my fiancee has marks in his arm of a suicide attempt

[visadreamerinlove 0]

I'm worried that my fianceé and I wont be able to get his K1 visa because of this marks... he had a mental breakdown a few years ago when he used to do drugs. He's recovered perfectly now, but marks in his arms are noticeable to anybody. Will he be denied the visa based on those marks? What can I do? He's been medicated Zoloft (antidepressive) and he takes it and he hasnt had any problem since a long time ago.... what should he do? do u think doctors will ask about his marks? and if so what should he say???

im sooo worried... we havent applied for the visa yet cuz we're going for the first time through the gathering of the requirements but now that he read that part of the legislation, we're both deeply worried... I've known him for the last 6 years, we me through the internet, we met this last december in person for the first time, and our love is the truest, I have always supported him and he has supported me, he has been emotionally stable with me all the time, I HAVE NO DOUBT that he's doing well with his medication and his therapy... what do u think will happen???

he's in Spain and I'm in new york, he's an EU citizen....I'm an american..

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

[Hell0W0rld 10]

during his medical exam he will be asked if he has any suicide attempts, it may or may not be a problem, because hurting yourself could be inelgible for the VISA...

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I see more of a problem in the previous drug abuse; as that renders folks inadmissible under US immigration law.

He should be ready to respond to an onslaught of questions during his medical examination; respond truthfully and hope for the best. Be prepared with letters from treating physician stating he poses no risk to himself or others.

Though again, I have seen folks been denied for previous drug abuse.

WHY was this thread moved?

[visadreamerinlove 0]

this is really frustrating... i don't see how his very own past problems should be of anyone's business but himself..... well i needed to vent...

how can they find out he's got those problems in the past?? HE hasn't hurt anybody.. he was just really depressed... and he hasnt taken drugs in the last year and a half, and he's committed not to do it again... why is that of so much relevance?

he has no criminal record... he just made a mistake

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Hey, I hear you. It svcks, but it is the law. --- immigration law is specially invasive in personal matters. We don't have to like it, but we have to go through it.

How can they find out? They will ask questions, he will answer truthfully and deal with them like the adult he is. OR he will lie through his teeth and potentially get caught lying, getting himself into such deep pools of ####### it will not be funny.

But don't get ahead of yourself just yet. so you can learn more about the whole process.

[Hell0W0rld 10]

this is really frustrating... i don't see how his very own past problems should be of anyone's business but himself..... well i needed to vent...

how can they find out he's got those problems in the past?? HE hasn't hurt anybody.. he was just really depressed... and he hasnt taken drugs in the last year and a half, and he's committed not to do it again... why is that of so much relevance?

he has no criminal record... he just made a mistake

sometimes mistakes can come back and bite you in the butt, this is why a person should think it through before commiting to any mistakes..... when he answers questions on the form he should speak the truth, if they have to i am pretty sure they can pull up his medical records....

[moonhunt 1]

Doctor may not have the problem with scars.

But consular officer or USCIS adjudicator might have.

It can be considered as mental illness history, and one of their question asks for this kind of things.

He may need to get doctor's explanation, and it will not be a problem for normal life.

Of course, if he lie during the interview, future immigration status can be voided at any time when USCIS find out that.

I would recommend to hire immigration attorney for this since it is very varied from person to person based on who will conduct interview.

[visadreamerinlove 0]

this is really frustrating... i don't see how his very own past problems should be of anyone's business but himself..... well i needed to vent...

how can they find out he's got those problems in the past?? HE hasn't hurt anybody.. he was just really depressed... and he hasnt taken drugs in the last year and a half, and he's committed not to do it again... why is that of so much relevance?

he has no criminal record... he just made a mistake

sometimes mistakes can come back and bite you in the butt, this is why a person should think it through before commiting to any mistakes..... when he answers questions on the form he should speak the truth, if they have to i am pretty sure they can pull up his medical records....

sir, i really think you are being hurtful... it's one thing to provide me with information it's a whole another thing to put into question somebody's life's decisions jsut because you feel like making a jab at people's lack of judgment in a moment in their lives...

i really hope you will never be in a position where your judgment will prevent you from doing the right thing.... ironically usually people taht say things like those are usually the ones that because of their lack of empathy end up in the most sad situations later on... and then your words will COME BACK AND BITE YOU IN THE BUTT... that's why a person should thing it through before judging so freely somebody's own mistakes...

Doctor may not have the problem with scars.

But consular officer or USCIS adjudicator might have.

It can be considered as mental illness history, and one of their question asks for this kind of things.

He may need to get doctor's explanation, and it will not be a problem for normal life.

Of course, if he lie during the interview, future immigration status can be voided at any time when USCIS find out that.

I would recommend to hire immigration attorney for this since it is very varied from person to person based on who will conduct interview.

thanks! this is all very insightful information!!

