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I just got an RFE for my stepdaughter asking for custody papers and a notorized letter from my wife saying it's ok for her to immigrate here. Anyone ever get one of these and what did you do about it? I don't have custody of my stepdaugter, my wife does. That's why I'm petitioning her as the USC. She's my wife's daughter, what more do I need to do?

Any advice?

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I-751(Lift Conditions)

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Does your wife have documentation showing that she was awarded custody of her child? I believe the biological parent must also agree to relocation of a child in the case of a divorce as well. A cover letter indicating that your wife was the beneficiary of a K-1 some time ago, and that now you are now seeking a visa for her daughter to join you might help.

I just got an RFE for my stepdaughter asking for custody papers and a notorized letter from my wife saying it's ok for her to immigrate here. Anyone ever get one of these and what did you do about it? I don't have custody of my stepdaugter, my wife does. That's why I'm petitioning her as the USC. She's my wife's daughter, what more do I need to do?

Any advice?

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Does your wife have documentation showing that she was awarded custody of her child? I believe the biological parent must also agree to relocation of a child in the case of a divorce as well. A cover letter indicating that your wife was the beneficiary of a K-1 some time ago, and that now you are now seeking a visa for her daughter to join you might help.
I just got an RFE for my stepdaughter asking for custody papers and a notorized letter from my wife saying it's ok for her to immigrate here. Anyone ever get one of these and what did you do about it? I don't have custody of my stepdaugter, my wife does. That's why I'm petitioning her as the USC. She's my wife's daughter, what more do I need to do?

Any advice?

She doesn't have a letter saying she has custody, just a divorce paper. Her daughter received a K1 a couple years ago when I did my wifes fiancee visa. Her daughter didn't come with her at the time which is why I'm doing the I130 now. Her daughter has the old unused visa. Maybe I can just send a copy of that?

Anyway, her daughter doesn't need parents consent to leave the philippines. The social works department ammended their laws.

K-1 Visa

7-1-05: Mailed Packet to Vermont (USPS Priority Next Day)

7-2-05: Delivered to VT. Signed by P. Novak

7-6-05: NOA1 received

7-11-05: Check Cashed

7-14-05: NOA1 snail mail

7-25-05: NOA2 email

8-03-05: File sent to Manila Embasy

8-23-05: Packet at Embassy

8-31-05: Medical

9-08-05: Interview... APPROVED!

9-14-05: Visas Delivered

11-19-05: Married

06-25-06: Green Card approved at USCIS in Wash. DC (AOS)

I-130(Daughter)

02-17-08-Mailed to Chicago Lockbox

02-19-08-Received EAC Assigned

02-25-08-NOA1 from Vermont SC

08-26-08-Transfered to CSC

09-04-08-Touched (Pending at CSC)

09-08-08-Tocuhed

09-15-08-NOA2 from CSC

9-19-08-Touched

9-22-08-Touched

9-25-08-NVC Letter

9-26-08-AOS fee paid online

10-08-08-Mailed I-864/Hard copy DS3032

10-09-08-Email DS 3032 approved

03-25-09-Interview at Embassy

03-25-09-Visa approved

04-20-09-10 yr green card received

I-751(Lift Conditions)

07-14-08-Mailed to Vermont SC

07-16-08-Check Cashed(received) EAC assigned

08-19-08-Bio Metrics in Alexandria

02-25-09-Transfered to CSC

06-01-09-Approval letter (Green card being processed)

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Does your wife have documentation showing that she was awarded custody of her child? I believe the biological parent must also agree to relocation of a child in the case of a divorce as well. A cover letter indicating that your wife was the beneficiary of a K-1 some time ago, and that now you are now seeking a visa for her daughter to join you might help.
I just got an RFE for my stepdaughter asking for custody papers and a notorized letter from my wife saying it's ok for her to immigrate here. Anyone ever get one of these and what did you do about it? I don't have custody of my stepdaugter, my wife does. That's why I'm petitioning her as the USC. She's my wife's daughter, what more do I need to do?

Any advice?

She doesn't have a letter saying she has custody, just a divorce paper. Her daughter received a K1 a couple years ago when I did my wifes fiancee visa. Her daughter didn't come with her at the time which is why I'm doing the I130 now. Her daughter has the old unused visa. Maybe I can just send a copy of that?

