Miss smarty pants

It would only be a red flag if it also accompanied evidence that you plan to kill him. Otherwise, life insurance is a good thing for couples to have.

You became illegal once your VAWA was denied. Go back to Nigeria and work there. You are not legal to work here.

You became illegal once your VAWA was denied. Go back to Nigeria and work there. You are not legal to work here.

I think Sarah was saying it sux things like this happen. Not that they got caught.
I think Sarah was saying it sux things like this happen. Not that they got caught.

I think Sarah was saying it sux things like this happen. Not that they got caught.
I think Sarah was saying it sux things like this happen. Not that they got caught.

I think Sarah was saying it sux things like this happen. Not that they got caught.
I think Sarah was saying it sux things like this happen. Not that they got caught.

Wow. Must really be true love....... Love of the green card, I mean.

It’s all good Visa in hand and she is here now ... The journey is brutal the ups are up but wow the downs I don't know if there is one proper word to describe it "Exasperating plus"
HOWEVER LOVE ALWAYS PREVAILS 1 Cor 13:8

It has been a wonderful week as I pick Julie up last Monday. At first site I ran to her and told her I loved her and would never let you go. From SFO we went home in a Limo, but my poor sweetheart was so tired she took one sip of champagne and slept half the way. When we got home there on the porch were some item’s I shopped for over the internet that included her favorite coffee, Yorkshire pudding, gravy, and a few other English items she likes. Then as we walked in there was her dog Molly very excited and her cat Custard, 2 dozen roses and a card that read FOREVER LOVE with some US spending money, 1 ½ closets, 2 dressers and a full bed and bath room empty just for her. I have thought to myself these closing weeks here is a beautiful women who sold her home, gave up a great paying job, not to mention her family and friends … I AM THE LUCKIEST MAN ON THE EARTH ... Julie and I are enjoying shopping, decorating, gardening, church, walks in the parks and dining out. She has already picked out her wedding dress and we have the church, pastor, photographer and songs all set for 19th of Nov 2001. We are learning how to work and communicate together as a couple and make plans for our future. I cannot thank God enough for bringing us together finally and for the love and the support from all of you. x

Wow. Must really be true love....... Love of the green card, I mean.

Wow. Must really be true love....... Love of the green card, I mean.

Oh. My advice for his interview....be there at a cafe outside if you can.
Casa is tough and your presence shows dedication.

First of all, having had the vaccines already is not the same as getting the vaccines once you are already pregnant. There is a possibility that the baby will not be affected at all. Second, please don't rush so fast to make this decision without consulting a qualified Obstetrician first. It is entirely possible that you could still have a perfectly normal and healthy child. Please weigh all of your options, seek professional guidance from a qualified OB/GYN and discuss this with your husband before you make a decision.
Best wishes to you and congratulations!

Since you are obviously a bit foggy up there, let me give you a simple piece of information.
The deportation of a single illegal immigrant costs us, the American people, $11,500 on average. Multiply that with an estimated 11,000,000 illegal aliens and the bill gets up to 1,265,000,000,000.00. Can you even pronounce that? Doesn't matter, because we don't have that kind of cash anyway. Not even close. In fact, we are broke and have maxed out all of our credit cards. That's why we had this long talk about raising the debt ceiling!
Now, forget the unpronouncable amount of money we can't spend and tell me how many years ICE will be busy with the current amount of 11,000,000 illegal aliens if they deport 250,000 per year, every year? If you didn't flunk 4th grade math, you will come to the correct answer of 44 years, so we are talking the year 2055 if no new illegal immigrants are added.
So what's the solution?
Printing money won't work, deporting more illegal aliens we can't afford, hiring more CBP and ICE agents we can't afford, higher taxes the Reptilians don't want, so what? I'll tell you: focus. Focus on those illegal aliens that cause the most harm: criminals. Why kicking in school doors out dragging children out of the classroom or Jose from the strawberry field if for the same $11,500 we can deport a real bad boy.
This has nothing to do with ideology but priorities and common sense. For that reason the DREAM Act will pass. We may not like it, but we can't afford not to, purely from a financial perspective.
Time for you to catch up with both and get a taste of reality.

Oftentimes it helps to view something from a different prospective.
You want to save a dog. Instead of adopting one that comes with papers and has gone through proper training, you go to a shelter where they only have aggressive dogs that are basically unadoptable.
You find one you like, it looks at you with his puppy eyes, wags his tail. You take him home and treat him like a favorite child. A while later this dog bites you severely, leaves deep wounds under your skin, and after having a specialist take a closer look, you find out that this dog has indeed a history of aggression, so you picked an aggressive dog from a pool of aggressive dogs.
Surprise!
You let the dog go but now it roams the neighborhood, bites people, children, then hides again in the bushes, only waiting for the next opportunity and victim. Do you have a moral obligation to warn other people that the dog you freed is ready to attack at any time, or should you feel sorry for yourself instead?
Guess that's a question you have to answer.

