sara.....

i can see what the problem is and i have the ability to look at both sides of what is going on pity you do not
sara

very sadly this plea for help has been derailed by people wanting to voice their criticism of the OP
she didn't come her to ask anyone's opinion of what she is doing but for information as to how to do it
I personally feel that she needs the strength of her vj family!!!! What she has decided is the best for her situation is not an easy thing for anyone to do......if you can not support her or you do not have anything that is valuable to add to HER choice is better left unsaid because of the fact that in immigration NO person can know the out come of the process......people lie its that simple and people cheat.......
What is acceptable behavior for one couple is not for another none of us have the right to judge what is correct for any couple other than themselves
just my opinion
sara

very sadly this plea for help has been derailed by people wanting to voice their criticism of the OP
she didn't come her to ask anyone's opinion of what she is doing but for information as to how to do it
I personally feel that she needs the strength of her vj family!!!! What she has decided is the best for her situation is not an easy thing for anyone to do......if you can not support her or you do not have anything that is valuable to add to HER choice is better left unsaid because of the fact that in immigration NO person can know the out come of the process......people lie its that simple and people cheat.......
What is acceptable behavior for one couple is not for another none of us have the right to judge what is correct for any couple other than themselves
just my opinion
sara

very sadly this plea for help has been derailed by people wanting to voice their criticism of the OP
she didn't come her to ask anyone's opinion of what she is doing but for information as to how to do it
I personally feel that she needs the strength of her vj family!!!! What she has decided is the best for her situation is not an easy thing for anyone to do......if you can not support her or you do not have anything that is valuable to add to HER choice is better left unsaid because of the fact that in immigration NO person can know the out come of the process......people lie its that simple and people cheat.......
What is acceptable behavior for one couple is not for another none of us have the right to judge what is correct for any couple other than themselves
just my opinion
sara

and in cases like this Al and Jesse should be the first ones reaching out to give the kids the punishment they deserve for keeping the "hate crime" going dont you think?
i really hate discrimination of any sort
sara

as far as i know if the father refuses to give permission for the child to leave the country then the child can not leave the country
sara

as far as i know if the father refuses to give permission for the child to leave the country then the child can not leave the country
sara

as far as i know if the father refuses to give permission for the child to leave the country then the child can not leave the country
sara

as far as i know if the father refuses to give permission for the child to leave the country then the child can not leave the country
sara

i also have a sister that left Islam and married a Catholic nobody killed her or any of us and nobody ignors them or acts like they are not part of the family
sara

if u feel that something is not really right .......then look deeper .....if the person has a million constant excuses for not being on line or they shut off their phone when u try to call or keep changing their number and give u no valid reason for it..u catch them in lies that are small things to lie about......say things that makes no sense at all as if it was meant for someone else maybe a comment on something they stated u said but u know for a fact it never came from you...get angry for no reason and become a drama queen or king after something things are over like petition or interview..try to make everything your fault if there is a disagreement ..hmmm i dont know im prolly the last person to give advise as i was fooled for five years, but now that i look back these are some of the signs i should have paid attention to...
sara

isnt it great that we live in the USA where you have the same right to your opinion that I have to mine?
sara

its not about culture its about pious and is between the women that follow it and God.....
does this mean the Mina-nights (prolly spelled wrong) should stop wearing their caps and long dresses? does this mean the Amish should stop their way of life? im a citizen of the usa and i am a muslim what i wear is not anyone's business thats the great thing about the USA freedom of religion.
just my opinion
sara

isnt it great that we live in the USA where you have the same right to your opinion that I have to mine?
sara

its not about culture its about pious and is between the women that follow it and God.....
does this mean the Mina-nights (prolly spelled wrong) should stop wearing their caps and long dresses? does this mean the Amish should stop their way of life? im a citizen of the usa and i am a muslim what i wear is not anyone's business thats the great thing about the USA freedom of religion.
just my opinion
sara

diversity, diversity, diversity is what the good old USA is all about
sara

its not about culture its about pious and is between the women that follow it and God.....
does this mean the Mina-nights (prolly spelled wrong) should stop wearing their caps and long dresses? does this mean the Amish should stop their way of life? im a citizen of the usa and i am a muslim what i wear is not anyone's business thats the great thing about the USA freedom of religion.
just my opinion
sara

its not about culture its about pious and is between the women that follow it and God.....
does this mean the Mina-nights (prolly spelled wrong) should stop wearing their caps and long dresses? does this mean the Amish should stop their way of life? im a citizen of the usa and i am a muslim what i wear is not anyone's business thats the great thing about the USA freedom of religion.
just my opinion
sara