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Hi guys, your advice is so important for me. I applied VAWA with I485, I360, EAD and travel document couple months ago. I got my ead and travel document card ( combo card ) couple months ago.
 

My question is ; My father's health is not good and I haven't see my country more than 4 years.

I wanna give you some information about myself. I came to USA as an F1 student visa on 2015 . And I never lost my student status until i got my ead and travel document. I have no criminal record in America, and I have never been to an immigration court. I have never lived illegally in America, and I have no criminal record in any other country.

So i do wanna visit my country for 3 or 4 weeks. When i came back to USA will i have any problem entry? 

Please advice me. I’m really feeling bad now. 

Thank you so much

Also i will pray for you @sandranj

God bless you guys

7 hours ago, SssMay said:

Update my experience of renew DL:

 

I went to another DMV(Named Penndot in PA)

on this morning in Philadelphia. I talked to the clerk first, but still not work. Then I told her that i want to speak to supervisor. After 20 minutes, the supervisor came to me and asked me to provide i485 and i765. After he reviewed them, he issued me another 6 months. 

Which Penndot

Do u know adress? And what documents did you show supervisor?

1 minute ago, SssMay said:

I will try! Hope I can get a good answer! Thanks again!

You are welcome please  let us new updates tomorrow

1 minute ago, SssMay said:

Actually I showed all documents they needed. But she still refused to renew my DL. So weird!

Some DMV employees don't know anything. So always try to talk to supervisor or manager at DMV. 

Don't forget show the documents first ( from DMV website ) . If they still making problems, tell them i want to talk  supervisor or manager.

It's your right, they have to give it.

Just now, SssMay said:

Thanks! I will take them to go to dmv tomorrow and see what happens!

You are welcome 

I think you should print all the pages and tell them it's official.  www.dot.state.pa.us/Public/DVSPubsForms/BDL/BDL%20Publications/pub%20195nc.pdf  

Just print out 12 pages and show important paragraphs 

10 minutes ago, SssMay said:

 

May I ask where did you renew your DL?

Look show them this picture. I took screen shot for you from PA DMV

They need to renew your DL with 180 days extension. Talk them and show them. 

www.dot.state.pa.us/Public/DVSPubsForms/BDL/BDL%20Publications/pub%20195nc.pdf

Also

On 11/21/2018 at 9:55 PM, SUicidaL-3876 said:

Yes, you have enough evidence. I have seen people with less than what you have.  I would go ahead and file.

Thank you so much for ur comment. 

5 hours ago, Psquare said:

Can we still file vawa after December 7th cause we been hearing it’s ending that they have to reauthorize vawa ...so what’s happening about that ...are we still eligible to file for vawa after December 7 cause we Dnt know when they wanna reauthorize it 

It's true:? Anyone is know?

3 minutes ago, sandranj said:

Send me a pm here and I will answer you.

Sandra, I have been living in America for 3 years on a student visa and I still valid. I met my wife in September 2017 and we applied for marriage on Valentine's day.
My wife and I have the same religion ( I'm muslim ) and we are students. My wife is American citizen 21 years old and I am 23 years old.  My wife, me and a roommate are living together in a two-bedroom house.
1-) One month after I got married, my wife punched me during the discussion and I went to the emergency room with my roommate. I got a report from the hospital, but I didn't complain about my wife. ( My roommate is my witness because he was at home when my wife punched me )
2-) In the second month of marriage., when I said I wanted to divorce, my wife attacked me with a knife and I called 911. Me and my best friend also recorded it on the video when my wife attacked me with knife. I have police report and 911 record.
3-) Last month, my wife tried to slap me when my dad with me, and then she tried to threaten me, me and my dad went to the police department. 
Also fo bonafide marriage
I have joint lease agreement , Joint bank account ( we opened 4 months ago ) and I have some my wife's mail to the address we live with. There is no tax return because we got married Feb 2018.

I and my wife don't have cars, so we don't have car insurance. According to the agreement between our roommate and I, my roommate have pay the electricity bill because bill under he's name, and we have to pay the only internet bill.  
More than 200 different photos ( wedding, she is family and friend ) gifts, letters each other. 1500+ pages text messages ( PDF ) since January 2018. Text messages from my wife's mother and she told me her daughter is bipolar with messages.  

