Deina

Here, maybe this is what he mean with you knowing your role..
Role of the Wife in the Bible
"encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5
I'm sure if you would talk kind he will call you more often!! Don't act angry quick!! If you love him and he loves you and you are bless with a baby than maybe you can try work things out...

I think the word..."leave him"is used too easily! What is wrong with saying: a woman needs to know her role????? A man has his role too in this world. Men go to war, in case of emergency rescue, children and women are saved first, men work in mine, or as fireman etc...
Why some women want to be equal to men? When one hand washes the other and we are different creations and together form a union. Why not have the patience to listen, why raise your voice at him? I'd hang up too if husband would scream at me on phone!
I think you should give him credit he refused to leave the conversation than let to generate more outrageous....
Any way this how I see it! Is your man and your life... But control your emotions first and listen too!! That's why so many marriages are collapsing nowadays, for a woman not knowing her role in the relationship and want to be men. Let man be man and woman woman! Don't anger quickly...
Each person needs to be appreciated loved and respected and know their role.

I think the word..."leave him"is used too easily! What is wrong with saying: a woman needs to know her role????? A man has his role too in this world. Men go to war, in case of emergency rescue, children and women are saved first, men work in mine, or as fireman etc...
Why some women want to be equal to men? When one hand washes the other and we are different creations and together form a union. Why not have the patience to listen, why raise your voice at him? I'd hang up too if husband would scream at me on phone!
I think you should give him credit he refused to leave the conversation than let to generate more outrageous....
Any way this how I see it! Is your man and your life... But control your emotions first and listen too!! That's why so many marriages are collapsing nowadays, for a woman not knowing her role in the relationship and want to be men. Let man be man and woman woman! Don't anger quickly...
Each person needs to be appreciated loved and respected and know their role.

When love comes into your heart not everybody starts from a same principle! Everyone has the right to manifest love in his own way....
Some need more time to formalize their relationship and others not!
Some were part of disappointment when they discover that their relationship was not based on love but rather on a greencard or others foreigners coming here became house maid or even abused. And so, this relationships was not based on love but interest !!!! But for those who love truly does not matter that they were married after one week or after 10 years and for the love to not vanish you should work on it from the first day till the last. But in the end what is certain in life is that nothing is certain and everything has an end.

When love comes into your heart not everybody starts from a same principle! Everyone has the right to manifest love in his own way....
Some need more time to formalize their relationship and others not!
Some were part of disappointment when they discover that their relationship was not based on love but rather on a greencard or others foreigners coming here became house maid or even abused. And so, this relationships was not based on love but interest !!!! But for those who love truly does not matter that they were married after one week or after 10 years and for the love to not vanish you should work on it from the first day till the last. But in the end what is certain in life is that nothing is certain and everything has an end.

What does she lost and what does she gain?? It is not to be with the loved person without obtaining an advantage and disinterest of the financial?
I think what you want to highlight is the material terms and what the OP can offer her. But as the OP had said: "About a two to three weeks before she arrived here our communications began to get strained"...
Did she not know nothing about OP's life here? If from beginning had a cold attitude.
Then why then she accepted got married and live here unhappy?
We all went through changes when we followed the one we love but together we have to adjust to the new life!!
And NOT!
"When laying in bed after waking up, if I put my arm around her and say "good morning", she takes my hand as if it were a dirty diaper"
"It has gotten to the point if I want to communicate with her I have to send an email"
"It seems the only time things appear to improve is if there is an appointment approaching with USCIS"
"I thought I was lonely before we met, but it was nothing compared to what I'm going through now"
!!!!
YES, she is only after the greencard!The reasons only she knows. But to tease your partner and to take advantage of his human kindness and love, that is b***
The respect is earned, not required!!
Love and respect, but if there is no respect - is there love??
There are cases where woman/man use american citizens to obtain citizenship, green card just that later to bring their dear love from the native country! Like someone else already said and I pull to reach the same conclusion: She is here for a mission to accomplished!!

What does she lost and what does she gain?? It is not to be with the loved person without obtaining an advantage and disinterest of the financial?
I think what you want to highlight is the material terms and what the OP can offer her. But as the OP had said: "About a two to three weeks before she arrived here our communications began to get strained"...
Did she not know nothing about OP's life here? If from beginning had a cold attitude.
Then why then she accepted got married and live here unhappy?
We all went through changes when we followed the one we love but together we have to adjust to the new life!!
And NOT!
"When laying in bed after waking up, if I put my arm around her and say "good morning", she takes my hand as if it were a dirty diaper"
"It has gotten to the point if I want to communicate with her I have to send an email"
"It seems the only time things appear to improve is if there is an appointment approaching with USCIS"
"I thought I was lonely before we met, but it was nothing compared to what I'm going through now"
!!!!
YES, she is only after the greencard!The reasons only she knows. But to tease your partner and to take advantage of his human kindness and love, that is b***
The respect is earned, not required!!
Love and respect, but if there is no respect - is there love??
There are cases where woman/man use american citizens to obtain citizenship, green card just that later to bring their dear love from the native country! Like someone else already said and I pull to reach the same conclusion: She is here for a mission to accomplished!!

What does she lost and what does she gain?? It is not to be with the loved person without obtaining an advantage and disinterest of the financial?
I think what you want to highlight is the material terms and what the OP can offer her. But as the OP had said: "About a two to three weeks before she arrived here our communications began to get strained"...
Did she not know nothing about OP's life here? If from beginning had a cold attitude.
Then why then she accepted got married and live here unhappy?
We all went through changes when we followed the one we love but together we have to adjust to the new life!!
And NOT!
"When laying in bed after waking up, if I put my arm around her and say "good morning", she takes my hand as if it were a dirty diaper"
"It has gotten to the point if I want to communicate with her I have to send an email"
"It seems the only time things appear to improve is if there is an appointment approaching with USCIS"
"I thought I was lonely before we met, but it was nothing compared to what I'm going through now"
!!!!
YES, she is only after the greencard!The reasons only she knows. But to tease your partner and to take advantage of his human kindness and love, that is b***
The respect is earned, not required!!
Love and respect, but if there is no respect - is there love??
There are cases where woman/man use american citizens to obtain citizenship, green card just that later to bring their dear love from the native country! Like someone else already said and I pull to reach the same conclusion: She is here for a mission to accomplished!!