaw.he wants to retire in pinas but i told him,that its too early,he's only 45.and the fact that retiring in pinas is not a big joke!we need to be financially stable first.

please,i appreciate any input.

Britthaven

[rms 0]

Most states have a no-fault divorce. You can get the paper work at the city hall in most cases. In Florida the divorce papers cost $16 dollars. Check out your city hall. Once you have the papers send your husban a copy of them. This could be the wake up call he needs. Good luck RMS.

[jroc 0]

Many American Men who visit the Philippines, Have plans to go back and live in Philippines

He will be like a kid in candy store, and basically have almost any woman that he wants. (Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth).

Angeles City, Pampanga Here We Come! Honky Tonk Bar on A. Santos street, directly opposite the Wild Orchid Resort for the 1st stop. The shwirma place opens up at 1330 daily. Let's have a look-see at the Dirty Duck while we wait. Or get that P50 "haircut your hair" at Bong's place.

Never bar fine a girl with wet hair.

NM

I wonder how many "git" your post? You don't like ROADHOUSE.....

[Kurt y Dora 1]

North Carolina is a "NO Fault" Divorce state. It is required to have a one year separation prior to divorce. Any evidence of "being together" during that year period can be grounds to "reset" the clock if one party wants to contest the time period of separation.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

OMG, govt free legal assistance?.. there must be.Her case is under Women's and Child's Rights. Any state/country supporting Human Rights, more so the Bill of Rights..(sorry for sounding preachy ) incorporates this into their Implementing Laws mmm

Old Dominion mentioned above that the government only provides free legal representation in criminal cases through the public defenders office. In a criminal case, you have a RIGHT to an attorney. In a civil case you have no such right. This is because a criminal case involves the government against you, while a civil case usually involves one citizen against another. The government (and taxpayers) are under no obligation to cover the costs of settling disputes between two citizens.

On the other hand, there are private non-profit groups (the Legal Aid Society has been mentioned) that offer free legal advise and assistance. They don't generally provide an attorney to represent you in court - you have to do that yourself - but they will help you with forms, and advise you about the law.

Actually, that is un-true... It's dependent on county suppose.. I know for a fact that my cousin was able to get free legal representation in court due to her income being so low... This was in chicago. I'm not sure who actually provided, but it was court appointed. Her case may have been a little different because there was physical abuse involved...

But your best bet is take a trip to the court house and they would be able to point you in the right direction as they also might have social workers in house for people in similar situations to you...

Individual counties can do whatever they want to do, including providing attorney's for family court cases at taxpayers expense. Lawyers can also do whatever they like, and there may be lawyers in the OP's county that will take a divorce case pro bono in order to gain more courtroom experience.

My comment was in response to the allegation that "Women's and Children's Rights", "Human Rights", or the "Bill of Rights" guaranteed free legal representation in a civil case. There is no resolution by the UNHRC that I'm aware of that guarantees free divorce lawyers. The US Bill of Rights doesn't guarantee it. There is no federal law that guarantees it. And, as far I know, no state laws guarantee it either. If you can get free assistance, by all means take advantage of it, but there is no "right" to a free attorney in a civil case.

[TracyTN 237]

Thanks for all your input!i just got my american citizenship last august.i'm here in north carolina.which is i believe has a very strong value when it comes to family thing.this is one of the conservative state in us,i think.i was able to talked directly to the social services"CHILDSUPPORT-ENFORCEMENT AGENT",and they said that they gonna have a meeting with their dept.lawyer about jurisdiction,since my husband is still in pinas.

>and yes,my mother-in-law is keep telling me that,she hopes that her son is gonna realize his mistake before its too late...

thanks again.

If you are a US citizen, then you don't have to worry about any immigration issues. Just get yourself divorced with some of the help suggested in this thread.

[Kardi_Shian 0]

Hi,everyone!

new member here!i'm going to point right away.i need a free legal help and i hope someone here can....

me and my husband agreed that he's going to pinas,to put up a fishing business,since his work here on sale i slow.but to the promised that he's going to stay with my family the whole time that he's in pinas.but to make it shorter....he ended up moving out from my family and he started doing monkey business as well.no phone calls,and he's not letting me know his phone no.and his address!sounds crazy but that's whta he did!but eventually i found out that he met a girl,and that girl become his companion until now.he lft us june 22,he's still there until now...and probably not planning to back.we have a 5year old son!and he's start looking for his daddy!my mother-inlaw is worried too because his the only and yet we don't know where he is!he's just sending us an email when he wants to ask something.so now i have no choice but to file for abandonment and separation.he got our money,so i'm trying to find a free legal help with this matter...i can't believe until now that my husband for almost 7years is going leave me here in the states!i don't have any family here,except friends.and my mother inlaw.he wants to retire in pinas but i told him,that its too early,he's only 45.and the fact that retiring in pinas is not a big joke!we need to be financially stable first.

please,i appreciate any input.