Anyway, her daughter doesn't need parents consent to leave the philippines. The social works department ammended their laws

on my son's case,NVC asked me a letter of consent from the biological father letting him immigrate to USA with me and or a court order that i have sole custody...its my US citizen husband who petitioned him as his stepfather..and since i dont have any court oders paper so i asked the biological father to sent me a letter of consent,its not notarized but it was handwritten and lucky that NVC accept it and my son interview is on Dec 22 2008.

even she was already granted a visa b4,we still need to go through the same process..to start all over again.

anyways,just asked for a letter of consent from the father and she will be here in USA soon.

goodluck

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Sept. 29, 2008 NVC asking for missing documents for my son

Oct.18,2008 mail the letter of consent from the father

Oct 20, 2008 NVC recieved the letter of consent

Nov. 4,2008 recieved letter from NVC with the date of interview

Dec.09,2008 Medical at St. Lukes

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Does your wife have documentation showing that she was awarded custody of her child? I believe the biological parent must also agree to relocation of a child in the case of a divorce as well. A cover letter indicating that your wife was the beneficiary of a K-1 some time ago, and that now you are now seeking a visa for her daughter to join you might help.
I just got an RFE for my stepdaughter asking for custody papers and a notorized letter from my wife saying it's ok for her to immigrate here. Anyone ever get one of these and what did you do about it? I don't have custody of my stepdaugter, my wife does. That's why I'm petitioning her as the USC. She's my wife's daughter, what more do I need to do?

Any advice?

She doesn't have a letter saying she has custody, just a divorce paper. Her daughter received a K1 a couple years ago when I did my wifes fiancee visa. Her daughter didn't come with her at the time which is why I'm doing the I130 now. Her daughter has the old unused visa. Maybe I can just send a copy of that?

Anyway, her daughter doesn't need parents consent to leave the philippines. The social works department ammended their laws

on my son's case,NVC asked me a letter of consent from the biological father letting him immigrate to USA with me and or a court order that i have sole custody...its my US citizen husband who petitioned him as his stepfather..and since i dont have any court oders paper so i asked the biological father to sent me a letter of consent,its not notarized but it was handwritten and lucky that NVC accept it and my son interview is on Dec 22 2008.

even she was already granted a visa b4,we still need to go through the same process..to start all over again.

anyways,just asked for a letter of consent from the father and she will be here in USA soon.

goodluck

We've tried to get a letter from the biological father before and he wouldn't do it. Her daughter doesn't live with the biological father, she is being raised by her grandmother. He wants nothing to do with her.

I got a visa before for her, couldn't I explain that to the NVC and see what they say?

K-1 Visa

7-1-05: Mailed Packet to Vermont (USPS Priority Next Day)

7-2-05: Delivered to VT. Signed by P. Novak

7-6-05: NOA1 received

7-11-05: Check Cashed

7-14-05: NOA1 snail mail

7-25-05: NOA2 email

8-03-05: File sent to Manila Embasy

8-23-05: Packet at Embassy

8-31-05: Medical

9-08-05: Interview... APPROVED!

9-14-05: Visas Delivered

11-19-05: Married

06-25-06: Green Card approved at USCIS in Wash. DC (AOS)

I-130(Daughter)

02-17-08-Mailed to Chicago Lockbox

02-19-08-Received EAC Assigned

02-25-08-NOA1 from Vermont SC

08-26-08-Transfered to CSC

09-04-08-Touched (Pending at CSC)

09-08-08-Tocuhed

09-15-08-NOA2 from CSC

9-19-08-Touched

9-22-08-Touched

9-25-08-NVC Letter

9-26-08-AOS fee paid online

10-08-08-Mailed I-864/Hard copy DS3032

10-09-08-Email DS 3032 approved

03-25-09-Interview at Embassy

03-25-09-Visa approved

04-20-09-10 yr green card received

I-751(Lift Conditions)

07-14-08-Mailed to Vermont SC

07-16-08-Check Cashed(received) EAC assigned

08-19-08-Bio Metrics in Alexandria

02-25-09-Transfered to CSC

06-01-09-Approval letter (Green card being processed)

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You need the letter for the NVC , even if the requirments to leave the country are differnt. Without the letter your case will not continue to process through the NVC. My husband did not have custody of his 2 kids, however with the letter to NVC from the mother the case continued to process and the boys are here. They did need an addtional letter to leave Colombia and we got that one also from the Mom. Try your hardest to get the other Parent to sing a notorized letter to send back to the NVC so you case will resume.

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4/14/10 Email approval for 13 yr Old CR 4/23/10

Oldest son now 21 I-130 filed by LPR dad ( as per NVC CSPA is applying here )
I-130 approved 2/24
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If the biological father will not sign the letter, you wife may have to sue for sole custody of her daughter. Unfortunately, the NVC will require sole legal and sole physical custody in order to allow your step daughter to migrate.

