Broken Heart 87

13 hours ago, Rocio0010 said:

That’s good advice

It is,I immediately went and backed up all the conversations 

1 minute ago, JeanneAdil said:

correct,  only the petitioner can withdraw the petition

but if u have actual proof,   not hear say from others,  keep that proof and be able to show it if ever questioned later on by a US immigration officer

 

and u may not be talking but it may be possible to send a message,  text or email or thru facebook or "friends"  to politely ask him to withdraw the petition (keep that notice in your files too)

seems to me for any immigration process we first have to prove things to immigration 

then we have to be able to prove we showed or sent the proof

I have all the messages him admitting to infidelity.

Yes with immigration is all about what you can prove. 

I'll try reaching out via text n see if he can withdraw it.

2 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

I think all of us , man or woman,  have our dream about the ideal mate

could be for love

could be for stability

whatever it is,   sorry that you are going thru a breakup

that's hard on anyone as it squahes your dream of a new life

 

when u do meet someone that seems to be the right one,  take a long time to get to know the "real him" 

no matter what country he lives in,  when u marry, u leave home and family,  so make sure u are happy and the person really cares

 

and yes,  K1 relationships break up , just be glad this happened before u were stuck in the US with no family and friends to support u emotionally

and yes,  many still find another to do  a K1 as it seems people have an idea of what Americans are like and what life is like here.   

TV does not show what it really is / be careful and be wise 

 

 

You're completely right and I agree with you. 

The next relationship will take a while before even marriage is brought up that's for sure.

Thank you for your kindness have a good day

1 hour ago, Rocio0010 said:

So you can allow the petition to die by not doing anything. Or if you have the case number, you can send a letter to withdraw .

It shouldn’t have an obvious effect on future petitions, but it might be scrutinized based on the totality of circumstances 

I'm not planning on doing anything with the petition,for sure I'm abandoning it.

I read the beneficiary can't send a letter to withdraw it only the petitioner. We aren't talking so I can't ask him to withdraw it. 

@Rocio0010 No need to be judmenatal cause you do not know anythingI have been through this past months. I'm not worried about a future petition it was a simple question for knowledge sake and yeah it wasn't you,it was me. You gave you opinion all the other side comments weren't necessary thanks. 

Ok thanks for the insight,I understand. 

I'm talking about a future petition if someone else files not the same person.

Hi All,

I need advise, so I discovered that my petitioner has not been honest with anything he has ever said. I have been contacted by several people about all sorts of matter about him and it has taken a toll on our relationship we decided to end it. We were in the process of waiting for NOA2, my question is if he does not withdraw the petition and if in the future I am ever petitioned will this affect the future petition? 

Be kind in your replies the situation is already hard as it is.

Thanks

Hey I have seen this happen on FB and people got back together. Don't withdraw it yet. You two need to talk first and then end it if its wat you want. Withdrawing the petition out of spite might lead to some regret. If you heard it from family members confront her with the proof and hear her side too. You might be surprised but going silent and withdrawing the petition to get back at her doesn't seem like the best idea. Just my opinion