I didn't apply to green card during the marriage because I was worried about my wife. Because my wife was always threatening to deport me. I found out about VAWA last month.

I have no criminal record, and I will graduate from software engineering within 2 years. I've been under psychologist treatment for the last 4 months. 

Finally, there are the apology messages my wife sent to me, the threat messages, and the messages my wife said she was cheating on me with she is ex , and the messages my wife said she attempted suicide. And my wife's always bothering ( with text) to my friends. My wife still wants money, even though we filed a divorce 20 days ago.  

There are things that I don't think about right now. Please, your advice is very very important to me.

I'm going to apply to VAWA soon, but I don't know if I have enough documentation.

2 minutes ago, Going through said:

In addition to your divorce lawyer, have you also consulted an immigration lawyer with experience in VAWA cases?

Yes, I will work with the very very good immigration law attorney in my state. 

1 minute ago, Boiler said:

How was he going to arrest her?

Sorry not arrest.Res.Order for me 

@sandranj Hi Sandra can i contact u with message? I really need ur help

Thank you

5 minutes ago, Going through said:

 

 

For the second time, I'm going to ask what your divorce lawyer said in response to her when she brought up IN FRONT OF YOUR LAWYER that she plans on blackmailing you?

My lawyer was shocked. My lawyer gave me an hour to talk to my wife and told my wife that if she doesn't calm down, we'd use our legal rights.  My wife and I talked again outside, and we got a new appointment from the lawyer.  After couple days my wife called my lawyer and left a voice mail.  My wife swears and insults to my divorce lawyer by voice message. My lawyer would have decided to arrest her, but my wife agreed to divorce and signed the papers.

@CEE53147

First of all, I loved my wife and complaining about her would be a bad stain in her life. If I wanted an arrest warrant for her, my wife want to be a nurse in the future, and this arrest could interfere with her life.

Second of all, can you think more smart? Why do you think hundreds of thousands of people apply for green card every year?  Or why there are 20,000 people waiting to hear from VAWA. 

I had a marriage. And I've been subjected to physical and psychological pressure many times. And there's 100% evidence of what I'm saying. Do you think the whole problem is that I wanna apply for VAWA?

@Going through

I found the best law firm in the state I'm in.  They examined my case, and they're not a lawyer who accepts everyone's case. In fact, my lawyer has served well in ( big position ) UCSIS for years before. Helping my case they agreed.

It's been 14 months with my wife, and all the texts we've sent each other from first day. 

1- Only messages will show how crazy my wife is. I've transferred these messages to PDF and it's more than 1500 pages.

2- Police reports and attack videos are best real evidence. Instagram and Facebook messages are still keept. 

3- My wife doesn't want to divorce from me and she still want me to have a child. My wife told my lawyer that she didn't want to divorce me if I didn't have a child with my wife. 

4- The video clearly shows my wife attacked with a knife. It's also a witness on attack day, and I have that day text messages between my wife and me for proof attack video. 

@Going through

I filed a divorce  20 days ago. Our divorce process is going on right now. But my wife still sends me a message and says she wants to be together.  I'm planning to change the state because I'm scared where I am. I live in Massachusetts.

@Going through

Because 30 days after the marriage, my wife was physically assaulted. The second physical intervention was 2 months after the marriage. I mean, if I had applied to the green card, maybe I would have had more trouble with my wife. Finally, a friend of mine told me that I could find a good lawyer and apply for AOS with out my wife.

So i just need little advice. That’s why i’m here

Any one can tell me ? What does it mean Prima Facie?

Also somebody got 3 or 4 times prima facie why?

Hi, I have a question for you. Frankly, I'd like to take your comments or predictions. I have been living in America for 3.5 years on a student visa and I still have a legal student visa.  I'm studying computer engineering at a school and I'm 22 years old. I met an American woman in September 2017 and applied for a marriage on Valentine's day on February 14, and then I got married after couple days. At first, the marriage didn't go badly, then marriage was a very bad situation for me. 