Why did you have your friend killed?

Even if the k1 divorce rate is 40% as you say... That is still about right on target with the rest of the national average of couples who met here, married here and dated for months...whatever. I dont know how hard this was for you....but because it was made so hard for my husband and myself, we have now waited 2 years and 3 months and still arent even at nvc yet! So....im so glad for you that your spouse is with you, but I wouldnt be so quick to wish it harder as a generalization on anyone in this forum. We already have it hard emotionally and financially and this is not an easy process. Not at all from where im sitting. And I sure would hate to think it couldnt happen at all if I hadnt gone to college. My grandparents have never been over the poverty line their whole lives. They had the happiest 55 years of anyone I ever met.

I think it should be harder to adopt a puppy. LOL. Look at all the ''cute little puppy's'' that grow up and get thrown back to the animal shelter.

Even if the k1 divorce rate is 40% as you say... That is still about right on target with the rest of the national average of couples who met here, married here and dated for months...whatever. I dont know how hard this was for you....but because it was made so hard for my husband and myself, we have now waited 2 years and 3 months and still arent even at nvc yet! So....im so glad for you that your spouse is with you, but I wouldnt be so quick to wish it harder as a generalization on anyone in this forum. We already have it hard emotionally and financially and this is not an easy process. Not at all from where im sitting. And I sure would hate to think it couldnt happen at all if I hadnt gone to college. My grandparents have never been over the poverty line their whole lives. They had the happiest 55 years of anyone I ever met.

Even if the k1 divorce rate is 40% as you say... That is still about right on target with the rest of the national average of couples who met here, married here and dated for months...whatever. I dont know how hard this was for you....but because it was made so hard for my husband and myself, we have now waited 2 years and 3 months and still arent even at nvc yet! So....im so glad for you that your spouse is with you, but I wouldnt be so quick to wish it harder as a generalization on anyone in this forum. We already have it hard emotionally and financially and this is not an easy process. Not at all from where im sitting. And I sure would hate to think it couldnt happen at all if I hadnt gone to college. My grandparents have never been over the poverty line their whole lives. They had the happiest 55 years of anyone I ever met.

Thank you. Maybe I will get it now this week.

Im sorry that you are waiting so long too. I hope it comes for us both very soon.

I am certainly hoping that time comes. You and I both started this about the same time and here we both are waiting for USCIS to make a decision again almost like it's right back at square one, it seems. I am hoping this last time goes quicker for us both and we both get through. I appreciate your kind words and your prayers. My husband is aware of your case as well. I do believe it helps to know we are not the only ones that have waited so long.
I have heard so many people say that actually getting the visa and getting the spouse or fiancee here is the easy part of the journey and that it gets harder once they are here and dependent on you for every little thing and making all those hard adjustments to a new life. That has not been the case for those second filers among us. I would trade the frustrations of adjustment for all this waiting and wondering anyday. After of this, I don't think anything will ever come between us again.

I don't think this information is right.
If a second petition is filed in less than 2 years of the previous approved petition, there must be a waiver letter for a limitation waiver. Otherwise there will be RFE. I have been in that situation. If you go through the instruction of the I-129f Section 2 specifically instructed to have a waiver letter.
Good luck

My K1 was refused in Casablanca last January 2010. I was advised that I should wait for my petition to arrive back at USCIS and file a freedom of information act request to know the reason. I wasted months on this. And when I finally received the Consular noted pages from my returned K1, they were mostly blank and provided no real useful information as to the reason. Consulates are not required to give a reason for returning a K1.
So.......based on my own experience and having read here of the dozens of returned petition stories of other people over the last couple of years.....my thoughts to you are this:
1) Go over the interview questions very well from your fiancee. Try to determine from that where things went wrong. Come here and post the Q&As if you need some outside insight.
2) Then either go to Casa and get married or refile your K1. No reason to waste more months of your life following a dead expiring petition.
3) Be sure to address any possible issues up front in your next petition. Frontloading will be of great benefit for that Consulate in your situation.
4) Be prepared for a long road ahead. You may encounter further scrutiny in your next petition.
Best wishes to you in your decision. I know how hard this can be.

Look for a thread called... Hoping not to be denied in casablanca. We lisred our questions thete.