I agree! I thought this is all about the visa thingy but I suppose it is and facebook at the same time. All you can see on member's page is people's updates and comments up and down. Cant see the timeline unless you go deeper on member's profile.
Yeah, it has become a site where people bang heads as opposed to helping each other. I'm avoiding the forums and opting for personal messenger instead. Visa questions are rarely brought up nowadays and I think a lot of girls have chosen to contact others directly to avoid unwanted contact.