Britthaven

Hi, I am sorry to hear about your situation. Your husband is a scumbag.

Depends what your current status is and what you want to do with your marriage you have lots option. If you want to file for separation, you can do that and request for spousal and child support. If you want an immediate support you can file an ex parte. You can also file for divorce which you have an advantage because you are here. If you could not serve him because he is not responding and he is out of country you could apply for default. What state are you? You could also sue him because with what he stipulated with the USCIS if he is your sponsor.

If you are in CA, PM me I'm a bit familiar with the CA family law. L'll try to help you.

Good luck.

[NutMagnet 2]

Never bar fine a girl with wet hair.

NM

I wonder how many "git" your post? You don't like ROADHOUSE.....

Not so much anymore since Mark moved back to the states. Great happy hour there, cheese, sausage, crackers and buy one take one. Good place to start the bar hop. "THUN-DER!"

Much of the previous appeal has been destroyed by Dollhouse, Tropix, Crystal Palace and KOREA TOWN. Subic & Baloy Beach area is rockin' even better since the expressway opened!

Cheeers!

NM

Edited October 14, 2009 by NutMagnet

[Britthaven 0]

hi!i'm from north carolina.i'm going to the legal aide office tomorrow.that's my only option right now.

....until now my husband's friends,my firends and his mother,are still can't believe that he would just abandoned us,for a short period of time!he doesn't even bother to call on our son,who is until now,has no idea what his father did to us!and that's what make s me cry most of the time....as a father how could you abandoned your 5 year old son,for just the reason of screwing around with younger girl.and the fact that he left us,to stay for good in my own country!sounds crazy right?!

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Many American Men who visit the Philippines, Have plans to go back and live in Philippines

He will be like a kid in candy store, and basically have almost any woman that he wants. (Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth).

can u pls change ur pic? i mean...wow...3 stooges right?...aw sh^^...ur hopeless? really?

[NutMagnet 2]

Many American Men who visit the Philippines, Have plans to go back and live in Philippines

He will be like a kid in candy store, and basically have almost any woman that he wants. (Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth).

can u pls change ur pic? i mean...wow...3 stooges right?...aw sh^^...ur hopeless? really?

That photo looks OK to me, if you don't like it don't look at it. HOPELESS? Lokkit you & your broken Engrit and a ball and chain besides, really? You are sooooooo much better than anyone else. Na Na Na Na Boo Boo.

Can you even name the 3 Stooges?

[Pinay Wife 47]

Can you even name the 3 Stooges?

Moe Howard, Curly Howard, and Larry Fine.

[NutMagnet 2]

Can you even name the 3 Stooges?

Moe Howard, Curly Howard, and Larry Fine.

VERY GOOD! Now for the championship round, and your chance for that coveted and very special weekly prize!!!

This week up for grabs is the complete collection of CD's from the Sex Bomb Girls, courtesy of BMG Records, a P100 match play coupon at Casino Filipino, plus free admission for 4, plus the driber to Boom na Boom, and P300 in ride tickets to Astro Park, Pampanga, including complementary tryke fare to AND from SM Clark.

Here is the question. Good luck.

Q: On what basis did Arnel Pineda, after admitting to illicit drug usage on You Tube and elsewhere, gain permanent residency in the USA?

Edited October 15, 2009 by NutMagnet

[TracyTN 237]

hi!i'm from north carolina.i'm going to the legal aide office tomorrow.that's my only option right now.

....until now my husband's friends,my firends and his mother,are still can't believe that he would just abandoned us,for a short period of time!he doesn't even bother to call on our son,who is until now,has no idea what his father did to us!and that's what make s me cry most of the time....as a father how could you abandoned your 5 year old son,for just the reason of screwing around with younger girl.and the fact that he left us,to stay for good in my own country!sounds crazy right?!

Good to hear - let us know what Legal Aide tells you.