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I had my interview last Monday, January 6 2014 and I was approved. My interview went smoothly with the Filipino consul and American consul but until now my status on ceac website didn't change. It is still READY (for interview) and not READY (case is open). It's been 7 days since I had my interview.I was just wondering and a bit worried because my friend had her interview on a later date and her ceac status changed to ready (case is open) the following day, i know its a case to case basis. The date of my ceac status is the only one being updated.. i know my documents were complete otherwise they gave me the 221 g , but they didnt. Anyone who experienced the same? Than you.

Too bad the "little girl from the Philippines" was not a good listener. I wonder what was your expectations of her in your marriage? I'm sure even if she is already 38, she had a hard time understanding why you are agitated all the time. Maybe she felt like she was walking on eggs. Do you really think that even if you apologize many time she can forgive you? Sometimes when the pain is too deep, some people cannot risk compromising just because they love the other person. Love doesn't mean forgiving all the time. When the pain is wearing you out, love is not enough to build back the self-esteem that was lost. Sometimes, words are more painful than a knife and it will kill a person little by little. Overall, my advise to you is forgive yourself and start searching your self and then that's the time you will consider having a relationship again. You just sad you still love your wife, so I think it's better to let go and better yourself first. Be safe and I hope your wife is in a safe place too.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

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OMG, I think my falling hairs are like hundreds daily since I came to America almost 4 years ago. I and my husband are going crazy about it because my hairs are everywhere! And a lot of flakes too! I don't know why. I tried different shampoos already. Then my husband bought a new shampoo and conditioner from L'occitane and out of curiosity I tried it too 2 months ago. It helped! I still have falling hair but not hundreds anymore. Plus my hair is not frizzy anymore. It looks calm and smoother, straighter. Maybe she can try it, L'occitane shampooing shampoo essential oils 5 huiles essentielles volumizing and then apres-shampooing condiioner essential oil 5 huiles essentielles repairing. I'm sorry it's so long. I just copied what's on the bottle...hehehe! It's a green bottle. They don't have a lot of hair products anyway, so it's easy to look for it. My hair loss is lessen. Hope this helps.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Too bad the "little girl from the Philippines" was not a good listener. I wonder what was your expectations of her in your marriage? I'm sure even if she is already 38, she had a hard time understanding why you are agitated all the time. Maybe she felt like she was walking on eggs. Do you really think that even if you apologize many time she can forgive you? Sometimes when the pain is too deep, some people cannot risk compromising just because they love the other person. Love doesn't mean forgiving all the time. When the pain is wearing you out, love is not enough to build back the self-esteem that was lost. Sometimes, words are more painful than a knife and it will kill a person little by little. Overall, my advise to you is forgive yourself and start searching your self and then that's the time you will consider having a relationship again. You just sad you still love your wife, so I think it's better to let go and better yourself first. Be safe and I hope your wife is in a safe place too.

Too bad the "little girl from the Philippines" was not a good listener. I wonder what was your expectations of her in your marriage? I'm sure even if she is already 38, she had a hard time understanding why you are agitated all the time. Maybe she felt like she was walking on eggs. Do you really think that even if you apologize many time she can forgive you? Sometimes when the pain is too deep, some people cannot risk compromising just because they love the other person. Love doesn't mean forgiving all the time. When the pain is wearing you out, love is not enough to build back the self-esteem that was lost. Sometimes, words are more painful than a knife and it will kill a person little by little. Overall, my advise to you is forgive yourself and start searching your self and then that's the time you will consider having a relationship again. You just sad you still love your wife, so I think it's better to let go and better yourself first. Be safe and I hope your wife is in a safe place too.

Too bad the "little girl from the Philippines" was not a good listener. I wonder what was your expectations of her in your marriage? I'm sure even if she is already 38, she had a hard time understanding why you are agitated all the time. Maybe she felt like she was walking on eggs. Do you really think that even if you apologize many time she can forgive you? Sometimes when the pain is too deep, some people cannot risk compromising just because they love the other person. Love doesn't mean forgiving all the time. When the pain is wearing you out, love is not enough to build back the self-esteem that was lost. Sometimes, words are more painful than a knife and it will kill a person little by little. Overall, my advise to you is forgive yourself and start searching your self and then that's the time you will consider having a relationship again. You just sad you still love your wife, so I think it's better to let go and better yourself first. Be safe and I hope your wife is in a safe place too.

A lot of people already gave you good advices about this both about going home or staying here and wait. In my opinion being a Filipina (of course we are two different people in handling situations) I will stay first and wait until everything's final. Divorce final and immigration stuff is cleared. I know how hard you are feeling right now and you need your family. But as you stated you have no money, no nothing...so how can you go home? I think it's better to settle everything here first before you go home. Wouldn't it be better if you have nothing to worry while you are with your family back home? You can think better without anxiety and apprehensions, you can plan better on how to start back with your life when yo come back here. No fears, no worries. Taking risks is not always for a better result. Sometimes it's better to look at future consequences before deciding on something. Goodluck!

