Tough decision...

[Devkpaik 1]

Hey everyone,

Well, I've been with my fiancee for the last 2 1/2 months in thailand. In the past year I've been with her 9 months out of 12. I love spending every second with her. Well, we just got our NOA 2 on March 10th and we want to get this process finished and get her the visa ASAP, so i was set to leave on april 1st, but now ive changed my flight to leave on march 26th so i can hurry up and get home and send out all the packets/gather all nexessary financial documents.

THIS SUCKS!!! BUT you gotta do whats necessary right/ and in the end this is the better choice yea?

we waited 4 1/2 months for the noa2, and every time i leave she gets depressed and cries for like 1 1/2 weeks on the phone, and this time i told her she doesnt have to worry bevcause we dont have to wait as long as we did for the noa2 and that as long as we do things quick we;ll get the interview quick.

i hope im right.....

any tips on how to make it easier for her/I? anything i can tell her?

thanks guys

[Corey-Mariya 14]

Yeah I am in Russia with my fiance right now! Already been here a month and a half are petition got approved on the 22 of febuary! Just be patient it will not be that much longer! And then you 2 will be together forever! Just tell her to hang in there trust me I know what your going through!

[Devkpaik 1]

Thanks corey-mariya. Yours got approved feb. 22? NICE!

Yeah I am in Russia with my fiance right now! Already been here a month and a half are petition got approved on the 22 of febuary! Just be patient it will not be that much longer! And then you 2 will be together forever! Just tell her to hang in there trust me I know what your going through!

Thanks corey-mariya. Yours got approved feb. 22? NICE and congrats!

Have you guys started the next step of packet 3, etc?

Yeah I am in Russia with my fiance right now! Already been here a month and a half are petition got approved on the 22 of febuary! Just be patient it will not be that much longer! And then you 2 will be together forever! Just tell her to hang in there trust me I know what your going through!

[Corey-Mariya 14]

I am still waiting here with her in Russia the consulate recieved it about 2 weeks ago! So we should get the packet soon! And moscow only sends one packet right when they get the papers for the nvc they schedule the interview but its usally 2 months after they recieve it for moscow! i am going to probably stay here until she gets her Visa! my friends back home will get together all my finanial documents and everything that is needed from me!

[Devkpaik 1]

I am still waiting here with her in Russia the consulate recieved it about 2 weeks ago! So we should get the packet soon! And moscow only sends one packet right when they get the papers for the nvc they schedule the interview but its usally 2 months after they recieve it for moscow! i am going to probably stay here until she gets her Visa! my friends back home will get together all my finanial documents and everything that is needed from me!

nice, well good luck!!! we wish you guys the best on this process and good luck at the interview too!!!

[Jeraly 4]

You'll get there - after NOA2 things move a lot quicker so if you make sure you have everything ready beforehand then you can get things sent off with little delay

For the record I've spent six weeks with my OH in the past year

[Carlawarla 1]

Hey everyone,

Well, I've been with my fiancee for the last 2 1/2 months in thailand. In the past year I've been with her 9 months out of 12. I love spending every second with her. Well, we just got our NOA 2 on March 10th and we want to get this process finished and get her the visa ASAP, so i was set to leave on april 1st, but now ive changed my flight to leave on march 26th so i can hurry up and get home and send out all the packets/gather all nexessary financial documents.

THIS SUCKS!!! BUT you gotta do whats necessary right/ and in the end this is the better choice yea?

we waited 4 1/2 months for the noa2, and every time i leave she gets depressed and cries for like 1 1/2 weeks on the phone, and this time i told her she doesnt have to worry bevcause we dont have to wait as long as we did for the noa2 and that as long as we do things quick we;ll get the interview quick.

i hope im right.....

any tips on how to make it easier for her/I? anything i can tell her?

thanks guys

You could start by telling her that not many couples can spend so much time pre-entry with their SO! You've been very lucky to have spent so much time together. I know it's hard to part, but parting now and at your earliest is to both your advantage, since you can get that paperwork back and get your interview sooner! Remind her that this is your last time apart...that time will go quickly...yes she will cry, and be depressed, but think positive thoughts...keep your communication positive on this final road on your journey!

Best of luck for a speedy interview date!

[Devkpaik 1]

Hey thanks a lot guys for the uplifting/comforting responses. She feels a lot better already, as do I.

I wish you guys ALL the best in your journey and if you have already gone through it and are finished, good luck in your life!

Hey everyone,

Well, I've been with my fiancee for the last 2 1/2 months in thailand. In the past year I've been with her 9 months out of 12. I love spending every second with her. Well, we just got our NOA 2 on March 10th and we want to get this process finished and get her the visa ASAP, so i was set to leave on april 1st, but now ive changed my flight to leave on march 26th so i can hurry up and get home and send out all the packets/gather all nexessary financial documents.

THIS SUCKS!!! BUT you gotta do whats necessary right/ and in the end this is the better choice yea?

we waited 4 1/2 months for the noa2, and every time i leave she gets depressed and cries for like 1 1/2 weeks on the phone, and this time i told her she doesnt have to worry bevcause we dont have to wait as long as we did for the noa2 and that as long as we do things quick we;ll get the interview quick.

i hope im right.....

any tips on how to make it easier for her/I? anything i can tell her?

thanks guys

You could start by telling her that not many couples can spend so much time pre-entry with their SO! You've been very lucky to have spent so much time together. I know it's hard to part, but parting now and at your earliest is to both your advantage, since you can get that paperwork back and get your interview sooner! Remind her that this is your last time apart...that time will go quickly...yes she will cry, and be depressed, but think positive thoughts...keep your communication positive on this final road on your journey!

Best of luck for a speedy interview date!

[tammy2688 1]

Everything will be all right. I hadnt seen my husband for 15 months and now stuck in security checks after interview for 6 months...she will be fine tell her it could be much worse. You guys should be done quickly within 3-4 months.

Best Wishes

Tammy

[웃 910]

A lot of people go months without seeing their SO. I haven't seen mine since mid-December so its been 3 months for me. Longest I have gone without seeing her since we started dating. Just look at the post above mine and you will feel better.

[JVKn'CVO 11]

Hey everyone,

Well, I've been with my fiancee for the last 2 1/2 months in thailand. In the past year I've been with her 9 months out of 12. I love spending every second with her. Well, we just got our NOA 2 on March 10th and we want to get this process finished and get her the visa ASAP, so i was set to leave on april 1st, but now ive changed my flight to leave on march 26th so i can hurry up and get home and send out all the packets/gather all nexessary financial documents.

THIS SUCKS!!! BUT you gotta do whats necessary right/ and in the end this is the better choice yea?

we waited 4 1/2 months for the noa2, and every time i leave she gets depressed and cries for like 1 1/2 weeks on the phone, and this time i told her she doesnt have to worry bevcause we dont have to wait as long as we did for the noa2 and that as long as we do things quick we;ll get the interview quick.

i hope im right.....

any tips on how to make it easier for her/I? anything i can tell her?

thanks guys

You can remind her that next time you guys meet, will be to join your lifes forever, never having to say goodbye

Saludos,

Caro