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its for them who thinks thier life is not good and they are badluck just because they didnot get iphone.You people cant imagine what is our pain.i know only few people will read this.Sometime Life brings you the place and location where you never want to be.i know this time nobody want to listen other problems.because everybody has a problem in his life. but as far as i know things are in their control in those matters.but somewhere things are out of your control you cant do for you rather than limitless wait.i started my life with my wife in 2016 who is U.S citizen. I was so happy at the time of my marriage.i thought i am the luckiest person in the world.but i never dreamed what time is waiting for me i will get 1000 shocked daily when i check status. well i and my wife were so happy chilling out happines parties family hangout whatever.subsequently when She was going to U.S was very sad day for me.we thought this sepration is temporary and we will reunion when immigration complete otherwise we were so happy in our Pakistan.Well she filed immigration case and i got an interview in Islamabad Pakistan. at the time of interview i was issued 221G and asked to submit joint sponsor and proof of domicile. i was so shocked there were so brightness in Embassy Many Lights were on. but i became blind there were darkness in my eyes.i was refused because we had no joint sponsor. consular officer told me to submit Joint sponsor i was litrally forgot which way i came from in Embassy. i was coming out from Embassy very akwardly.right left right left.while my wife were so happy sitting in waiting loung.and gossip with another U.S citizen who came with her husband interview.i was thinking how i will tell this refusal to my wife.when i came back in loung area she first eyes contact me with smile and she was 200 feet away.she asked by shaking her hand.approved ??? and i was about to start my tsunami of tears.but i am Man i controled and told her (not approvod) when she heared this.she cried for last 3 days.but we did not loose hope. fortunately we submitted joint sponsor.we thought after the submission of this we will issued visa within 3 months but noo.then the night mare started.what is called ADMINISTRATIVE PROCESSING the pain only who can feel who is in ADMINISTRATIVE PROCESSING like us. i daily checked status no update no status change for the 15 months. 15 Months such a small 2 words.but unable to express how i spent this time. i sent many emails but never get a good response.15 months later we got call from U.S EMBASSY ISLAMABAD that please submit proof of Proof Of Relationship and Proof Of Domicile.which i submitted within 15 days.i was so so so happy when i recieved call from U.S Embassy ISLAMABAD after the submission of documents.my wife became pregnant.i was so happy that GOD finally listened us.I was thinking that Embassy will review documents within 6 months and issued a visa and we will birth a child in U.S two Big Goodnews and Happines. but it was my dreamed only.after the submission of Adisstionel documents.Everywhere silence.6 months more spent.but no response from embassy Total 22 Months.My wife left Pakistan becuase fear of loosing domicile.God Gifted my beautiful baby daughter in Jan 2020.she was born in U.S.unfornatly i was not there.i was again happy that satisfying my self ITS OK I STILL DONT GET VISA BUT ALLAH GIFTED MY BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER ITS MORE THAN HAPPINES THAN VISA.On 18 March 2020 after 24 months i got email from Embassy that my documents are reviewed accepted by consular officer.trust me i was dancing and immediately call to my wife and told her our problems are finished.we will soon recieve email from embassy for remedical but on next shock was ready for me.which broke destroyed destruck whatever u can say. the pendamic start in world and Embassy Closed on 20 March 2020 due to Corona virus. i was very desprate to take in hand my baby.i was happy i will meet my baby when my wife will bring her from USA my baby passport application were delayed.in U.S or Pakistan Every Relevent Offices Closed.my wife is orphan.her mother parents have died. she is alone with baby. my visa appication became imposible now.people think thier life were stuck in pendamic and our life were stucked since i am in Administative Processing 27 months.in these 27 months i daily check 500 times my visa status online.i daily see on facebook and visa journey people got approved issued on the time of interview or after only 8 9 months Adminitrative Processing.i also want to mention i did not get DS5535 Quessnationer and i am not alone in this administrative processing. many couples are suffering from this.but they cant do nothing.just sitting silently.sometime i stand on my roof terrace and looking to birds and think that they dont need visa to go anywhere.they can go anywhere without visa.animals are more free than humans

the day i am writing this.

i am still in administrative processing 

27 Months 

interview in April 2018

reason . 

Joint Sponsor

i request all of you please spare only 1 minute and pray for the people who are in Adinistrative Processing 

Goodluck To You All

God Bless You All

Just now, F.A Khan said:

You got ur visa or still waiting?

Still waiting bro my visa catogary is CR1 

2 minutes ago, Sam1257 said:

What did you say in your inquiry??