A lot of people already gave you good advices about this both about going home or staying here and wait. In my opinion being a Filipina (of course we are two different people in handling situations) I will stay first and wait until everything's final. Divorce final and immigration stuff is cleared. I know how hard you are feeling right now and you need your family. But as you stated you have no money, no nothing...so how can you go home? I think it's better to settle everything here first before you go home. Wouldn't it be better if you have nothing to worry while you are with your family back home? You can think better without anxiety and apprehensions, you can plan better on how to start back with your life when yo come back here. No fears, no worries. Taking risks is not always for a better result. Sometimes it's better to look at future consequences before deciding on something. Goodluck!

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

Why is it that we are so quick to judge? We only read one side of the story. Where's the OP now? He did not even post anymore. If he really feels like very aggravated, he will follow-up the questions here. How did he snap at her? What are the attitudes/character he showed to her while they were together? My only question is, why was she able stay at his mother's house? Meaning his mother is not mad or dislike her. She is supporting her. The sister drove her to the community center, right? Why they supported her to get away from him? Maybe because they know that this guy can be crazy and have an unstable mental state? Maybe he can hurt her physically when provoked? Otherwise the guy's family will help them get back, right? People just think that when a Filipina will leave, she was just after of GC. What if her life is in danger because of his aggressive attitude? What if he has a certain character that she really don't dislike and is scared of? Let's admit it, there's a lot of crazy American guys out there who are even Psychopaths or Schizophrenics. She's 38. A woman who's 38 are not suppose to cry that much? I am 38 too, I can cry rivers for God's sake! We always think that when an American guy will write something bad about their Fiipina wives, he's the God or the perfect guy and it is always the Filipina's fault. Fraudulent, user, scammer. Have we ever thought what could have possibly she went through with the guy for her to run away for good? Why can't she just wait for her GC and citizenship before she will run if she's. really a fraud? Why now if nothing bad has really going on? Attitude, abuse, fear, mental instability? God bless her wherever she is right now. I hope she's safe. We don't really know what she went through.

I guess the nuns at the CFO would go crazy if you will be the one handling all your fiancee's issues because they will see that you are a "control freak". The nuns would say, "no good for the "young pinay"...hehehe! So, I suggest for you to just stay outside and chill. Better bring the papa and mama to a canteen across the street and have some bonding moments with them while your honey is being grilled by the nuns. Let your honey learn independence as early as now. Cheers!

Whew! I can't believe you wrote your tantrum to SLEC. You are marrying a Filipina and yet you have too many complains already about Philippine policies? As if you don't know? I thought you mentioned in your other thread that you know Phils and it's culture very well because "you're the man"? Duh!!! You sound a control freak guy who also seems to know EVERYTHING but not really. First of all, why are you the one holding the money? I thought you said you let her hold the coins and even the big big big bills? So, why handling the money outside SLEC? Look, how I wish you should have just used your skills/smartness at that time since you are "da man" and not be irritated. Your mouth and head is way too fast that you did not even think for a better solution but complain. Poor girlfriend, I can foresee. Next time, trust your girl to handle things and not you controlling everything. I see you're a planner but there are a lot of things that are out of our hands and only God knows what will happen tomorrow. Slow down because I am 1000% sure that your girlfriend is having a hard time catching up with you and all the things around you when you're together. I thought you're an ace in handling tough situations????

I hope Gretchen and the parents did not change their minds about her coming here in the US now that they know EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE. Control freak and "knows-all" guy even if not in the proper place. It's your way of organizing things that doomed you and not the ways in the Philippines. And you expect people and your girl's family to bow down their heads on you just because you are "the man" that you think of yourself?
On the lighter note, congratulations for the interview success. Now, Gretchen's JOURNEY will begin. Goodluck...to Gretchen.

I hope Gretchen and the parents did not change their minds about her coming here in the US now that they know EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE. Control freak and "knows-all" guy even if not in the proper place. It's your way of organizing things that doomed you and not the ways in the Philippines. And you expect people and your girl's family to bow down their heads on you just because you are "the man" that you think of yourself?
On the lighter note, congratulations for the interview success. Now, Gretchen's JOURNEY will begin. Goodluck...to Gretchen.

I hope Gretchen and the parents did not change their minds about her coming here in the US now that they know EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE. Control freak and "knows-all" guy even if not in the proper place. It's your way of organizing things that doomed you and not the ways in the Philippines. And you expect people and your girl's family to bow down their heads on you just because you are "the man" that you think of yourself?
On the lighter note, congratulations for the interview success. Now, Gretchen's JOURNEY will begin. Goodluck...to Gretchen.

I hope Gretchen and the parents did not change their minds about her coming here in the US now that they know EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE. Control freak and "knows-all" guy even if not in the proper place. It's your way of organizing things that doomed you and not the ways in the Philippines. And you expect people and your girl's family to bow down their heads on you just because you are "the man" that you think of yourself?
On the lighter note, congratulations for the interview success. Now, Gretchen's JOURNEY will begin. Goodluck...to Gretchen.

I hope Gretchen and the parents did not change their minds about her coming here in the US now that they know EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE. Control freak and "knows-all" guy even if not in the proper place. It's your way of organizing things that doomed you and not the ways in the Philippines. And you expect people and your girl's family to bow down their heads on you just because you are "the man" that you think of yourself?
On the lighter note, congratulations for the interview success. Now, Gretchen's JOURNEY will begin. Goodluck...to Gretchen.