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looking forward to January, i remembered filling last year for my hubby on September 11, and I got approved on January 29th, 2009 before I had to cancel and refile due to incomplete divorce. if i get any news i will be glad to share later, for now i will be away from here for good. it seems like they are on vacation. and this is not one of my bipolar moods, this is for real. why border when my file is piled up in some boxes, i can't take it out anyway I send my prayers to it daily though. Goodbye everyone, see u all later at NVC stage when we get their.
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yes, so there should be some action within that 1 month period if they are truly working and intends to work as they should. this week is not showing any touches yet and we may not have any action but absolutely after thanksgiving should yield something God willing.
Thanksgiving is next week right, 25th?And then it should be another month before December 25. GAH.
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he he, that was me that day at that moment, i am bipolar now with this waiting period. Ever had about mood swings? That is what i frequently get now.
But in the little insanity going on in my head I still know that at least within the next 75days there will be an approval by God's grace.
@Sachinsky, i think maybe some approvals will come this week as well, but it is close to thanksgiving and the vacations are coming. Let's wait and see, but at least by the 1st week in december there should be some action before the christmas and new year breaks starts to roll in.
i am 36, 2 files after 34 and 13 files before 49 so what happened to my file ??? i guess my name is too hard to spell, they make me feel like i got no luck at all. it has been 75 days of hell for me now and it is really getting into me, making me perform poorly in what i am doing. my heart want toburst into fire at times and my eyes just can't take the waters anymore. what am i suppose to do, accept faith and prepare for 75 days more at most even without guarantee, afterall they are the USCIS who can tell them when to adjudicate? goodluck peeple, or should i jst say good wait?wacxxxxxx49 <---- approved on september 22.wacxxxxxx34 <==== october 27th......
this means they dont process cases as receieved. petition ending in 34 shouldve been the one getting approval before petition ending in 49.
Lolas, you said it yourself in an earlier post. relax and expect the 5 months wait!
Waiter, the MIGHT still process it in order, but maybe the case ending in 34 received an RFE and the adjudicator kept on processing other petitions until the RFE was fixed?
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i am 36, 2 files after 34 and 13 files before 49 so what happened to my file ??? i guess my name is too hard to spell, they make me feel like i got no luck at all. it has been 75 days of hell for me now and it is really getting into me, making me perform poorly in what i am doing. my heart want toburst into fire at times and my eyes just can't take the waters anymore. what am i suppose to do, accept faith and prepare for 75 days more at most even without guarantee, afterall they are the USCIS who can tell them when to adjudicate? goodluck peeple, or should i jst say good wait?
wacxxxxxx49 <---- approved on september 22.wacxxxxxx34 <==== october 27th......
this means they dont process cases as receieved. petition ending in 34 shouldve been the one getting approval before petition ending in 49.
lol .. damn what are we doing? we have gone mad.
maybe someone from CSC surfs the VJ forum and he is like... OH YEAH ? u ppl wana keep an eye on us what we do and when we do and how we do. OK then. keep guessing the numbers while we make you wait exactly 5 months.
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Meh, I had to do something!
so what u gonna do? it is tough being an American, the most bureacratic country in the whole world. oh lord i so much despise the law ---- real mean --- especially when it comes to cases like ours where it simply is gray!
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you are both in the unlucky boat, too sad for yeah
no news no news...what CSC is doing these days???? processing some other type of cases? like k1's or k3's????has anyone seen any i130 approval antwhere?????? ugh.
Friends .... check this out.
My receipt number is WACxxxxxxxx74.
I tried some numbers backwards to see where csc has stopped. and the first case which i got as approval was WACxxxxxxxx49.
Post-Decision Activity
On September 22, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I130 IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.
For approved applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include USCIS sending notification of the approved application/petition to the National Visa Center or the Department of State. For denied applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include the processing of an appeal and/or motions to reopen or reconsider and revocations.
so looks like receipt number wacxxxxx49 was approved almost 2 months ago. I am just 25 cases away. where csc couldnt reach in 2 months, WTH.
comon cscccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccc
this whole immigration thing made me half bald.
Well that means they are not in order
because i am about 4 days ahead of you mine is WACxxxxxxxx08
Let's try a few more numbers. I'm WACXXXXX11403 and 11404. The uscis may process more than 100+ applications a day. Plus they waste the # before yours.
