Galina&Abdo

Jorgedig we talked about children and he is ok not having any but I’m sure he will be happy to have a child together so we will try ! 

We did not have any joint bank accounts, but I was able to add him as an authorized user on my credit card account and he used it for a few monthly expenses, we submitted those statements with the I-130 application package.  Also I added him as beneficiary on all my financial accounts, bank account, retirement account, life insurance, and added him to my health insurance and dental insurance with no SSN.  He was added as my emergency contact and spouse with my HR department at work.  I also did a will naming him as beneficiary and a living will if I am unable to make health decisions on my own, things like that were possible to do living in different countries.  We filed 2018 US taxes as married filing jointly with a W-7 applying for an ITIN for my husband.  Good luck!

At least you have a very transportable skill set so that is a positive.

Red flags are not a reason for refusal alone, however they will look at the entire set of circumstances. The items you noted do stand out as unusual in local culture (woman older than man, difference in religion, marriage on first visit, etc.). He is also from a fairly high fraud region, where they look very closely at red flags.
 
That said, nothing above is a death sentence. Any amount of red flags can be overcome with an otherwise strong case - meaning lots of relationship evidence. The main thing is time spent together.
 
Best wishes.