My wife's mother was a drug addict and my wife never loved her family. My wife was adopted by a family when she was 15, and then her step-parents threw my wife out when my wife 18. My wife's father is dead ( 10 years ago ). My wife rarely talks to her step-and-step family also own mom family. I don't want to write too much, I just want to give you important details. My wife is only 20 years old and she is a student and American.

1-) We spent time together for almost 4.5 months before we got married, and my wife wanted to marry me and she offered me a marriage.  From the first day we met, my wife has always said that she is alone at night, she needs a man who can't sleep comfortably, maybe at least 1000 times.

2-) We were small arguing two or three times before we got married, but my wife always apologized to me after argue.  My wife used to say that she was very lonely and was sometimes very angry because she was afraid of loneliness.  My wife said she was very sensitive because she was alone and afraid to lose me, so that's why she was arguing with me. I was trying to empathize and forgive my wife.  I mean, I believed her because his father died, her mother was a drug addict, her stepmother threw my wife out, and he's not very good with his brothers and sisters. 

3) After marriage, me and my wife lived together in a two-bedroom house with a roommate. 

4-) My wife was very irritable or sensitive at times, and she was very docile at times. After a month of marriage, my wife's mood was changing all the time. After a discussion on March 21, my wife hit my chest very hard and I had to go to the Emergency room the next day. ( I have all hospital document )

5-) We made peace again, but in this period I started to learn important information about my wife. My wife and I were always texting during the day because my wife and I were forbidden to have a telephone conversation at work. My wife apologized to me, she said;  didn't know why she hit me, and she was tried to commit suicide a few times before me. Also she even crashed her old car. Because my wife hit her car on the wall. So she tried to commit suicide. After a long conversation, my wife promised me she'd go to a psychologist, and then we got back together. Believe me, I was so scared that day.

6-) My wife went to visit her old house by April 15th because she used to live in her old house with her brother and roommate. She said to me ' i'm with my brother' And I wanted to video talk my wife that night but she seemed to be lying all the time. Then my wife confessed to meeting me with her ex-boyfriend. She didn't come my home that night, and we had argue again. ( My wife confessed to me through the message and I still have the messages. )

7-)  I wanted to divorce my wife ( around May) , but my wife didn't want to divorce me. A week later, my wife came to the house where we lived together. I told her not to come and bother me. My wife said she brought me her ex-boyfriend and that her ex-boyfriend was a very dangerous ( ex has criminal history ) man, and she had to talk to me. I was so scared that day and I called my best friend. I went home with my best friend and my wife came home alone. My wife was angry and she seemed to have had a drink or weed. I told her I wanted to get divorced several times when I was with my friend.  ( I have all text messages  from my wife about she is ex and criminal history )

8-) My wife was always swearing at home. My wife was swearing at my family and friends. I told my wife I'd call the 911 if you didn't leave the house, and my wife took the knife on the table and tried to attack me. My wife squeezed my throat and could have killed me with a knife.  I and my friend recorded the video, so when my wife attacked me i recorded the video and called the 911 twice. My friend took my wife out and my wife ran away when she saw the cops coming.  

9-) After attack my wife sent me and and my friend a text and apologized many times.  She said she'd get a divorce if I didn't complain. The police department took copies of the attack videos ( 3 videos total 2 min ) and text messages and officer said I could get protection if I wanted to.  After 1 week my wife asked me to annulment the marriage with she is step mom. She didn't ask me to get a normal divorce, and she just said she'd get a divorce if the marriage was annulment . My wife also told me that  annulment is better than a normal divorce. If I annulment the marriage, my wife would have no trouble, and she said she'd get divorced. Also my wife's step-mom asked only to annulment the marriage. Otherwise, they said they will find the best lawyers for deport me. 

