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  1. Hi

    I married Anton in 2005 and here it is 2008. He recieved his Green Card July 4, 2006 and now the Lifting of Conditions is coming up. March 24 is the first day that we can submit the paperwork.

    Hopefully this will be less of a headache than anything else. It was so nice of having two years of quiet and stress free living.

    Moondancer

  2. Thanks for the info but woohooo my time does not change man I love ARizona have a great day you all!

    Me too, now Tucson and Calgary will be on the same time ,as well as only 1 hour to Chicago and 2 to back East..

  3. The Blair Witch Project:

    by far the scarious movie I've seen......... :yes:

    My favorite scary movie, although the second one stunk!

    thanks for the movie suggestions alot out there I haven't seen or want to see again.

    Here's another one to add to the list... the original psycho.

    Anthony Perkins as Norman Bates

    That scene when they find his mummified "mother" still scares me..

  4. As you know my husband got his EAD in May and Green Card in July.

    He decided he did not want to stay and live here in Tucson becuause of the heat, so he went to Flagstaff until August.

    We visited with each other several times, me going to Flagstaff, and him coming down here for weekends. I could handle that since he was in the same state at least.

    He parked his RV in the yard mid August and left for Alberta to visit his Father until the end of October. I thought I could handle that too, since I know how much his father depends on him.

    Now he tells me that he is not planning on coming back to Tucson until January because he is making more money in Canada then he could make here in Tucson.

    This means he will not be here for our 1 year anniver. in November or any other the holidays. He hasn't made any effort to say, hey don't worry I will pay for your flight to visit me in alberta over the holidays. I checked into airline tickets and he is more obsessed with how much I have on credit cards, then me being with him,

    He said I am sending you $ so you can pay off those credit card debts.

    My problem is now that he has been away so much , my heart is breaking totally, I cry everyday thinking about this.

    I don't want to file for divorce and we signed a Convanent Marriage License that makes it even hard to Divorce.

    The license states that we can only file for divorce after a year of abandonment, which he does call.

    The other problem is, I don't like being alone so I have one good friend who is way older than me, but we have been spending lots of time together since we have a lot in common.

    Anton has no problem with the fact that have a close friendship with this guy. He just tells me tell "Randy" thanks for taking care of you and keeping you happy while I am gone.

    This is tearing me apart emotionally,

    Thanks for listening VJ Friends...

  5. I have tried St. John's Wort, but you need to take it consistantly for over a month before the effects kick in. Since I am not a very good pill taker it didn't do anything for me except maybe the placebo effect. I take Valarian at night but again, I think it's a placebo since I still wake up in the middle of the night and can't go back to sleep.

    The number one question about depression is ... Is the depression situational? or is it a chemical imbalance in the brain?

    Situational depression may last a week or so, but normally through exercise, better diet and being with friends who you trust and love it goes away.

    The chemical imbalance is the one to be concerned with and needs to be treated with medication to balance all those chemicals.

    That is the scary part, many doctors are not willing to work with you to overcome the situational depression, they just want to throw drugs at you to solve the problem

    Good Luck with your daughter...

  6. Four movies I watch over and over

    1. Clerks

    2. The Blair Witch Project

    3. Wizard of OZ

    4. Sideways

    Four places I have lived

    1. Wingate, PA

    2. Osceola Mills, PA

    3. Mechanicsburg, PA

    4. Tucson, AZ

    Four TV Shows I enjoy watching

    1. Seinfeld

    2. Roswell

    3. Men in Trees

    4. Boston Legal

    Four Places I Have Been On Vacation

    1. Calgary, AB

    2. San Diego, CA

    3. Taos, NM

    4. Seattle, WA

    Four Favorite foods

    1. Pizza

    2. Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream

    3. Mandarian Orange Chicken

    4. A good Hamburger

    Four places I'd rather be right now

    1. Camping by a waterfall.

    2. Nestled in a cabin by a nice fire

    3. Backpacking in Utah among the Red Rock

    4. Here isn't so bad, it's quiet, and my cat is purring on my lap as well as it's Sat. and I don't have anything to do, but play on the internet for a while.

  7. Is that the one with Sally Field smuggling her daughter out of Turkey?

    Good movie I can remember it came out in the late 80's I think, but still very powerful, especially when you almost have no hope if a parent takes a kid out of the US to a Mideast country.

    Just read an article in the newspaper about a local woman here, she hired ex CIA and undercover bounty hunters to get her daughter back and it took her over 5 years to get her daughter into the US. She had to have the girl rekidnapped.

  8. The kid I mentor is like that she won't eat, and it's a battle until she wins.

    She is 12, I started taking care of her at age 10.

    All she eats is Pasta, and rice.

    Her mom wants her to eat Veggies and protein.

    Well you make fried rice with Broc. and Chicken and she picks out the veggies and protein and only eats the chicken.

    Tonight she threw a fit, and I just said, oh well take it up with your mother..

    Well then her mother got into it with her, and I became mediator and told Taylor why don't you make up some menus that way your mother can't tell you what to eat, but you need to include some veggies and protein items.

    I'm just the cook on Tu/Th night.

    Actually at 12 she could cook her own food, but then again she's like me she'd have cereal or something.

  9. Instead of buying him something material, how about a nice dinner out or a night at a nice hotel or a short trip somewhere.

    I don't know, we aren't into material things here. I bought my husband some stuff last Xmas and never again since it wasn't worth it.