Its a good sign bro. Your visa is about to come nearly.I got same exact email in july 2019 later i submitted proof of relationship and proof of domicile still waiting for conclusion. 6 months has been submitted

1 minute ago, Sarah n Ryan said:

I am very sorry that you are going through this at such a critical time. 
While we did not have to wait nearly as long, I myself, had a child and my soon to be husband was half way around the world for my pregnancy and a complicated one at that. 
He was fortunate to be here for the birth but had to leave his newborn and myself to complete the process when she was two weeks old. 
But this is immigration and we knew this journey would not be short nor easy. 
Just think how good you do have it as millions going through this process have had to endure much worse and live through illness or worse while being apart from their families. 
She needs your support. Ryan supported  me daily via face time and when he left he was on the phone each day to not miss a thing. 
He was my rock and even without him physically,  I knew I could depend on him no matter what. 
Be strong for your wife as pregnancy is an emotional roll coaster and she needs you now more than ever to stay strong for the both of you. 
I have faith that you will be reunited soon and have a very loving family to go to. 
Best Regards my friend, 

Sarah 

Thank you so much for your kind understanding sarah . Yes dear I am 24/7 give time motivate her every time.she is really very strong.i always give her hope.enhance her confidence. Thanks God there are people like you in world who understand and can feel which pain we are passing through. I saw some people here start judging my life just to read this thread rather than understand what it is about. Sitting in home sofa and giving free advice rather than emphize with us while we husband and wife know what best options and what best decision according on that time and on location was best for us. After so consider them then we chose them to do

Thanks Sarah again

38 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Not true.  As an adult human, we always have choices.  You and your wife could choose to live in Pakistan instead of the US.  If being together is the important thing, then remove the US from the formula, and you have your answer.

Not agreed.judging my life from my One thread is not sufficient.before giving someone advice make you have sufficient knowledge about them. I and my wife living in Pakistan more than 3 years and very happily In every year she had to go back Us for only 3 months then she moved back to me.she had to re-establish her domicile so she decided to go back and established domocile. I sent proof of domicile to embassy 4 months ago. Yet waiting. I hope you will understand now. What the situation is. 

Just now, Joyoussinger said:

Nineteen months is a long time and I'm sure you never thought it would take this long. The immigration process has you at its mercy and you must feel helpless. I wish you the best and for this to be resolved soon.

Thanks for your support . Yes dear I am very helpless . Nothing I can do. Yes as you said I never ever thought I would go such long.Just kept patience. Thanks again 

1 minute ago, GraceJ21 said:

I'm sorry you're going through this. I've been apart from my wife for more than a year now, and it's insanely painful too, I think about hugging her and I always find myself in tears, so I can empathize with your situation. The uncertainty of it all if really hard as well.  A lot of us in here go through the same, and I think we all understand your pain. I hope you can be reunited with your family soon. Stay strong friend. 

Thank you for your kind understanding . U r only the first person In thread who understanding my feelings and hold my hands sympathize that I am Not alone. I pray for you also may you get soon your visa and you will be with your family soon 

1 minute ago, JFH said:

What about it? We can’t tell you anything other than what you already know - it takes as long as it takes. 

 

I’ll not comment on who is responsible for new life being created. Never assume everyone has the same faith. Or any faith. 

Thank you for your support

1 hour ago, JeanneAdil said:

she is USC

she has family support here

all of us want our mommy when we give  birth

 

there is more than just establishing domicile here

there is the income support 

 

we went thru 6 years of immigration and yes, it is hard,  but you can handle this 

anyone can

 

Her parents passed away 5 years ago

1 minute ago, Andy & Val said:

I think you should be more on the positive side of things at this particular juncture.

Your wife is in a very fragile state right now.

Whatever energy you put out there is going to affect her accordingly.

And from every indication, you're not being the best cushion as we speak.

 

Some things in life are beyond our control and this happens to be one of them.

You have a loving wife and a kid on the way.

You have two things to be happy for and smile about.

But if you still think you have nothing to be grateful for, check your pulse!

 

Don't lose the energy! Everything will be sorted out soon.
Some things just sort themselves out automatically.
Don't fight it my friend.

Thank you so much for your support I am very thankful of God what I have right now.but only this long processing. But thanks again for kind understanding 

36 minutes ago, JFH said:

You surely knew that she has to re-establish domicile or provide such evidence of her intention thereof before your visa can be issued?

 

This may sound harsh but separation is a normal part of this procedure. Many people endure longer periods of separation. You were very fortunate to have been living with your wife in Pakistan. You chose to relocate to the USA and this just how it is. Had she not become pregnant, she could have visited you during this time. But you you made a conscious decision to make a baby (we all know how not to get pregnant) before you were able to live together in the USA. You are adults. You have to live with the consequences or your decisions. Nobody at the embassy is going to process your case any faster because you decided to have a child. That’s on you, my friend, 

 

Now, your AP time is longer than most countries. But that’s how it is for many Pakistani applicants. Nothing can be done about it. 

 

I would recommend you seek professional help for the depression you are experiencing. I understand that six months is a long time to be apart (at one point we were apart for longer) but to feel as though life isn’t worth living when you have a loving wife and child on the way waiting for you suggests that you are suffering from depression. And that needs medical help or it will get worse. 