[scandal 951]

I see more of a problem in the previous drug abuse; as that renders folks inadmissible under US immigration law.

He should be ready to respond to an onslaught of questions during his medical examination; respond truthfully and hope for the best. Be prepared with letters from treating physician stating he poses no risk to himself or others.

Though again, I have seen folks been denied for previous drug abuse.

WHY was this thread moved?

I agree with Len... my first thought was that the drugs he took is more of an issue than attempted suicide.

Are we talking about illicit or prescription drugs? I'm not sure, but I would guess that abuse of heroin, meth, etc. is seen in a much harsher light than people who, say, abuse prescription pills.

Since you say he has needle marks I'm guessing that he was shooting-up H? That could be a real problem for a visa petition.

I'm glad that he's cleaned himself up and is embarking on a new path in life. You may have hurdles to overcome in his immigration battle, I wish you the best of luck in overcoming them.

[visadreamerinlove 0]

I see more of a problem in the previous drug abuse; as that renders folks inadmissible under US immigration law.

He should be ready to respond to an onslaught of questions during his medical examination; respond truthfully and hope for the best. Be prepared with letters from treating physician stating he poses no risk to himself or others.

Though again, I have seen folks been denied for previous drug abuse.

WHY was this thread moved?

I agree with Len... my first thought was that the drugs he took is more of an issue than attempted suicide.

Are we talking about illicit or prescription drugs? I'm not sure, but I would guess that abuse of heroin, meth, etc. is seen in a much harsher light than people who, say, abuse prescription pills.

Since you say he has needle marks I'm guessing that he was shooting-up H? That could be a real problem for a visa petition.

I'm glad that he's cleaned himself up and is embarking on a new path in life. You may have hurdles to overcome in his immigration battle, I wish you the best of luck in overcoming them.

No he doesn't have needle marks. He was addicted to marihuana. the marks are in his arm for trying to cut his veins with a razor... .. thanks for your good wishes!!!

[Misty1979 0]

I agree with what was said earlier about the drug use being more of a problem. Once he admits to prior drug use, he has to prove that he has been "clean" for three years, and from what you said earlier, it's only been a year and a half.

I think what will likely happen (someone please correct me if I'm wrong,) is he will be denied and will have to wait for the 3 year mark, then file a waiver.

[Hell0W0rld 10]

sir, i really think you are being hurtful... it's one thing to provide me with information it's a whole another thing to put into question somebody's life's decisions jsut because you feel like making a jab at people's lack of judgment in a moment in their lives...

i really hope you will never be in a position where your judgment will prevent you from doing the right thing.... ironically usually people taht say things like those are usually the ones that because of their lack of empathy end up in the most sad situations later on... and then your words will COME BACK AND BITE YOU IN THE BUTT... that's why a person should thing it through before judging so freely somebody's own mistakes...

a way to combat this situation so it doesn't come back and bite you in the butt is to read the guides and answer TRUTHFULLY....

[trailmix 77]

I agree with the person that said you should seek legal assistance. Get a lawyer, a GOOD immigration lawyer, even if you just go for a free consultation, they should be able to advise you on what you are up against and how to proceed and give you a realistic timeline as to when your fiance would be able to join you in the U.S.

Do your own research as well.

Good luck.

[scandal 951]

sir, i really think you are being hurtful... it's one thing to provide me with information it's a whole another thing to put into question somebody's life's decisions jsut because you feel like making a jab at people's lack of judgment in a moment in their lives...

i really hope you will never be in a position where your judgment will prevent you from doing the right thing.... ironically usually people taht say things like those are usually the ones that because of their lack of empathy end up in the most sad situations later on... and then your words will COME BACK AND BITE YOU IN THE BUTT... that's why a person should thing it through before judging so freely somebody's own mistakes...

a way to combat this situation so it doesn't come back and bite you in the butt is to read the guides and answer TRUTHFULLY....

visadreamerinlove ---- I just thought I would add here that I don't believe HelloWorld08 was trying to be disrespectful or hurtful. I've seen him post many many times on VJ to people with questions such as yours and he is always graceful and kind. Sometimes in written words the sentiment a person means does not come across correctly. HelloWorld08 is "one of the good guys", if you know what I mean.

[moonhunt 1]

my first thought was that the drugs he took is more of an issue than attempted suicide.

Drug use and/or mental illness...

Both are red flags for immigration visa interview.

It may become habitual repeated things, and it may against good moral characters and others.

So it may produce very different output based on how to present, and what kind of data you have for backup to your case.

That's why I strongly recommend immigration attorney involved as soon as possible.

The attorney should good, of course.

Your sweetie needs to practice how to represent the answers professionally, and with strong/good will, so he won't be fall in same trap again.