WOW! WACxxxxxxxx06 is showing the exact same date as mine and same status
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Guess what, I am WACXXXXXXX36 and still in review, 37 not online, 38 review, 42 approved on 22nd of september. We must have fell into the lazy hands. May God save us from this jungle
no news no news...what CSC is doing these days???? processing some other type of cases? like k1's or k3's????has anyone seen any i130 approval antwhere?????? ugh.
Friends .... check this out.
My receipt number is WACxxxxxxxx74.
I tried some numbers backwards to see where csc has stopped. and the first case which i got as approval was WACxxxxxxxx49.
Post-Decision Activity
On September 22, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I130 IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.
For approved applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include USCIS sending notification of the approved application/petition to the National Visa Center or the Department of State. For denied applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include the processing of an appeal and/or motions to reopen or reconsider and revocations.
so looks like receipt number wacxxxxx49 was approved almost 2 months ago. I am just 25 cases away. where csc couldnt reach in 2 months, WTH.
comon cscccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccccc
this whole immigration thing made me half bald.
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as you can read in my profile, i am still in the waiting for so much but I sincerely wish you the best. i do not think that any of the preparations could be enough or exact since each person get asked different questions depending on circumstances. Good luck, I hope you comeback with great news.
MY fiance's interview is in 12 hours in Lagos Nigeria. The suspence is too much. I can't concentrate at work. I am trying to stay busy, but I am just sitting here.I did everything I could possibly think of to prepare him- . Its in God's hands and the whatever compassion there might be in the Consulate in Lagos.
I think I will be drinking down the bottle tonight. How did all of you deal with the last 24 hours before interview????
This is so hard
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This is pretty much the standard answer. I think it is a good idea to expect 5 months otherwise one can develop a heart attack. Whatever it is, it seems like the entire process is 8 months if approved between 4 to 5 months at USCIS. That is enough time to have a viable baby.
Well, i am two months gone hopefully by God's grace it will not be longer than 6 months before my hubby can join me here. I remember to breath everyday and thank God with hope.
Hi, I called the IO to check on the status. The categorical response was "Currently it is taking 5 months to process I-130s". Your status is "in-process". This dashed any hopes of an early I-130 approval. I am making my plans to visit India to meet my spouseThanks
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I-130 for Spouse - India
9/14/09 - Mailed Date
9/23/09 - NOA1 approval and check cashed and Notice Date
9/26/09 - Received Date
10/30/09 - I-129F file date
11/4/09- NOA1 for I-129F
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LOLA, I ended things amicably with him. Offered for him to live with his brother and help him ROC then file divorce. I still had the evidence of his brothers emails, but for my son's sake I wanted things and i guess i wanted to pretend the just did not work out. God was not going to let me live in denial. How would I grow If i did not admit and face the truth.
He called the cops on me after I told him he could move and I would still help him. I think that is a conman. I read the emails between him and his brother talking about immigration and me.
His brother paid for everything. Once his brother was here the money stopped. I supported him and my mother paid for his CNA school.
He is a hard worker, he was caring and thoughtful. Seemed gentle and kind, but reading his emails he was a different person typing. He used cultural to confuse me. And I accepted this for a while.
You know, in your other thread you're concerned that he defrauded the government, and what can you do about that, but if you had removed conditions with him, based on an ongoing marriage, but you two were technically separated...then you would be just as guilty of misrepresentation. If the marriage is over before the 2 years, he can ROC by himself.
i would never be kind enough to offer that to any man who has let me down not to talk of scamming me into a marriage no matter how Godly I am. She said in the other thread that she was in denial of what was going on and that was why she was willing to do this, anyhow it doesn't make scamming right and he should be punished. I would think that she won't feel sad if she had been on it with the scamers from the beginning and wouldn't have been living with him if she had been a scamer and I hope that ICE will see it that way and not perceive her to be the "would be paid person" in the e-mails.
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At the time I said, i would work with him to ROC, I was in denial. I wanted to pretned that our relationship just did not work out. DENIAL as many people stay in the relationship. Less embarassing to say it was cultural or just didnt' work out.
When he called the cops that caused me to open my eyes. Pull out the evidence I had collected and tucked away for a rainy day. Then hyjacking his email just solidified everything. A man who remained so quiet and cooperative in person and verbalized differently when communicating to his brother is just a pure manipulater.
