KittyPollitt

I know from Egypt that the situation you're in would make you a single mother because of the social stigma and laws involved.

Actually if she was living in Egypt she'd probably be honor killed by now.

Thank goodness I'm not in Egypt, and thank goodness I don't associate with negative, fanatical individuals like you who would say such an completely off topic, off colour comment.

How on earth was that off topic?? I was just replying to what Olivia said it would be like in Egypt in your situation. If you're shocked about that then good luck if you go to Morocco with the baby or pregnant. BTW I'm not fanatical at all. I don't believe in honor killings but I'm not in denial about them either. They're much more commonplace than one might think.

Lets see, it has NOTHING to do with my situation, I'm not shocked about it, I'm perfectly aware about the way things are. The bottom line is, I'm NOT in Morocco, I'm NOT in Egypt- I asked a simple question, and your comment was simply a smart #### comment. Perhaps you should take it to a topic about honor killings and Islamic law, instead of one on US Immigration law.

I know from Egypt that the situation you're in would make you a single mother because of the social stigma and laws involved.

Actually if she was living in Egypt she'd probably be honor killed by now.

Thank goodness I'm not in Egypt, and thank goodness I don't associate with negative, fanatical individuals like you who would say such an completely off topic, off colour comment.

First, thank you to those who have given good advice... To answer some questions, I've known him a year, we were online friends first, his family is very supportive of us- while it may be a Muslim country, not every family is strict, (just like my family are Christmas and Easter Catholics, lol). I have dealt with men hunting for Green Cards in the past, and I know I'm not in that situation now, he is not pushing me to do any of this, and quite honestly I think the thought of living in America scares the ####### out of him, but he's willing to do it so that we can be together. I spoke to my immigration lawyer today, after this onslaught of negativity, and she told me that we should have no problems, as long as we can prove that our relationship is legitimate, that a child has no bearing on our situation, and nothing about our child need be included in our application. She did tell me that it would be best if I didn't take the baby to Morocco until we are married. Oh yes, and I am not due in the summer, I am due in late November. I can thank Maryland divorce law for making my marriage look alot longer than it was, I have to wait a year for it to be final, even though I only lived with him for a little less than 4 months, and I currently have no clue where he is. Really, I just want to move on with my life with someone whom I adore, and who was there for me as a dear friend when I went through the horror of a fraudulent marriage and subsequent uprooting of the life I was just starting to build, and who, thank God, I found later to be the love of my life. I'm terribly sorry if our actions have been offensive to anyone on this forum, I just thought I could find some kind of support here, perhaps I was wrong, perhaps I was right.

Thanks again.

wow, thank all of you for your prejudgements. its so good to see how many people on the internet have such high moral standing. as far as whats best for MY CHILD, i think being with both it's parents is on that list. and perhaps i should have gotten into further detail about my 4 month marriage that ended in LEGAL separation because my husband decided he was a homosexual. in a forum where EVERYONE faces scrutiny about the legitimacy of thier relationships, i expected far more compassion and understanding... and i suppose i'm much better off contacting an attorney than listening to the advice of "online counsel". good luck to you all.

So, I met him on Facebook last year (while in a short-lived, miserable marrige) fell in love online, separated from my husband, and last month travelled to Morocco to meet him. We had a wonderful time, and we plan to marry when my divorce is final (which will be October). I got back to the US and discovered I am pregnant. This goes against Moroccan tradition, and Moroccan law. I'm having the baby, inchallah, and plan to file his K1 in November. Will our child help us or hinder us in any ways? Its certainly proof that we're serious, lol.. but I worry it may get us in trouble. Any advice?

Sarah