I'm not sure if notifying the NVC of the original Visa approval will work. The laws are created to prevent one parent from taking a child out of the country without the other parent's knowledge or permission. Even with sole physical custody, if parents have joint legal custody, a decision to relocate must be agreed upon by both parents.

Best of Luck with your situation.

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10/31/2008 Approved!!

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11/12/2008 AOS Fee Bill Generated/DS3032 mailed

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11/15/2008 AOS Fee Bill Received in Mail (IIN Received in the mail)

11/17/2008 Paid AOS Fee Online

11/17/2008 DS3032 Accepted

11/18/2008 AOS Fee shows as Paid; Mailed AOS Packet overnight

11/18/2008 IV Fee Available, IV Fee Paid Online

11/20/2008 Mailed DS230 Packet Overnight, AOS Entered into the system (False RFE Message) Rec 11/21

11/24/2008 IV Bill hardcopy received (not needed since I paid online)

11/26/2008 NVC Case Complete 19 days!!

12/23/2008 CR1Visa In Hand

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US Entry

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Removal of Conditions

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01/12/2011 Biometrics (Biometrics letter date 12/15/2010)

03/03/2011 Approved - Card Production Ordered

03/10/2011 GC Received

US Citizenship

10/13/2011 N400 Sent

10/18/2011 NOA 10/19/2011 Check Cashed

04/17/2012 Email bio letter sent (received 4/19/12)

04/24/2012 Early Bio due to travel plans (bio date orig 5/11/12)

04/30/2012 Interview letter received

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If the biological father will not sign the letter, you wife may have to sue for sole custody of her daughter. Unfortunately, the NVC will require sole legal and sole physical custody in order to allow your step daughter to migrate.

I'm not sure if notifying the NVC of the original Visa approval will work. The laws are created to prevent one parent from taking a child out of the country without the other parent's knowledge or permission. Even with sole physical custody, if parents have joint legal custody, a decision to relocate must be agreed upon by both parents.

Best of Luck with your situation.

Thanks. My wife is going to go home and deal with the courts and try to get this settled once and for all. If she can get a notorized letter from her ex, then great, I'll mail it off with the RFE and see what happens. If not, then well, we can wait for the courts...might take a while but what to do.

K-1 Visa

7-1-05: Mailed Packet to Vermont (USPS Priority Next Day)

7-2-05: Delivered to VT. Signed by P. Novak

7-6-05: NOA1 received

7-11-05: Check Cashed

7-14-05: NOA1 snail mail

7-25-05: NOA2 email

8-03-05: File sent to Manila Embasy

8-23-05: Packet at Embassy

8-31-05: Medical

9-08-05: Interview... APPROVED!

9-14-05: Visas Delivered

11-19-05: Married

06-25-06: Green Card approved at USCIS in Wash. DC (AOS)

I-130(Daughter)

02-17-08-Mailed to Chicago Lockbox

02-19-08-Received EAC Assigned

02-25-08-NOA1 from Vermont SC

08-26-08-Transfered to CSC

09-04-08-Touched (Pending at CSC)

09-08-08-Tocuhed

09-15-08-NOA2 from CSC

9-19-08-Touched

9-22-08-Touched

9-25-08-NVC Letter

9-26-08-AOS fee paid online

10-08-08-Mailed I-864/Hard copy DS3032

10-09-08-Email DS 3032 approved

03-25-09-Interview at Embassy

03-25-09-Visa approved

04-20-09-10 yr green card received

I-751(Lift Conditions)

07-14-08-Mailed to Vermont SC

07-16-08-Check Cashed(received) EAC assigned

08-19-08-Bio Metrics in Alexandria

02-25-09-Transfered to CSC

06-01-09-Approval letter (Green card being processed)

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If the biological father will not sign the letter, you wife may have to sue for sole custody of her daughter. Unfortunately, the NVC will require sole legal and sole physical custody in order to allow your step daughter to migrate.

I'm not sure if notifying the NVC of the original Visa approval will work. The laws are created to prevent one parent from taking a child out of the country without the other parent's knowledge or permission. Even with sole physical custody, if parents have joint legal custody, a decision to relocate must be agreed upon by both parents.

Best of Luck with your situation.

Thanks. My wife is going to go home and deal with the courts and try to get this settled once and for all. If she can get a notorized letter from her ex, then great, I'll mail it off with the RFE and see what happens. If not, then well, we can wait for the courts...might take a while but what to do.

Prayerfully your wife will have success obtaining the letter from the father.

I noticed that this information was in the Embassy Specific Guidelines

When I researched Barbados they have listed:

BRING PERMISSION FOR MINOR CHILDREN TO TRAVEL TO THE U.S.