I will submit my proof and evidence and let the chips fall where they may. I coudl care less if he stay, after what he did to me and my son he will never enjoy his stay here in America.
it is sad when people repay kindness and love with disappointment, may the lord give you victory in this case. It is even more disgusting that he portrays himself as a man of God, I am not too surprised about that because he was dismissed from his congregation that shows that he was never truthful. Plus there are lots of them fake pastors in Nigeria that I have no faith in any of them that describes themselves as men of God, I just hold my faith in the supreme being and serve him directly not through any pastor or ustaz. I think you have thought things thru and you should be fine in this journey. If u ever have any specific question in regards to divorce in Nigeria feel free to PM me and I will be glad to let u know the truth. Good luck, i hope you get him, the e-mails should send him back to his past in Nigeria and I hope that you were not in on this with them at any level. Keeps us posted on the outcome.
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so on that conclusion i think citizen by birth would take less time because he/she wont have a A file. and they will process the application on the merit of proofs which u send in with your petition. like birth certificate/ copy of passport etc.
Well said, but I wonder why some USCs by birth takes longer just like the naturalized citizens. there seems to be a gray area, whatever it is, I feel that 5 months is too much to process the petitions too. That is like half a year and enough time to develop high blood pressure, depression and thoughts of suicide
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omg! you guys are cracking me up
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it is same here as well though but I just decide to forget USCIS and wait upon the lord. The whole process sucks, it takes time away from studying for me and gives me a lot of heart palpitions everytime my phone text message beeps. I cannot even describe what it does to my hubby and the non-progression of our lives i.e happy living, starting family e.t.c (it takes 5 years to naturalize and more time to file I-130) what is not suck about that? But looking at it from another perspective, in at most 6 months time everything will be over.
@sachinsky: i frontloaded my application because i got so much going on (story of my life) and I am heading for lagos embassy which has reputation for not checking whatever you bring to interview (though not in all cases). a lot of people frontload, some think it is good while some feel that it may slow processing thinking that a voluminous package will take time to decipher than a thin packet. What you have sent is good enough i think, it included a bit of everything and should be sufficient i suppose.
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Thanks Everyone who spare time to comment..In some way or another it made us a bit eased and encourage!
Yes LOLAs, this is the reality we have to face and its a NERVE-RACKING experience but its really nice to know that after all of this, everything is WORTH IT!
Have a nice day everyone!
we will all get their with faith and hopefully will not regret our actions. goodluck
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well the fact that women takes all in most divorce in the US and the men has to pay in spouse support is one of the many that is different from the countries in which some foreign spouse's come from.
i do not want to get into this issue here because it really offers no help to the situation of "enlighted one". such differences are not usually obvious when dating, they come back to haunt one when the relationship is sour like this.
if he has conned her like she claims then she should do whatever she can to get him deported, i will do that if i am in her shoes. what i will not do is to get him deported because we are no longer together if he had not conned me. i think ICE will figure that out when she reports. I am just wondering whether she might not be doubted when she has went along with him in using a marriage cert that doesn't have a official name, agree to help him with ROC even though she realized that he is a scam and lastly getting support from him and the relationship seems to end when the money is not coming anymore. she needs to think all these out before making a case otherwise she will tie herself into the mess and be accused of accepting payment to be married to him.
I do not in any way imply that you had been married to him for any of these reasons and I truly sympathize with you and really hope that you get through this. But I want you to know that now you may not be thinking right and all this may come back to bite you if you are not careful, in the end he may get deported but taint you for the future.
Enlighten,If no one was arrested at your home, and the officer didn't take any "official" statements, then in all likihood there is not a police report. Police reports are usually reserved for arrests, car accidents, and events that require paperwork. Standing by while your estranged husband is leaving won't necessarily mean there is a report.
I would call and check with the police department, but don't hold your breath for it. Also, if there is a copy there, ask if there is a fee for it. most police stations charge for copies now.
I'm sorry you're going through a rough time right now. Hopefully, life will become much easier on you soon.
