Lars-N-Yenia

Category:
I-864 (AOS package)
My stupid RFE was:
Did not fill in the income totals for the last 3 years on question #25
What I learned:
Not to assume that the person reviewing your AOS package will see those totals on the enclosed tax transcripts you provided...and when someone named Ling Ling suggests that you fill those in, LISTEN to him...

Category:
I-864 (AOS package)
My stupid RFE was:
Did not fill in the income totals for the last 3 years on question #25
What I learned:
Not to assume that the person reviewing your AOS package will see those totals on the enclosed tax transcripts you provided...and when someone named Ling Ling suggests that you fill those in, LISTEN to him...

Category:
I-864 (AOS package)
My stupid RFE was:
Did not fill in the income totals for the last 3 years on question #25
What I learned:
Not to assume that the person reviewing your AOS package will see those totals on the enclosed tax transcripts you provided...and when someone named Ling Ling suggests that you fill those in, LISTEN to him...

Category:
I-864 (AOS package)
My stupid RFE was:
Did not fill in the income totals for the last 3 years on question #25
What I learned:
Not to assume that the person reviewing your AOS package will see those totals on the enclosed tax transcripts you provided...and when someone named Ling Ling suggests that you fill those in, LISTEN to him...

Category:
I-864 (AOS package)
My stupid RFE was:
Did not fill in the income totals for the last 3 years on question #25
What I learned:
Not to assume that the person reviewing your AOS package will see those totals on the enclosed tax transcripts you provided...and when someone named Ling Ling suggests that you fill those in, LISTEN to him...

sweeeeet...now I can sleep...yah

Since you asked for "any thoughts", not advice, my thoughts are....
I would like for her to leave the country!
Sounds like a prison sentence is coming for this lady someday, if she were to stay in the U.S., and I'll have to support her ####### while she sits in prison. Then she gets out...goes on public assistance, has three or four kids, and who the he** is gonna pay for all this...ME and the others around here.
So, my thought are...Leave The Da** Country!
Everyone, I know that was a lot less cordial than you all are used to, but the OP did ask for "thoughts"

Your friend is a criminal and should be sent back to her home country. We have enough criminals as it is.

My wife was pulled over 2 times for minor trafic offenses (new driver...lol) and was involved in a minor accident (not her fault, thank god) and all three times was only asked for drivers license, registration and insurance...her green card and or immigration status was never questioned...with that said, her green card will continue to be stored safely at home where it belongs...

kinda creapy to bring up u think....

Why would anyone who married another who already owned property believe they are entitled to a share of it? That's just greed. Tell your friend to act with a little more honour and dignity than to chase after property that he played no part in acquiring.
As mentioned above, RoC can be done after divorce and no, the ex-wife wouldn't be able to stop it. Unless, of course, there is a documented history of violence on his part with the police or the courts.
A local divorce lawyer will be able to handle the paperwork and the RoC can be done without lawyers of any kind once the divorce is finalised.

The U.S. Government is looking to change the legal color of all signed documents to blue ink as it is getting harder and harder to tell if a blank ink signature is a true ink signature or a high quality scanned signature.
I heard this on NPR a few weeks ago.

M-Bone,
What you've described is classic Ecuatoriano "machista" behavior -- and I mean classic. The suspicion, the drinking, the double standards... I can't even chalk much of it up to his feeling like a "pescado out of water" in his new environment.
When I was courting & visiting the future Mrs. T-B., she mentioned this behavior to me, stating without rancor that this is why she could never marry an Ecuatoriano. She said, "Whether to a greater or lesser extent, every Ecuatoriano is a macho." I took intellectual note of it, but I privately dismissed it as exaggeration. Well, on my second visit, I did some observing. Every one of the dozen boyfriends/husbands that I observed exhibited machista behavior. Some of it was absolutely appalling. Even one of my future brothers-in-law -- so personable and popular and sweet with his kids and everything else -- blew up in a macho way over something completely innocuous. His poor little wife (my future sister-in-law) was terrified.
At our Stokes interrogation at the ####### Guayaquil consulate, the Foreign Service National who interviewed me asked why Mrs. T-B.-to-be wanted to marry an American. I told him that she wouldn't marry an Ecuatoriano because of the ingrown, inbred machista behavior that they all exhibited. He said, "Yes, there are still pockets of that here and there." When he said that, it was all that I could do not to bust through the Plexiglass and throttle him for being so dismissive of the obvious.
Your Ecuatoriano's behavior, abusiveness, and actions are just like those of a lowlife American redneck who lives in a trailer park. (How are they not?) That's the American equivalent of the caliber of guy that you married. To hell with feeling sorry for him. The objective situation is that, just like Mrs. T-B., you have no obligation to put up with any of this. His behavior and actions come from the culture and how he was raised, and he will not and cannot change. Despite your hopes and his apologies or protests, he will not change. Therefore, you need to cut the cord -- wish him well, but state that you have higher standards for treatment (which you do, or else you wouldn't have posted here), and he needs to leave. Use the AOS money to send him home, or to any other country where he might like to go.
As one whose previous marriage (to an Americana) was quite dysfunctional, I can tell you that as soon as he's permanently gone, you'll sit down in your now-peaceful home, open your favorite adult beverage, and say out loud to no one in particular, "I'm free." And it's the best feeling in the world, si man.

My wife was pulled over 2 times for minor trafic offenses (new driver...lol) and was involved in a minor accident (not her fault, thank god) and all three times was only asked for drivers license, registration and insurance...her green card and or immigration status was never questioned...with that said, her green card will continue to be stored safely at home where it belongs...