GloriaLuvsMoto2

Just passed! Consul said it was a very easy decision and was done in less than two hours!!!

I don't post here much, but we want to thank everyone for their help.

CONGATS SIS!! IM SO HAPPY FOR BOTH OF YOU!!

His first tagalog words/phrase "Babe naman eh" - he would always say that when i would kiss his kili kili.. yay!! hehe. AWESOME!!!

Here is the perfect picture to send him. I cannot post the pic but here is the link.

Caution!!! Not work safe!!!!

http://home.comcast.net/%7Estephina_1/crackwhore.jpg

i almost fell from my chair when that pic downloaded.

yipppeeee!! happy bday and Congratulations...

I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

I understand that u dont want to be blamed for what might happen to her that u tried your best to save her. But now bec of that ur having troubles saving your relationship. TRUST is very essential, once its ruined ITS OVER!! Im sorry but hope that she would still want to take you back. LYING is a great offense.. much more with keeping her pics.. (seriously, Why do u have to do that?)

her pics are no bigdeal. they are just in the computer and if i was afraid she would find it out, I would have deleted it so she wont know about it but that is not my intention at all. I just didn't have the courage to tell her before.

Yes, we talked but we are not done yet. She was crying and I certainly feel awful about it. She keep saying she does not want to ask me what not to do but to just do the right thing for our relationship otherwise she is going home. I dont want to go home. I am thinking about this all day and deciding weather to completely cut my communication with that woman and keep her. I want her in my life she knows that. It's just a long process for me to let that girl forget about me.

Youre kidding right? Man oh man!! Listen to yourself, I mean really, you havent even decided fully WETHER to cut completely your sh#T with her. Put in mind that at this point your fiancee might be thinking as to [b]WETHER[/b] she would still want to marry you or not. And im sure it would take a very looooong process aswell to mend the pain that youve created. Sorry man.. but at this point. You're in deep SH#T!!!

I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

I understand that u dont want to be blamed for what might happen to her that u tried your best to save her. But now bec of that ur having troubles saving your relationship. TRUST is very essential, once its ruined ITS OVER!! Im sorry but hope that she would still want to take you back. LYING is a great offense.. much more with keeping her pics.. (seriously, Why do u have to do that?)

She has every right to be mad at you. You have betrayed her trust again and again. Nothing but time will maker her happy like she was before...enough said.

I agree. I understand that u feel the guilt and all of hurting her. But no offense, if you really love her that much (fiancee) How come u went out to see another girl behind her back? Iam not judging u or whatsoever.. Iam just surprised that it gotten that far that the girl u are seing had somewhat a control over you.. (made u fly out to Vegas), If u really are that willing to marry her i suggest you do something about the situation, bec once u both get married.. that girl might still give reasons for you to see her and give her attention of which i believe.. would definitely cause a greater problem for both of you. Goodluck.

Look on the bright side.

Top ten reasons to be thankful for participating in the US Immigration process for a fiance/spouse:

10. It builds character.

9. It fortifies your relationship.

8. It allows you to explore how much your SO really means to you over endless webcams, emails, SMS, chats....

7. It gives you a reason to hang out on VJ for endless hours

6. It allows you to become an expert on a whole TLA acronym llexicon your friends and family know nothing about : NOA, NVC, CSC, VSC, K1, K3, IR1, CR1, AOS, AP, blah blah blah ['AP' is a good one ... it has two meanings, possibly three : Administrative/Additional Processing, and Advanced Parole]

5. It allows you to question your own sanity

4. It allows your SO to question his/her sanity

3. It allows your SO to question YOUR sanity

2. It's not the North Korean or Sudanese or Zimbabwean immigration process. (No offense intended to any of those ethnicities, yet who would really want to go through the governmental processes of those states?)

1. It exists. And it ultimately offers a legal pathway for you and your SO to share your lives together in happiness and harmony in your joint life together in the United States. And for that reason, we put up with it.

congrats!!!!

i would cry.. cry and cry..then pick up the broken pieces and try in the best way i can to move on...

YEP!!! vaccinations only means medical is cleared. Congrats

Congratulations...

yahhhhhhhooooooo!! congrats

congrats

Congrats!!!

Congratulations!!

congratulations

congrats gurl!!