10 -) My wife's stepmother has a very rich family and big connections. They forced me to cancel the marriage. And I got a lawyer. My wife and I applied for annulment. The court refused to accept our annulment. Because marriage annulment is very different from normal divorce. During the annulment, my wife and cousin called me and apologized. My wife said she's changed a lot she is self and she won't make mistakes again. My wife also said she was going to the psychologist. Also my wife was sent me pictures. In these pictures, my wife showed that she convert to my religion, that she had the same religion as me. Then my family come to America for help my marriage, and my wife's family and my family met, and we thought we could be together one more time. 

11- ) 1 month after ( October 2018 ) being with my wife again, my wife returned to her old personality and all time asked for money. Besides, she was always trying to make me sexually. Se called me gay if I didn't accept sexual intercourse. She was again swearing. She kept threatening. I wanted to get my wife out of the house again. As of October 2018, my wife came home again, unaware of me, and began to argue with me. My dad came home when she tried to slap me and we fired my wife from house. Then my wife threatened me with a message. My wife always told me I'm gonna deport u. Me and my dad went to the police department for the second time and asked them to call my wife. The police officer called my wife and my wife didn't call me again. Because if my wife calls me, the police will arrest her. Now I've found my best lawyer, and I want to start my case, but there's something I'd like to ask you.

Now ,

1- ) I have good connection with my wife's family. My wife's own mother and brothers, sisters, uncle and grand mom loves me and we have maybe more than 50 different pictures together . There are also photos of my wife and my family being together. My wife's own mother and I are constantly texting. And last month my wife's mother says her daughter is psychologically ill, and she needs to go to the doctor immediately.  And everyone in my wife's family says she is sick (bipolar or disorder ). I also have video recordings when my wife's family talking about my wife's ill.

2- ) My wife told me with the text message that she needs a doctor who is bipolar or a similar ill 2 or 3 times. ( when we texting on the phone ) My wife also sent me text message the details of the therapist center she went to. 

3-) I keep text messages close to 1000 pages with my wife and I keep them all. I also have my best friend with me when my wife is attacking me with a knife, and he recorded attack video. My wife had sex with someone else ( she text me ) , tried to commit suicide ( she texted me), and after the attack.  

I mean, I keep all the messages of my wife and her family. Because I was a driver, so we could just text. And my wife was always sending messages when she had problem or etc.

4- ) My roommate was at home when my wife punched me and  I went to the emergency room with my roommate.  My father has seen my wife's threats several times. My other close friends know my wife attacked. 

5-)  I'm coming to my question now. I have these documents.; 2 police reports , 911 records , medical report ( my chest xray ) , over 1000 pages text messages from my wife , instagram messages , my wife's moms messages . My friends witness. 

6) I have Joint bank account ( about 3 months statement) but my wife closed to account last month because of last attack.  Birthday letters , rental agreement under both names , birthday gifts. I don't have a car and my wife bought car after marriage under she is mom name ( i'm not sure ) so we don't have joint insurance. Also i have couple mail from Bank, insurance and court under my wife name showing my address . We don't have tax return because we been married only 9 months.  Besides, my wife and I had  more than to 250 different photos and my wife was using my debit card firs couple months. 

7-) I've been going to the psychologist for four months. I'm taking antidepressants, and I'm going to the therapist soon.

8-) My wife and I have gifts to each other. My wife and I have special cards ( she wrote for me for birthday etc ) for each other.  I also have the book my wife studying to learn my language. 

9-) There are text messages from my wife's family asking for money from me all the time.

There's a lot of things I can't remember for proof. I just want to stay in this country and graduate my college. Also I have never applied to the green card with my wife. I mean, we didn't apply during the marriage. Because I never trusted my wife.  

I have a good lawyer and I'm just scared something. I mean, I'm really in a bad mood. I can't think very well now. I'm going to be 23 and my blood pressure is always too high. My wife always threatens me , never helps me, and always wants money, and she's cheating on me with other men as if it wasn't enough. 3 times also physical violence. I'm sooo exhausted.

You know what my wife wants from me? She wanna get a contract because my wife wants me to have a kid from me. If we don't have kids, my wife won't sign the papers for divorce. When se ask this contract my divorce divorce lawyer witnessed it. Even my divorce lawyer is afraid of my wife. 

I just need information from you.

Thank you so much.