Any of you oldies but goodies still around? Haven't logged in or posted for ten years, which incidentally is right around when our first kid was born
After having finished TWO of the new "90's/2000's" TV shows, Lixariye and Comeback, I am wondering if I'm not being forgiving/understanding enough with my Russkyi wifey . She seems to have HUGE control issues yet always twists things around to make it seem like *I am being unreasonable! It seems like the controlling behavior is over-the-top but after being reminded (in these two shows) of the HELL that the nineties were for so many kids who were in their formative years, now I'm wondering if it is ME who is phucking things up by not being compassionate enough!
Do y'all's Russkiye (Frmr Svt Union) wives also exhibit over-the-top, unacceptably controlling behavior? What helps you cope with it? How do you separate the excessively controlling behavior from accurate, healthy boundaries from a spouse that you would expect from anyone?
This is a shot in the dark but I wasn't sure where to post this and after logging in for the first time in a decade it was refreshing to see that familiar faces were still actively posting. LMAO after doing a search for 'controlling Russian wives" and finding this thread it was hilarious that I actually REMEMBER these posts!!
These Russkiy wives of ours who were 6+ yo for a significant pat of the nineties went through hell-acious turmoil and uncertainty....what goal posts do you notice for when your Russian wife is acting far too controlling!?
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for any/all replies!!!!