Lola,
A lot of women think if they marry a foreign spouse they can order them about and control them because of green card. A lot of time it turns ugly because American culture gives a lot of good liberty to women some of which they abuse. With a foreign spouse it will be uglier because the culture are different.I don't think "a lot" of women have intentions of marrying a foreign spouse with the idea that they can control the other person. Unfortunately, I do think a lot of people marry without really realizing who they are marrying, and when it doesn't work out, the deportation issue becomes a way for some people to be spiteful.
It's unfortunately the easiest way to "get back" at an immigrant spouse, if there are grounds for it.
Can you name an example of a liberty women in the U.S. are given and that they abuse? Legally, women are given the same rights in the country as everyone else, so I am curious to see what kind of liberties you see abused? I'm trying to understand your viewpoint a bit more, and honestly to see if what you consider an abuse of liberty is just something that truly is a cultural difference?
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All emails have been printed, scanned and properly stored.
He wasn't associated with a church when he left, He claimed to be, but I think he just said that because I was telling him he should. I read a letter he wrote to his supervisor at the church because of a bad review he had recieved then later getting terminated. His brother worked for a bank of america, but has since changed his job.
He first applied for a student visa was denied because he failed to show ties. He claimed he was married on the student visa. I have a copy that he left in his suit case.
It is scary that he was so faithful to God, why doesn't he believe that he will suffer for his sins. Amazing.
well, you did not answer the questions on whether the marriage took place in Nigeria or not. If u are filling for divorce now that needs to be addressed. I wonder why you want to help him with ROC before this cop incident, he might use that against you I think. Anyway, look for a good attorney to help you with this journey, since neither of you are domicile in nigeria at this time the only choice for you is to get divorce in the US.
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Yeah, I know it doesn't matter if he/she is or isn't a relative. I'm just worried that does it look "bad" because our joint sponsor is MY relative, the intending immigrant, instead of my USC husband. Logic tells me it's no big deal. However, I'm currently on panic mode, regarding everything.
it doesn't look bad, i will not panic over this but i hope the experts here can answer this question. maybe u should post it in the new topic to get more diverse response. take care
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from my understanding a co-sponsor can be anyone, it doesn't even have to a relative and there is no harm if it is a relative. go back to the instruction for the i-864 and read for yourself, that is the ultimate solution
Let's hope everything goes smoothly from now on. For all of us.Guys, I need your expert opinion on this.
I will be interviewing at Mumbai.
My husband and I both graduated college in May so he's currently not making enough income to sponsor me. So we asked my cousin who is a naturalized USC to joint sponsor and he agreed. My question is: is that going to be a problem? That he is my relative instead of my husband's. I didn't even think it'd be an issue till someone mentioned something in the CR1 boards. We'd have gone with his parents but my father-in-law is between jobs at the moment, and I understand that the joint sponsor must be employed. So we went with my cousin.
What do you think? Is this going to cause issues? I really don't want to have to look for another joint sponsor at this moment.
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Hello
Thought Id ask who is still waiting for NOA2? I filed with Vermont in Sept and still waiting for mine, the times show 5 months now so we expect around January or so. Anyone else?
there are so many of us, you can join us in the thread "September i- 130 FILLERS CHECK IN RIGHT HERE!"
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1. His brother in US gave him the money. His brother sent me brother on occassion when needed with promises my ex would pay him back once in the US (read emails) Once my ex arrived the money stopped. My mother paid for the CNA school.
2. I ended thing s with him 2 weeks prior to him calling the cops. Offered for him to move to AZ and be with his brother or he could stay as a roomate. I knew he was lying and scamming, but wanted to end thing amicably for the sake of my son. What a relief when I ended things, I just didn't need to figure things out anymore.
3. He came and went as he pleased. I would come home from work he would not be home. Didn't call to tell and I didn't call to look for him. Later I found an email where he was meating a girl at the library. Gmail has a way of keeping the whole back and forth conversation,.
4. Never once did I say anythign in general about NIgerians. But I can name about 7 women on hear and one not on hear that where scammed for immigration purposes. Common in all third world countries.
5. his brother who claims to be a christian was in on this the whole time. I read emails between the two when I hyjacked his email account discussing me and the interview.
Do you know the church that they are working with or are they independent church owners? This may be bigger than you as you are now because they may be a regular scam. Make sure you print the e-mails before he change his password.
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I am not sure how this got passed immigrations.