Dear JFH 

I am very fortunate to have very loving wife and also I am keeping patience also I know embassy is working on its way. Question is not why we took decision to make baby before issuing visa.every soul who has to come in world must will come.childs are God blessings.question is about 19 months long processing after interview? Which I posted for

12 minutes ago, Nitas_man said:

I wonder - with all of this hardship and misery - why she just doesn’t join you in Pakistan where you could celebrate the birth together

Because embassy asked us proof of domicile. So she had to go back to USA.after 6 months she could not travel Doctors don't allowed

I am writing this letters with tears in my eyes’ cant do anything for my wife who is my life. She is my everything and she has far away from me don’t know why embassy treated me very badly that my case took 19 months with still no visa. My wife is 7th months pregnant. She hopes that I will be there before delivery time. Yesterday I cried whole night. She is suffering alone in USA.we have submitted whatever embassy asked the last documents we submitted 4 months ago in july. The documents were pictures and proof of domicile. Just pictures and proof of domicile takes such a long delay to review. We both are suffering from mental presurre.as soon as her delivery dates are coming close I am so worried if I dont get visa before her delivery then who will take care of my wife.who will bring her hospital if emergency happen.my heart vibrates when I even think about it daily I wakeup from new hopes. I can’t Express that pain when I receive response of email after 19 months of administrative processing that (we have received your documents and currently they are pending for review. Please be assured we are doing our best effort to finish this admin processing as soon as possible)At this time I cant do anything at this point I just pray to Allah please push me up from this processing. I really can’t Express my pain. Every time I cry silently when I talk to my wife over phone. When she tells me she has to go hospital for routine check up and nobody give her ride. When she says I am alone. I feel very bad for me. Why I am exist here. These are my toughest days of my life.  The pain I am passing through unable to describe in words. I hope somebody will sympathize with me 
I know I am not alone in this circumstances

There are many couples who are same as me

Allah Un sab ki parehshani Hal karay

1 hour ago, Mobi6488 said:

Have u got any update brother?

No brother not yet

Guys !! Has anyone got update from Embassy recently or issued Visa ??

3 hours ago, Mobi6488 said:

haseeb. do they have you passport during all these 18 months?

yes theh retained my passport 

1 minute ago, maceachern10 said:

They want original via 

first plastic coating then send them and you keep photocopy

1 minute ago, MZe said:

You are not alone. Insha Allah good news aey gi.

 

 

We have had no luck since our second medical was requested and sent on August 27. My dad suffered heart attack from the stress of this wait on the 16 of oct. I have been trying to explain to him for so many months to not stress out.

i just arrived to Pakistan this week. 

oh my god!! i can feel this pain bro. so much of depression and limitless wait.my wife is also 7th month pregnant in the united states and i am here waiting for my visa. 

2 minutes ago, MZe said:

You are not alone. Insha Allah good news aey gi.

 

 

We have had no luck since our second medical was requested and sent on August 27. My dad suffered heart attack from the stress of this wait on the 16 of oct. I have been trying to explain to him for so many months to not stress out.

i just arrived to Pakistan this week. 

bro did you submit a inquiry ? 

2 minutes ago, ahqs90 said:

Hi,

 

the embassy is requesting the original Nikkah Namah not NADRA so we uploaded to CEAC as instructed but they want it via courier service.

 

do we send the original Nikkah namah or a copy of the original Nikkah namah via courier? 

 

 

send them photocopy not original

1 hour ago, Uzma irfan said:

7 months 

oh god!! and i am in administrative processing since 18 months

1 minute ago, Uzma irfan said:

Ameen , me too stuck in admin process 

kab se ? 

2 minutes ago, Chaudary said:

Her visa issued on 17 October. Alhamdulillah.

masha allah congratulation sab kay visa approve ho raha hai. bus hamara bhi hojaye ab.ameen 

7 minutes ago, M.Ali said:

Mashallah, aap ko bahut mubarak ho. kindly pray for me. I have also submitted the additional documents on 4th Sep. still no update and no status change

i also have submitted documents at 19 of july 2019.last date case last update changed please pray for me

1 minute ago, Syeda Hassan said:

Aoa.. i am so happy to inform u all that my visa was issued on 18th oct 2019.. My interview was on 30th aug 2019 and was given a 221 g for additional tax papers.. 1st update 7th oct

2nd 17th oct

3rd 18th oct  and issued.. Thanks to everyone for support and i ll keep u all in my prayers 

Mashallah so congratulation to you from deep of my heart you cross the dangerous administrative processing very early and very fast please also prepare for me I have submitted some documents on 19th of July 2019 and documents are yet to be reviewed yesterday at 18th of October 2019 I checked my status I'm fine that my status was changed in the last date update on 18th October 2019 so it's a good sign

11 minutes ago, Feeling Sad said:

Haseeb Thank you for your help. My status is change to issue from READY.

which day your status changed to issued ?

1 minute ago, Feeling Sad said:

Haseeb Thank you for your help. My status is change to issue from READY.

so much congratulation to you dear.bhot khushi hui.please also pray for me