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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

A friend of mine in the UK did the same thing. She didn't say as much, but it was pretty obvious. Pissed off her best friend at the time.

I think if I found out a friend of mine did that, regardless of whether I was a chosen one, we wouldn't be friends anymore.

They're not.

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

A friend of mine in the UK did the same thing. She didn't say as much, but it was pretty obvious. Pissed off her best friend at the time.

I think if I found out a friend of mine did that, regardless of whether I was a chosen one, we wouldn't be friends anymore.

They're not.

exactly. :wacko:

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

Still speechless over this... :blink:

sorry dev...did I ever mention that I'm a "mean girl"?

Did you serve them chicken bones at the reception and place newspaper obituaries for them to use as napkins?

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

A friend of mine in the UK did the same thing. She didn't say as much, but it was pretty obvious. Pissed off her best friend at the time.

I think if I found out a friend of mine did that, regardless of whether I was a chosen one, we wouldn't be friends anymore.

Without a doubt.

Thirded, actually.

Amber...of course it's your right to do what you please...so it really doesn't affect me one way or another...BUT I have to wonder....if you had a best friend who did the same to you...I wonder how you'd feel. Taste is a subjective thing, and God forbid you aren't in the top 5 good looking ppl in your friend's circle.

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

A friend of mine in the UK did the same thing. She didn't say as much, but it was pretty obvious. Pissed off her best friend at the time.

I think if I found out a friend of mine did that, regardless of whether I was a chosen one, we wouldn't be friends anymore.

Without a doubt.

Thirded, actually.

Amber...of course it's your right to do what you please...so it really doesn't affect me one way or another...BUT I have to wonder....if you had a best friend who did the same to you...I wonder how you'd feel. Taste is a subjective thing, and God forbid you aren't in the top 5 good looking ppl in your friend's circle.

Who knows how many weddings she's gone to as a guest, and not a BM... :whistle:

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

Still speechless over this... :blink:

sorry dev...did I ever mention that I'm a "mean girl"?

you probably need a well deserved spanking to correct your behavior

man, quit pervin!

:blush: sorry, i was feeling her pain and sadness over her past decision...and azz whoppin' would have begun the healing process ,.,,,at least for me... :innocent:

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

Still speechless over this... :blink:

sorry dev...did I ever mention that I'm a "mean girl"?

you probably need a well deserved spanking to correct your behavior

man, quit pervin!

:blush: sorry, i was feeling her pain and sadness over her past decision...and azz whoppin' would have begun the healing process ,.,,,at least for me... :innocent:

:lol: I would have let bosco be in the wedding pics dean

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Did you pick your friends because of their looks for this eventuality? One has to wonder what you would have done had there been no beautiful people available. I'll put this attitude down to the vagaries of youth. :P

:lol: I have friends that aren't nice to look at I just didn't chose them for my wedding party. I had them do things like getting people to sign the guestbook. I'm sure it's just because I'm young and silly. I never said it was the right thing to do. Neil thought I was insane but just went along with it.

Still speechless over this... :blink:

sorry dev...did I ever mention that I'm a "mean girl"?

you probably need a well deserved spanking to correct your behavior

man, quit pervin!

:blush: sorry, i was feeling her pain and sadness over her past decision...and azz whoppin' would have begun the healing process ,.,,,at least for me... :innocent:

:lol: I would have let bosco be in the wedding pics dean

you two...need to get a room!

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I feel really lucky that I've never been a bridesmaid despite my stunning looks and sense of style. :P

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I feel really lucky that I've never been a bridesmaid despite my stunning looks and sense of style. :P

joyce you would have been my #1 pick if I knew you then. *sigh* maybe we can photoshop you into the pics?

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Really, what sort of women are poring over 'You and Your Wedding' magazine and answering quizzes like this in the first place?!

I think it can be nice to have bridesmaids, but I feel pretty strongly that the bride/groom should pay for the dress/shoes/jewellery, unless the bridesmaid can wear a dress she already owns.

It's nicer for youngsters to be bridesmaids, I think! I was 10 and my sister was 6 when we were bridesmaids for my aunt and uncle and it was fabulous! I remember being all excited at going to fittings and having pretty shoes bought for me, and I was able to watch my aunt having her hair and make-up done - wow! And my little sis stole the show; old enough to be very well behaved, but young enough to look so cute and be doted on.

With that in mind I'm strongly considering having my other little sis, who'll be 10 when I'm married, as a bridesmaid, just so she can have the thrill of getting to wear a lovely dress and stand up with me :D And of course, when you're that young, you don't have to do a thing! Just stand there and look cute. I wasn't going to have any bridesmaids as it's going to be a very informal affair, but having her as one may be fun.

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I feel really lucky that I've never been a bridesmaid despite my stunning looks and sense of style. :P

joyce you would have been my #1 pick if I knew you then. *sigh* maybe we can photoshop you into the pics?

wow, i disagree sister amber.....with that helmet head, sister joyce, in the pix..it take all the focus off of you, the bride

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