What would a US court say about a document that does not have my legal name in an attempt to get a divorce? This is why I brought this up in the forum just for some ideas. I want to use it just as another proof at his attempt to defraud the Gov.
I have no idea just things I am pondering in light of my information I have gathered.
You brought him here on a IR/CR-1 visa...If they issued him said visa, I assume USCIS examined and verified that your marriage was legal according to both US and Nigerian standards. I'm not sure how you can now claim that the marriage wasn't even legal at all. Maybe a divorce would be a better option? Take care of you.the embassy must have done a shody job, a tribal marriage is often not documented in nigeria but he was suppose to provide a customary divorce to them otherwise, he could be in polygamy / bigamy with you right now. I won't be surprised if he is still married, most christians marry in the church and register later at the court house. Were you in Nigeria for the wedding? Do u know if he had any divorce record for the embassy to work with? Did you have your name changed on the marriage certificate to get through the embassy? I wonder why the embassy issued your visa with the nick name. If you cannot divorce in the US then you will have to go to Nigeria to get divorce and that will just be a challenge for you giving your experience. I feel sad for you now and it just make me angry at the same time
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Hmn, i hope you get through this very well and you sound like you are in control. Just a few point of correction, if he can afford to cater for you in Nigeria like you have described above it implies that he probably can leave comfortably in Nigeria and probably not intend to come here and work as a CNA. But it is your relationship and you knew what happens their. It is just unfortunate that we hear stories like this and people are quick to say the Nigerian spouse is a scam, we never get to know the other person's story.
A lot of women think if they marry a foreign spouse they can order them about and control them because of green card. A lot of time it turns ugly because American culture gives a lot of good liberty to women some of which they abuse. With a foreign spouse it will be uglier because the culture are different. If he can pay your rent in the US he sure must be comfortable in Nigeria, it is 150 naira to a dollar today and it has always been arround 120 t0 130 naira to a dollar two years ago. Money seems not to be the motif here and I wouldn't think green card is the motif if he is working as a CNA. if that has been his motif then shame on him for coming to America to clean other peoples pups when he can live a good life in Nigeria. I always wonder if people will say their hubby scam them if they are USCs, but if it is an immigrant spouse then it is automatically a scam and they want to get them deported just to get back at them. If they had been USC what would they have done? Kill them or get them fired? There is always two side to a story, let us all exercise control before judging anyone.
The fact that someone is a Nigerian doesn't mean that they are scams, I am a proud Nigerian American and so are many others who lives in this country faithfully and work hard to make it great. The fact that a marriage did not work out does not mean that the immigrant spouse sets out to scam you, a lot of marriages do not work out, when yours fail don't turn arround and say that it was because your spouse did it for immigration purposes.
@Enligthten one, report him to whatever agency but be sure you are faithful about what truly transpires and not jump to conclusion. Goodluck to you.
If he truly is a scam, it is people like him that makes it difficult for real people to get their visa and the lord will punish him severely for that. Which church is he working for? If he is with the redeem christian church, CAC, or TAC you can write their church head and report him. They have a disciplinary committee and I do not think that they will accept this. I am concerned about where he gets all the money that he spent on you, if he doesn't have a good life in Nigeria.
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The signs were there from the beginning.
We met through a friend. A frien I knew for 20 years. He is in on it trying to claim I wsa mean to him and didn't teach him the american ways he was afraid for his life with me. He doesn't care about me...just getting their country man here.
Now everything was paid for, I stayed in expensive hotels when I was in Nigeria. I was sent money for the trip. My passport and medical shots all paid for. My rent so I could afford to take time away from work. So he was a man of God that is where I was threw back. He really does walk and talk. WE had some deep conversations about being christian. But he thinks he will be forgiven for his sins.
Here are the signs I have been warning woman to look out for. As I was going through the process, I was trying to decifer how much was us and how much was him just getting to America. I do see where there was a time he took this seriouse, but the minute the money issues came about. He became calculating.
1. If you were in a bad relationship before and did not do anything to change yourself. There is a good chance you are just looking for another bad relationship.
2. They will send you a gift from there country. This is to show proof of the inseption of the relationship.
3. Everyone around while you are in NIgeria are in on it. They are looking at the big picture. Because once he makes it to America they will be financialy rewarded.