Any applicant under 16 needs permission form BOTH parents listed on the birth certificate to emigrate. A court may give custody to one parent, allowing that parent to take the child out of the country. But if there is no court order, then the other parent must send a notarized letter giving permission.

I-130 Journey

03/12/2008 I-130 Sent

03/17/2008 NOA1

05/07/2008, 05/08/2008 Touched

10/31/2008 Approved!!

NVC Journey

11/07/2008 I-130 Received; Case Number Assigned

11/12/2008 AOS Fee Bill Generated/DS3032 mailed

11/12/2008 Emailed DS3032 11/13/2008 Mailed DS3032 Hardcopy

11/15/2008 AOS Fee Bill Received in Mail (IIN Received in the mail)

11/17/2008 Paid AOS Fee Online

11/17/2008 DS3032 Accepted

11/18/2008 AOS Fee shows as Paid; Mailed AOS Packet overnight

11/18/2008 IV Fee Available, IV Fee Paid Online

11/20/2008 Mailed DS230 Packet Overnight, AOS Entered into the system (False RFE Message) Rec 11/21

11/24/2008 IV Bill hardcopy received (not needed since I paid online)

11/26/2008 NVC Case Complete 19 days!!

12/23/2008 CR1Visa In Hand

12/24/2008 POE San Juan

US Entry

01/09/2009 Welcome Letter/Card Processing ordered

01/15/2009 Green Card Received, 01/14/2009 SS Card Received

Removal of Conditions

10/16/2010 I751 Sent

10/25/2010 NOA Received NOA Date 10/19/2010

01/12/2011 Biometrics (Biometrics letter date 12/15/2010)

03/03/2011 Approved - Card Production Ordered

03/10/2011 GC Received

US Citizenship

10/13/2011 N400 Sent

10/18/2011 NOA 10/19/2011 Check Cashed

04/17/2012 Email bio letter sent (received 4/19/12)

04/24/2012 Early Bio due to travel plans (bio date orig 5/11/12)

04/30/2012 Interview letter received

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Correct as listed, However my RFE also stated something about Custody, I called the NVC and all they were concerned with was the notorized letter. Mind you we then had to jump through hoops to get the kids out of Colombia, as the DAS ( COlombia police ) would not let the kids leave unless we had a certified document that was drawn up and signed only in BOgota from the mom. She was more than willing to do this and the kids have been here 9 months. Get the letter and send it in, make sure it is notorized correctly by a notary, the mom happened to be here in the states when we needed the letter so it was done by a notary here.

If the biological father will not sign the letter, you wife may have to sue for sole custody of her daughter. Unfortunately, the NVC will require sole legal and sole physical custody in order to allow your step daughter to migrate.

I'm not sure if notifying the NVC of the original Visa approval will work. The laws are created to prevent one parent from taking a child out of the country without the other parent's knowledge or permission. Even with sole physical custody, if parents have joint legal custody, a decision to relocate must be agreed upon by both parents.

Best of Luck with your situation.

Thanks. My wife is going to go home and deal with the courts and try to get this settled once and for all. If she can get a notorized letter from her ex, then great, I'll mail it off with the RFE and see what happens. If not, then well, we can wait for the courts...might take a while but what to do.

Prayerfully your wife will have success obtaining the letter from the father.

I noticed that this information was in the Embassy Specific Guidelines

When I researched Barbados they have listed:

BRING PERMISSION FOR MINOR CHILDREN TO TRAVEL TO THE U.S.

Any applicant under 16 needs permission form BOTH parents listed on the birth certificate to emigrate. A court may give custody to one parent, allowing that parent to take the child out of the country. But if there is no court order, then the other parent must send a notarized letter giving permission.

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Why is it that the only one who can stop the crying is the one who started it in the first place?



More Complete Story here
My Saga includes 2 step sons
USC Married 4/2007 Colombian on overstay since 2001 of B1/B2 visa
Applied 5/2007 Approved GC in Hand 10/2007
I-751 mailed 6/30/09 aapproved 11/7/09 The BOYS I-751 Mailed 12/29/09 3/23/10 Email approval for 17 CR 3/27/10
4/14/10 Email approval for 13 yr Old CR 4/23/10

Oldest son now 21 I-130 filed by LPR dad ( as per NVC CSPA is applying here )
I-130 approved 2/24
Priority date 12/6/2007
4/6/2010 letter from NVC arrives to son dated 3/4/2010
5/4/10 received AOS and DS3032 via email
9/22/10 Interview BOG Passed
10/3/10 POE JFK all went well
11/11/10 GC Received smile.png


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