    My favorite thing is to spend a night out with him somewhere like we are dating again.

    Congratulations on your anniversary...

  10. I'm so tired of these dumb conspiracy theories. It went down the way the media says it did. We all watched it live on TV.

    There was no US government conspiracy.

    There were no implosions.

    The smoking man talking to Mulder....

    I have been watching too many x file reruns...

  11. I remember being in Kindergarten and the teacher telling us we HAD to have a nap after lunch, with a blanket on the floor. Oooooooooooooo how I fought that! Now I just wish my boss would come into my office after lunch and order me home for a nap! *sigh*

    I love naps

    Carla (F)

    Anyone see that Seinfeld ep where George made a bed under his desk at Yankee Stadium? He was napping, then Steinbrenner came into his office & was hanging out so George called Jerry to call in a bomb scare?

    priceless :lol:

    That was a great episode, George's alarm clock was ticking in the desk when Steinbrenner came in.

  12. Celebrating the Freedom to Read is observed during the last week of September each year. Observed since 1982, the annual event reminds Americans not to take this precious democratic freedom for granted.

    Books Banned at One Time or Another in the United States

    A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess

    A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle

    Annie on My Mind by Nancy Garden

    As I Lay Dying by William Faulkner

    Blubber by Judy Blume

    Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

    Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Paterson

    Canterbury Tales by Chaucer

    Carrie by Stephen King

    Catch-22 by Joseph Heller

    Christine by Stephen King

    Confessions by Jean-Jacques Rousseau

    Cujo by Stephen King

    Curses, Hexes, and Spells by Daniel Cohen

    Daddy's Roommate by Michael Willhoite

    Day No Pigs Would Die by Robert Peck

    Death of a Salesman by Arthur Miller

    Decameron by Boccaccio

    East of Eden by John Steinbeck

    Fallen Angels by Walter Myers

    Fanny Hill (Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure) by John Cleland

    Flowers For Algernon by Daniel Keyes

    Forever by Judy Blume

    Grendel by John Champlin Gardner

    Halloween ABC by Eve Merriam

    Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone by J.K. Rowling

    Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets by J.K. Rowling

    Harry Potter and the Prizoner of Azkaban by J.K. Rowling

    Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling

    Have to Go by Robert Munsch

    Heather Has Two Mommies by Leslea Newman

    How to Eat Fried Worms by Thomas Rockwell

    Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain

    I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou

    Impressions edited by Jack Booth

    In the Night Kitchen by Maurice Sendak

    It's Okay if You Don't Love Me by Norma Klein

    James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl

    Lady Chatterley's Lover by D.H. Lawrence

    Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman

    Little Red Riding Hood by Jacob and Wilhelm Grimm

    Lord of the Flies by William Golding

    Love is One of the Choices by Norma Klein

    Lysistrata by Aristophanes

    More Scary Stories in the Dark by Alvin Schwartz

    My Brother Sam Is Dead by James Lincoln Collier and Christopher Collier

    My House by Nikki Giovanni

    My Friend Flicka by Mary O'Hara

    Night Chills by Dean Koontz

    Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck

    On My Honor by Marion Dane Bauer

    One Day in The Life of Ivan Denisovich by Alexander Solzhenitsyn

    One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest by Ken Kesey

    One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez

    Ordinary People by Judith Guest

    Our Bodies, Ourselves by Boston Women's Health Collective

    Prince of Tides by Pat Conroy

    Revolting Rhymes by Roald Dahl

    Scary Stories 3: More Tales to Chill Your Bones by Alvin Schwartz

    Scary Stories in the Dark by Alvin Schwartz

    Separate Peace by John Knowles

    Silas Marner by George Eliot

    Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

    Tarzan of the Apes by Edgar Rice Burroughs

    The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain

    The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain

    The ####### by John Jakes

    The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger

    The Chocolate War by Robert Cormier

    The Color Purple by Alice Walker

    The Devil's Alternative by Frederick Forsyth

    The Figure in the Shadows by John Bellairs

    The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck

    The Great Gilly Hopkins by Katherine Paterson

    The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood

    The Headless Cupid by Zilpha Snyder

    The Learning Tree by Gordon Parks

    The Living Bible by William C. Bower

    The Merchant of Venice by William Shakespeare

    The New Teenage Body Book by Kathy McCoy and Charles Wibbelsman

    The Pigman by Paul Zindel

    The Seduction of Peter S. by Lawrence Sanders

    The Shining by Stephen King

    The Witches by Roald Dahl

    The Witches of Worm by Zilpha Snyder

    Then Again, Maybe I Won't by Judy Blume

    To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee

    Twelfth Night by William Shakespeare

    Webster's Ninth New Collegiate Dictionary by the Merriam-Webster Editorial Staff

    Witches, Pumpkins, and Grinning Ghosts: The Story of the Halloween Symbols by Edna Barth

    As usual the big, bad witch's are getting picked on, and Christians you thought you had it bad.

  13. Setting aside the procedure pain for a moment, what does a root canal and crown cost?

    If not covered by insurance, that could be more painful!!!

    Any insight?

    Root canals in Tucson, especially at the specialist are pricey. Mine was $750 and that happened 3 times.

    That was with insurance which covered 1/2. The crowns x3 were about $800 too which was 1/2 covered by insurance.

    Some people drive down to Nogales, Sonora Mexico and go to dentists there.

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