4. Your dreams and goal are theres. The listen to everything you say, and spit it back at you.
On the line of warning others. How did the two of you meet and how did the courtship go? In retrospect was there any warning signs that you didn't know enough to see ?Hmn, i hope you get through this very well and you sound like you are in control. Just a few point of correction, if he can afford to cater for you in Nigeria like you have described above it implies that he probably can leave comfortably in Nigeria and probably not intend to come here and work as a CNA. But it is your relationship and you knew what happens their. It is just unfortunate that we hear stories like this and people are quick to say the Nigerian spouse is a scam, we never get to know the other person's story.
A lot of women think if they marry a foreign spouse they can order them about and control them because of green card. A lot of time it turns ugly because American culture gives a lot of good liberty to women some of which they abuse. With a foreign spouse it will be uglier because the culture are different. If he can pay your rent in the US he sure must be comfortable in Nigeria, it is 150 naira to a dollar today and it has always been arround 120 t0 130 naira to a dollar two years ago. Money seems not to be the motif here and I wouldn't think green card is the motif if he is working as a CNA. if that has been his motif then shame on him for coming to America to clean other peoples pups when he can live a good life in Nigeria. I always wonder if people will say their hubby scam them if they are USCs, but if it is an immigrant spouse then it is automatically a scam and they want to get them deported just to get back at them. If they had been USC what would they have done? Kill them or get them fired? There is always two side to a story, let us all exercise control before judging anyone.
The fact that someone is a Nigerian doesn't mean that they are scams, I am a proud Nigerian American and so are many others who lives in this country faithfully and work hard to make it great. The fact that a marriage did not work out does not mean that the immigrant spouse sets out to scam you, a lot of marriages do not work out, when yours fail don't turn arround and say that it was because your spouse did it for immigration purposes.
@Enligthten one, report him to whatever agency but be sure you are faithful about what truly transpires and not jump to conclusion. Goodluck to you.
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The wait is over. My husband had his interview at 10am today. He called me at work and told me he was approved!!! There was more people denied then approved and I thank God for his grace! The interview was no more than 7 minutes long. The interviewer was really impressed with our evidence and how many years we have been holding on in this distance relationship! Thanks to everyone that has helped me in this journey. If I can help in any way just send me message! Good luck to all of you!!!
I am so hapi for u, interview at lagos is like a dog that went to the lion den and came out alive, it is worth celebration. Congrats, congrats, congrats. Can you kindly let us know the questions that were asked and the evidence that were provided? That is where my hubby is heading to when we get approved. We have been together for 4 years now hope that is enough to impress them. Kindly pm me if you don't want to post the response in the open frum. Thanks in advance
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Yeah 3 months, tell me about it. Even some october filers are at NVC while some K1 sept fillers already have their visa. The USCIS name need to be changed to United States Center for Injustice Services. I do not look forward to any surprise from these guys because all they've got is disappointment. It is confirmed they have a lot of lazy employees who wait till last minute to do the job we are paying them to do, otherwise there is no point for the huge discrepancies in processing of applications. Imagine som1 that filed in July without any RFE is still not approved, what do we call that bad luck? I bet not, it is called inefficiency and inequitable like the market justice. It reminded me of my bank who deducted someone else's check from my account twice and left me with nothing, when the banker answered my call she said it usually does not happen to the same person twice (giving me a look) as if it has got anything to do with my luck, whereas the root cause is that one or a few of their staff is not doing his/her job properly.
I will go away for some more time and I have told myself that even if the worst happen, I have a choice to abandon my citizenship and choose to live my hubby foreva, so scr** USCIS and the rest of their bureaucratic brothers zombies!
FYI: My K3 was filed on Sept 3rd and no action, so there is nothing to proof to me that there is any justice in K3 and that they are in Oct. it is the same ineffective and inequitable processing as CR-1.
None of my hard made tears will be shed for USCIS, for being alone I may shed some, but for USCIS, CSC, NVC, EMBASSY and whatever MTFs - nothing. I could care less about a system that has rub inequality in my face even if I am approved today I still don't give a damn about them.
And for lambasting them here, I AM NOT GOING TO RUN FOR PRESIDENT, i do not even have a US birth cert., therefore I can run my mouth all I want. I WILL NOT RUN FOR ANY PUBLIC OFFICE, I am thus allowed to criticize the system that makes me sad and acts disgracefully.