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There is no longer an automated system. Call every day. The best time to call is at night the wait wont be so long. I called twice a day. They give you a basic timelime of when to call back. Dont go by that just keep calling. When they say your case has been received and entered into the system give them emails for both the petitioner and beneficiary. Afterwards ask for the case number and Invoice identification number and beneficiary number. Once you receive all that send an email version of the choice of agent letter providing you are doing the I130. If it is accepted you will received an email acknowledging it. I was waiting for an email for the AOS fee never came. Checked my husbands email and there was something that I never received. Why because they mispelled my email address. Sent them an email right away to correct this. Anyways checked the NVC website and yes both bills are they waiting to be paid. Good luck and never stop calling!!!

Emailed the choice of agent form on 6/1 and got notification on 6/7 that it was accepted!

There is a 22yr age difference between me (wife) being older than my husband. For the most we get along really well because our interest are the same. The only time there maybe an issue is when it comes down to handling business. I am a on point and timely person. He at times when it really counts is not. I think because he raised himself for the most since he was 13 he has a lot of maturity about him. For me I am very hyper and playful. Men my age have told me over and over again to slow down. Ha for what! The reason y I can overlook the age difference is because again we are so compatible in almost every way!

no no no and no. Dont waste your money!

Just remember if you do a service request your file is then being passed to someone else who specifically reviews this file may request additional information and then if it is denied, the file will then go back to the regular process. This may delay your aproval even more

no it means it is being review for a decisiion

Alright here we go again. Breath and relax. At least yours goes to the Embassy, I still got steps to go through NVC. When you least expect it BAM!!!!!! Interview Date!!!! I love reading your messages they always make me smile. Again all will go well for you.

Oh can you actually call to see if the choice of agent letter via email was accepted. I sent mines on Friday June 1 and was going to wait until this friday to check.

Also remember that no marraige is perfect. You go through good and bad, etc. My parents have been married for more than 50 years never seperated yet during every augument they mention the word divore. I think it is just part of their every day conversation at this point! Marraige is not easy and i think a lot of people can tell you that. Please make your final decision based on your on personal life, heart and feelings. In the end it is you living with your decisiion not the rest of us. Way the bad vs the good. None of us know anything about your relationship with your husband personally. I am sure he does truly love you but may not be mature enough to handle it.

look at the grounds for expiditing. If you think you fall under then call and request. They will inform you of what documentation you would need for proof and take it from there. Sorry for what you are going through. My prayers go out to your and your family

Honestly it means nothing. It could have been passed from one pile to the next. Dont waste your time on this

Hi Mrs Johnson. I can relate to what you are saying. My husband is 24 and I am much older than him. However I would like to say I dont believe he is cheating on me because he is a dj with a popular sound system, and if there was girls they would should up at the parties. When I am there I am right by his side and he is introducing me to everyone and even giving me bigups over the mic. I sometimes have to look at it like this. When he leaves Jamaica he is leaving all those b@#$%s behind and coming directly to you. I know it can be frustrating especially when you love and have feelings for that person otherwise you would have never married him. Remember that old saying "Women mature alot quicker than men". As for the phone aside from all the information in which you have found, I have noticed that a large portion of Jamaicans cherrish their phones like crazy. I guess it is because a lot of them dont have much so when they do have something they are very fond of it. The distance hard. I have have found myself wanting company from another man (not sexually) to pass the time, but yet I have changed my mind because they might take it the wrong way. It is hard to tell you what to do because I do not know what is in your heart. It is a call you will have to make and be willing to live with. Please just tell your husband that if he does fool around to please wear protection out of respect for you and try not to make any babies. Talk to him some more and confirm if this marraige is something he wants. If so he really needs to prove it to you.

it is obvious that he either has a contact somewhere that you were not aware of or was planning this all along. When he realizes that he will need his greencard he will be back.

If they did not receive your case how is it that you have a date of May 8th (NVC received) on your timeline?

My girl think positive

Have a great time!!!

Caryh this is what I am saying. Wait a little dont rush! when two people come from different cultures there is a lot to consider and if you dont before hand someone is going to be in for a shock. I do agree it does go both ways. There is no way to be certain.

Thank you for correcting my follow jamaicaners. Although he may not need all he will need some. I do suggest once you find out what they are you get started on them as this might run you a pretty dollar.

FINALLY!!!!!!! Now things are going to roll fast for you!!!!

They should have done there job. They are supposed to look at the income before the interview is over. This is the interviewing officers mistake!

Good Luck Mrs Johnson, you need your husband with you now!

If she wants to really work on the marraige then tell her ok but you will not sign and file anything as of now. If she is okay with that then she really does want the relationship. If she is not, then it is the greencard she is only looking for. When someone is here as fulltime student there visa will cover them. When they are finished with school technically they are to go back home. Was she still in school over the two years? Is she now finishing up? Is she now looking for another way to continue her stay here. Not sure what reporting may do, if she is here on a valid student visa? Not sure if this is correct. If you married and did not file anything what are you reporting?

Im sorry but you state that you have a lawyer which I am sure you are paying him a pretty penny. Y is he not giving you the proper advice?

Read some of the embassy reviews for jamaica to get an understanding of the interview what questions were asked and how others prepared as far as what they had ready. unfortunately only the beneficiary goes in and the petitioner has to remain outside.

Also you should update your timeline:-)