NVC FAN :(

I know your both young , unless this boy is some kind of alter boy. I can tell you that when i was 22 the last thing on my mind was marriage.

you should consider your future.

Just a opinion at this point . but if he legally signed over all responsbility of the child, i would presume that he has no obligation, personally or money wise.

If i were you i would tell your fiancee to prepare for that child to be counted. the only way i could see that the child would not be his responsibility to some extent would be if your fiancee legally signed over his rights and the mother took full responsibility of the child, which may not even be possible, that would be for a court to decide im sure. in manila prepare for the worst, if it works out the easy way then great.

gl

ya bob , ill just pay the penalty. since i am never sick, and never been to the hospital. i guess i can afford to send you #### in my place.

get a clue go back home.

I know what your saying about the gross and net. my and my wife went through manila embassy, at the time i was self employed satelite television installer. I know the Adjusted gross income was what they were looking for, i also had 1 son from before the marriage. although he is partially dependent on me, i just assumed they would count him as a part of the household.

I wont get in a pissing contest with anyone on here, but from what i have learned in the past its not good when they give your passport back to the beneficiary after the interview. I have heard of times when the same thing was said

" sorry your denied " but they keep the passport! and enventually i believe get approved.

I am not sure what i would do in your situation it is unique just like all others,

gl

relax your going to be approved. you really think that after you paid all the fees and already in the us that they are just going to decide to send you home. I know its frustrating, as far as the process and the us in general ' love it or leave it' when im in the ph i accept the way things are and change myself to conform. so many ppl come here and want to change our way of life. most of those ppl i call democrats but thats another story. good luck

most if not all canadians are democrats, thats why i could never live there. And really have no desire to even visit.

you ask now what. well tell your fiancee to get ready to spend about a hundred dollars on phone calls to the embassy . asking them why if they have your file you can not schedule a interview.

they will tell you your case is not ' complete' they have your papers , but are not ready to schedule you. call them over and over a gain . make sure they know how much you have spent on the pin numbers calling.

thats what finally did it for us. i told the guy that i spend 120 dollars on phone calls and i will not be spending anymore. he said ok i guess we can give you interview date now!

anyways you are close, gl

Sorry i can tell you are just devastated about the marriage not working out. just so you know if you do manage to get a ssn , it will not matter now or in the future. cause below the number it will state " NOT ELIGIBLE FOR WORK " you can ask anyone on here. So if you want to waste what little time you have left going to the ssn office and waiting another week or 2 to get the card. but it will mean nothing. you can not ajust your status.

before i feel sorry for you, i would have to be satisfied that you are NOT related, and that your not using the k1 visa to get a sibling into the country in 6 months instead of 6 years!

my wife really wishes sister would be here with us also or even her brother

yes, I think no one is qualified to say what a consul will say in this case. If you factor in the economic situation and the disablility and the daughter, i would probaly give you less than a 50% chance. the daughters income will end one day its not sustainable.

just hope for the best. but prepare for worst

gl

I would ask him if he had been petitioned by someone else in the past. Or if he was petitioned then it was cancelled for some reason.

weird how the petitioner must tell all past petitioning history, but is there no rule for beneficiaries? to tell this same info?

something they seen they did not like.

hope for the best.

Man your wasting your time! i wasted 5 years of my life with a woman similiar to your wife. thank god i did not marry her though! You will not catch her again, she will make sure of that. she will ride you for the 3 year citizenship, then the power that you had! that power that you gave away 3 years ago IS HERS! now your powerless, you can threaten her all you want and she just smile and laugh in your face.

if you had any brain or logical thoughts , send this woman back. if she continues talking to you in the future petition her again!

chances are that she will go back to ph and be banging that dude.

what are you going to do when you and her visit ph, your going to keep her on a leash the entire time, monitor her phone calls.

you asking for all kinds of pain, message me and well meet up and i will just beat the living ###### out of you . thats what you will want after she gets done with you.

i would not give any advice on how to not pay or portray that you did pay when in fact you did not. even though these will be forgiven, that tax issue is a crime. ask wesley!

With everything being said, i know she could not keep you from traveling to the philippines. but as far as petitioning another woman from the philippines , that could be done very easy. even if her mom did not work for the nbi, all she would need to do is file a phony claim with the embassy saying that you abused or pimped her out. then if you ever tryed to file another petition for another woman, you would be flagged. that is the part i would be worried about if you intend to look for another wife in philippines.

good luck

One thing that i m pretty sure of , is that CBP has much swing in regards to whether you get into this country. I would imagine that if you just talk to them they way you are on here they could deny you entry.

they can and will.

very little you can do about it except file a greivance that will probaly sit on some politicians desk for 6 months then get tossed in the trash.

Love it or leave it , if you understand that.

who ever entertains this notion is a fan of that fat #### michael moore. get a brain transplant and move to canada and you will be fine.

Heracles, if you want all ###### paid for in full by the goverment, or as many forget your family and neighbors. move to canada you will be much happier.

quit trying to change the rest of us. the rest of us being the silent majority

Shirorisu........ I WANT IT AND I WANT IT NOW!

How is this for irrational, I DONT WANT TO PAY FOR YOUR HOUSE PAYMENT! I DONT WANT TO PAY FOR YOUR MEDICAL CARE!

IF I WANT EITHER OF THESE , I will either sign on the dotted line, or purchase for myself!

Some people dont like paying for other peoples mistakes, were not all as SOCIAL as you would like us to be.

i made 3 trips, about 6 months apart. the end of 3rd trip she return with me.

not sure how to take the white trash comment. i could think of a couple names of ppl from your country too

I think a lot of W , i agree with most of his views and i like his , dont take no bullshit attitude. please poster dont compare him to jimmy carter.

Liam

You can tell your friend that he has been taken for a fool, I can understand her wanting to stay at uncles house until the marriage, but it seems she focused on her career and not your friend. You can tell your friend that her uncle being a immigration officer means nothing. Tell your friend to cancel the wedding, wait till her I94 expires then contact uscis or ice to have her deported if she has not already left by then.

If he stays with this woman he is in for a life or misery and pain. if he is truely your friend you better make him see that before its to late!

gl

better get used to it, after november things will change