Maliajannah

No. It's when you are sure beyond sure. You can look at it one of two ways....one get married and if it is unhappy you can end it before the lifting of conditions.....Or you can take more time and go through the K1 process again......I don't know your story but from what is here.... and maybe I am reading more into then I should, but seems your a little more then the nervous bride not knowing what will come. I wish you luck and a happy decision.

Malia,

I do not know what you will ultimately decide, but if you have doubt do not do it! There are no guarantees, in terms of how long a marriage and love may last, but it is such hard work that if you do not give it 100% of yourself you will fail...

thats true i'm putting all in faith in god since we are both christians