JonKB

Me, 61. Her 56. I'll claim my SS next year before my birthday.

Ok, thank Mike, Crazy Cat... We had to wait all these years because of her father not approving of me and the time wasn't right. Now, he's passed and we're older. I go there a couple times a year, a month at a time. She can't stay here for now, so whichever visa works the best for us will work. She needs to go home afterwards but still be able to visit me here for a month at a time too.

I am just asking, if she does the 90 day fiance visa and marries here then goes back home 2 weeks later what will happen? Can she come to visit a month at a time like I've been doing for 15 years to her now that we are married, or will they require a new visa or dependant visa??? At our age, the sooner she's my spouse and my benificiary she'll get my pensions and SS income.

Not yet. We're in the beginning stage of trying to see what is involved. She cannot come here to live permamently until her Son finishes college.

Hi, Does my girlfriend of 14 years have to apply for her green card when she gets approved for her K1 visa and comes here so we can marry? She has her house and Son in college to take care of in her Country and will go home after we get married at the Courthouse. Her father (96) passed recently and she took care of him all those years, so we waited to think about getting married. We did all our paperwork way back then and had it approved by the County clerks in both Countries, and translated. We will probably wait until we have been married for two years then apply for her "automatically approved" Green Card. But, back to my question...She has to go home right afterwards. What do we have to do paperwork wise? They can't make her stay here, can they?