Congratulations!!!! Goodluck with the married life. I hope the rest would recieve their visas soon aswell. God bless.

i've been trying to reach the USEM in manila..I already know the call center number..I would like to speak to the USEM who process the papers..Does anyone know???? Thanks much for the help..

011 63 2301 2000 extensions 5185

if you get the answering machine after the extension, press 0 to keep trying.

There is another extension, 5184, but that belonged to grace who is no longer there and even as recently as today when I called it does not ring, just goes directly to a message saying call again later.

Sis! This is a cheaper way to get hold of the USEM and ask regarding ur query and status of ur case. If u manage to get connected give them right away your case number. They can actually tell you whats going on with ur papers. Have ur hubby call them in that line aswell to make a follow up. Goodluck

Im not sure wether this is the right spot that i should post this... but i gave it a try to vent out how i feel... Iam sure that iam indeed happy for receiving my visa finally and that i can be with my fiance soon enough to marry him. Its just that iam worried if i could be able to take my daughter with me when i fly in there in the US this coming May. We have her on K2 but she was asked to return after 2 mos for repeat xray. She just had her pneumonia taken cared of during the time of our medical. We have 3 more wks to go to hope that her xray will be cleared. I really dont want her to be left behind.. Were rushing against time aswell as my fiance will be sent out for deployment by August so its a must for me to get there ASAP. Ill be staying for about a month more over here to wait for her result. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER SO MUCH and it breaks my heart to be away from her. Im sure that i could have her follow me later on to join us, if all else fail but syempre it would be more complete if shes with me. I humbly ask you guys to pls include my daughter cheska in your prayers so that she maybe able to pass her medical finally. Thank you so much guys... May God bless each and everyone of you.

I regret that i cannot add much to help out, other than prayers. Hopefully previous post have some helpful advice. I am curious about the picture you posted in your signature. It looks like coco beach island resort and wanted to ask you if i was indeed correct in my guess. That place is beautiful and is always going to be in my heart as the first place me and my fiancee vacationed to, toghter.

Good luck i pray it works out for you and your daughter. I seen it first hand where a daughter couldn't follow because they were accidently omited on applications, but this does not appear the situation. so im hopeful that it is resolved in your families favor. I have a question though, if she is allowed to travel to the US - couldn't she see a physician here and have the same thing accomplished?

Thank you so much for your prayer. We need it most right now. Actually, it is Coco beach. you are right, it was indeed a very beautiful place to spend vacation esp with your loved one. Anywho, I'm sure that theres a need to have her checked aswell by a physician in the US as part of medical procedures for AOS but then again, she should pass the SLEC first over here so that she could have her interview sched at USEM -manila and if shes eligible visa will be granted and will be allowed to fly out. So that means, No clearance from SLEC means No Go!.. . Again thank you so much.. may God bless you and your entire family.

I will pray for you. My son is also left in the Philippines last March. He was not released by SLEC because of his xray. My other son was released and he is now with me in Rhode Island. I was heart broken when I left my younger kid and he is taking the medication at St. Lukes for 6 months and hopefully before Christmas I can pick him up. I cried a river at St. Lukes and they did not honor my plea. What I did is just take the situation as it is and follow what the St. Lukes wants because they are powerful.

The only thing I can do now being a mother is to pray that he will be all set in 6 months. Leaving him behind was the most painful thing that happened to me but what can I do?

Thank you so much for ur prayer. Im really hoping that things will turn out well with the help of everyone's prayer. In my end as a mother, leaving our kids behind is indeed the most painful of all. I coudn't explain as the pain is so overwhelming when they told me that she needs to undergo repeat xray after 2 mos, i cried so hard hearing that. although i know that theres a chance that she could make it this time but then again, i do still fear the possibility of worst results. Iam sure that iam willing to pick her up after few mos if ever but i understand that its not gonna be easy to fly back aswell in relation with AOS and AP. Plus my fiance will be deployed by August w/c adds up bec ill definitely be left out alone with no relatives to help me and guide me while adjusting with American life..whats worse is that if ever, during christmas time ill be all alone... . Anywho, i will include you in my prayers that youll get the chance to be with your son soon. Take care and God bless. pls keep me posted

