Length of Relationship

[fredomarian 0]

My girlfriend and I have only met five months ago, yet things developed quickly between us. We are both so in love with each other and we both take our relationship very seriously. This month I filed the petition. We badly want to be together and start building for our future. I'm just worried that CSC or the embassy may think that our relationship is bogus since things happened quite so fast. Do I have the reason to worry?

Like I said our relationship is legit and we are both very much in-love.

Edited January 24, 2009 by fredomarian

[Hell0W0rld 10]

some people just meet each other within weeks and filed the petition and passed... so you are fine... just make sure you have enough evidence to prove that your relationship is real.. chat more online, send more emails, talk on the phone more, and send some snail mail to each other...

[fredomarian 0]

some people just meet each other within weeks and filed the petition and passed... so you are fine... just make sure you have enough evidence to prove that your relationship is real.. chat more online, send more emails, talk on the phone more, and send some snail mail to each other...

Thanks for the prompt reply

[Jasman0717 9]

you have to prove to the reviewing officer that your relationship is valid and true. I had only known Claudeth for about a year when we filed and at the time had only met her once. We had no problems with any of the process because of the documentation submitted.

[Jack and Barbara 0]

if possible, make trips to visit each other and document them with pictures together (date stamps), letters by family members acknowledging/supporting the relationship, phone bills, e-mails, flight ticket stubs, etc

[Yoink 7]

length of time doesnt matter

simple things to do are go to a museum together where you can take pictures and have the ticket stubs...

I went to a Yankees game where I had pictures of us in the stadium, the tickets, and a parking pass

Hard to refute that

[bearcat982 0]

I had only known my fiance for 6 months when we started our paperwork and she was approved a couple of weeks ago. It won't be a problem as long as you really love each other. Good luck

[fredomarian 0]

I actually went to the Philippines 2 months ago to see her. I included all the evidence into the petition document.

[babykim 0]

hi wer same setuation me and my fiance meet first time last augost 26 then his going back to US september 3 so we just spend together for 1 weeks here in phil and enjoy our time together while we get to know each other.then by that time wer fall inlove and plan to build our future in his place so wen his going back to US we file the petition.on that 1 weeks together we try together to have lots of pics so he have lots of pics to send in CSC for the petition and wen his there i e mail him everyday so wat ever how fast wer filing the petition atleas they well know that our love is true.so u dont need to be worried about that.the best is u can prove them that ur relationship is true.so God luck to u guys..

[lykatodd 0]

its not a problem..i met my fiance online on March..He visited me on May1 till 13..He filed June and approved Oct. 6..Now im in US of A with my fiance...

Just keep all the evidences that your together cuz it will help a lot..

[Old Dominion 26]

My girlfriend and I have only met five months ago, yet things developed quickly between us. We are both so in love with each other and we both take our relationship very seriously. This month I filed the petition. We badly want to be together and start building for our future. I'm just worried that CSC or the embassy may think that our relationship is bogus since things happened quite so fast. Do I have the reason to worry?

Like I said our relationship is legit and we are both very much in-love.

Remember, she is the one to be interviewed in a few months. The obvious question is, what prompted her to look overseas through her best friend? Was she interested in rejoining her friend and getting a green card - and you happened to be available? Photos with her family together with you, different places you went together are part of the story. But if there is reason for the consulate to believe it's all about getting to the US, and not all about you, then she'll need to be persuasive during the interview. A second visit would help make clear that this is all real.

[ronjie 0]

My girlfriend and I have only met five months ago, yet things developed quickly between us. We are both so in love with each other and we both take our relationship very seriously. This month I filed the petition. We badly want to be together and start building for our future. I'm just worried that CSC or the embassy may think that our relationship is bogus since things happened quite so fast. Do I have the reason to worry?

Like I said our relationship is legit and we are both very much in-love.

Remember, she is the one to be interviewed in a few months. The obvious question is, what prompted her to look overseas through her best friend? Was she interested in rejoining her friend and getting a green card - and you happened to be available? Photos with her family together with you, different places you went together are part of the story. But if there is reason for the consulate to believe it's all about getting to the US, and not all about you, then she'll need to be persuasive during the interview. A second visit would help make clear that this is all real.

Huh ?

[FCH 1]

youll be fine. just provide them with all the evidence they need, comply with the requirements and youre all good.

best of luck.

[FCH 1]

My girlfriend and I have only met five months ago, yet things developed quickly between us. We are both so in love with each other and we both take our relationship very seriously. This month I filed the petition. We badly want to be together and start building for our future. I'm just worried that CSC or the embassy may think that our relationship is bogus since things happened quite so fast. Do I have the reason to worry?

Like I said our relationship is legit and we are both very much in-love.

Remember, she is the one to be interviewed in a few months. The obvious question is, what prompted her to look overseas through her best friend? Was she interested in rejoining her friend and getting a green card - and you happened to be available? Photos with her family together with you, different places you went together are part of the story. But if there is reason for the consulate to believe it's all about getting to the US, and not all about you, then she'll need to be persuasive during the interview. A second visit would help make clear that this is all real.

oh and i dont think "the obvious question" is a problem.

[DanielParul 50]

Remember, she is the one to be interviewed in a few months. The obvious question is, what prompted her to look overseas through her best friend? Was she interested in rejoining her friend and getting a green card - and you happened to be available? Photos with her family together with you, different places you went together are part of the story. But if there is reason for the consulate to believe it's all about getting to the US, and not all about you, then she'll need to be persuasive during the interview. A second visit would help make clear that this is all real.

Better to prepare all the answers than to close your eyes and think they will definately not question. If they don't question, good for you but if they do have the answer ready in a way that convinces the CO. All the best!