Im not sure wether this is the right spot that i should post this... but i gave it a try to vent out how i feel... Iam sure that iam indeed happy for recievin my visa finally and that i can be with my fiance soon enough to marry him. Its just that iam worried if i could be able to take my daughter with me when i fly in there in the US this coming May. We have her on K2 but she was asked to return after 2 mos for repeat xray. She just had her pneumonia taken cared of during the time of our medical. We have 3 more wks to go to hope that her xray will be cleared. I really dont want her to be left behind.. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER SO MUCH and it breaks my heart to be away from her. Im sure that i could have her follow me later on to join us if all else fail but syempre it would be more complete if shes with me. I humbly ask you guys to pls include my daughter in your prayers so that she maybe able to pass her medical finally. Thank you so much guys... May God bless each and everyone of you.

THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS... It means alot to me that someone understands a mothers sentiments and that there are people who are willing to offer a prayer for us. All your comforting words and advices made me strong. Salamat ng marami. God bless all of you.

Im not sure wether this is the right spot that i should post this... but i gave it a try to vent out how i feel... Iam sure that iam indeed happy for receiving my visa finally and that i can be with my fiance soon enough to marry him. Its just that iam worried if i could be able to take my daughter with me when i fly in there in the US this coming May. We have her on K2 but she was asked to return after 2 mos for repeat xray. She just had her pneumonia taken cared of during the time of our medical. We have 3 more wks to go to hope that her xray will be cleared. I really dont want her to be left behind.. Were rushing against time aswell as my fiance will be sent out for deployment by August so its a must for me to get there ASAP. Ill be staying for about a month more over here to wait for her result. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER SO MUCH and it breaks my heart to be away from her. Im sure that i could have her follow me later on to join us, if all else fail but syempre it would be more complete if shes with me. I humbly ask you guys to pls include my daughter cheska in your prayers so that she maybe able to pass her medical finally. Thank you so much guys... May God bless each and everyone of you.

Your visa is valid for 6 months. You will have until late September to travel to the USA. Whay not wait until your daughter has her 2nd x-ray and then travel here together? If you come here now, you will not be able to travel back until you receive an AP or your green card. This is minimum 2-6 months after filing and you must be married first. It means your daughter will do everything on her own (which maybe she can, I do not know) but there is no need to be separated if you do not want to be.

agreed!! if you love your daughter so much then wait for everything to finish, your VISA is valid for half a year, that should be long enough for you to do what you have to do to have your daughter travel with you.

Yeah my visa is till Sept 6. thats why i will stay for about a month more to wait for the result of my daughters Xray. that will be on May 10. If she gets cleared then its good. but if she will be subjected for sputum test then another 2 mos for the culture testing which will be by Mid July and another few moments for interview schedule which is not sure when will it be. IF i fly in there by Mid or last wk of JUly then we would go cramming filing for Marriage license and all else that will follow after that (marriage and AOS,EAD) bec my fiance will be sent out for Deployment in early August , i will pretty much be on my own bec his family is way back in NJ and we'll be in CA so no one could help and guide me with where to go and what to do by that time so were hoping to be there atleast 3 mos before he goes so that he can still help me out with the everything like biometrics appointment and all, i wont be driving anytime soon and definitely not familiar with the places. So i need his help. Thanks for your replies.. i hope this make a little bit on sense why iam abit torned. God bless you all.

Im not sure wether this is the right spot that i should post this... but i gave it a try to vent out how i feel... Iam sure that iam indeed happy for receiving my visa finally and that i can be with my fiance soon enough to marry him. Its just that iam worried if i could be able to take my daughter with me when i fly in there in the US this coming May. We have her on K2 but she was asked to return after 2 mos for repeat xray. She just had her pneumonia taken cared of during the time of our medical. We have 3 more wks to go to hope that her xray will be cleared. I really dont want her to be left behind.. Were rushing against time aswell as my fiance will be sent out for deployment by August so its a must for me to get there ASAP. Ill be staying for about a month more over here to wait for her result. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER SO MUCH and it breaks my heart to be away from her. Im sure that i could have her follow me later on to join us, if all else fail but syempre it would be more complete if shes with me. I humbly ask you guys to pls include my daughter cheska in your prayers so that she maybe able to pass her medical finally. Thank you so much guys... May God bless each and everyone of you.