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17 hours ago, Boiler said:
I should have looked, seems that all this happened last year, so quite what is the point of a post now.
Why you ask am free to post it anytime i want. What is the problem of posting now. If you don't like the post just leave it. Ignore
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15 hours ago, aaron2020 said:
You are the reason for this mess. Not your ex-American wife.
Maybe she smelled a marriage for a green card and abandoned things.
Regardless of her reasons, she told you it was over. You choose to ignore that. You went ahead with the medical and interview for a spousal visa.
Don't blame others for your bad choices.Sir I don't agree with you you don't know me you don't know the whole story. I was loyal husband. And even i can't use someone for my beinfit it's not good. You said she smell something about green gard is not true. The problem is not from me okay. You can't judge me you don't know me. The problem is from her. She promise me she will be good wife for me she will be loyal woman and loves me i was always respectful with her and her family. Always when she visit me Mt family treat her good. I don't need a green card America county it's not the one in this world's if i want to move to another country i can with my own. So please before judge me. Think of it. She cheated on me and always lie and always unrespectful with me. And Yoh said the problem from me come on.
4 hours ago, Cathi said:Sounds suspicious.
There is nothing like that. Am telling my story. Us the truth. Day something nice. Or don't comment
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14 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:
you wrote back in July that she was withdrawing her support so attending an interview was fruitless
and yes, Casa is very much like this when it comes to interviews
1st one the Co asked my husband "what does your family think of her?"
i had spent a month with them all and he said , "they love her and smiled "
CO said "you smile, you lie"
your USC wife will probably send u papers to sign for the divorce
if she does, make sure you only sign if the lawyer and /or her sends u a copy of the final divorce
she will not make another trip to get the moroccan divorce as she gave up a long time ago
The truth is as follows:
USC and moroccan marry and its a long process for the visa so many give up
now, the USC does not want to spend money to fly back for the easy moroccan divorce (and i know this is easy -not hard like the marriage process as i watched it happen many times)
now, the Moroccan can try to make the divorce but its hard to find USC and serve the papers (plus the dowry has to be paid if not paid at time of marriage)
many moroccans have tried to get help from US embassy when this happens and there is nothing the embassy can do
your government is also at a loss to help
you think the embassy is hard but they have seen it all and still try to protect both the USC and the Moroccan as they have all the facts
i am sure they had info that your USC wife was no longer supporting your visa as u stated in July
i wished u a happy life back then and i do the same now
but find a woman who will be supportive in your religion and make sure she is one your mother approves of -that's a good indicator
Women know women and see thru the BS
Yes you are right. The one thing i didn't accept from them is that unrespectful things from them. They should not do that. And also the money and time i loses. For nothing. For then to prepare everything. It's not fair. Their conditios sometimes are kit fair for people i hope one day they change it. We not rish we also the same people fighting for their life everyday. I did medical exam which was very expensive and translation papers all during this journey. For what. For them to unrespect me. I agree they should ask and do their job. But i don't agree they insoles me and ask by that way. Like am bad person.
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What made me write my story here. It may help some people to get an idea of the decision to marry an American woman. I say that all people are like this. But I am one of the people who are really hurt and wronged. I met my ex-wife in 2016 after a four-year relationship, and she came here three times..but this is a marriage. And this experience was one of the worst experiences that I have had in my entire life and so far I still did not accept it and I am still angry. I'm a good guy and I always have been. So but the woman I thought was the love of my life wasn't. She was mean and didn't treat me well. I mean, this woman changed, she did not preach to the woman she married. Very selfish. And you don't appreciate my circumstances and always. Watching problems. All this came after I went to the consulate in Casablanca, and my interview was like everyone who received bad treatment and an interview that had a lot of questions. There is a difference that you go to the embassy and see insults in front of you. Be employees. Their questions are disrespectful, as if I was accused of a crime. All this experience made me angry and I'm the only one hurt by this marriage. Nice to me that I was patient for a long time until my family suffered with me. When I go to the consulate. I do not find the respect I was waiting for. It is true that all are doing their job, but I do not understand why they should insult people. Only for Visa. I don't really understand. I lost money and time for them and for many years they told me that my visa was rejected, how is this, but I decided to move forward because I had no choice. I hope God will give me justice in heaven someday. what i got. betrayal. From the woman who met her. abandoned me. I disrespect my family. My consulate was insulted by staff and method. Their question is disgusting. Wasting time and effort for nothing. All applicants must do a medical examination for $200. before an interview. It doesn't matter if she refuses or not. Is money falling on us from the sky? This is a consulate that never respects people. I lost a lot of time in the end, I'm the only one losing here. Preach all of this. I must have a divorce. In a complex court, there is a lot of money and time lost. Especially if there was no response from my ex-wife, who refused to help in this. Now I'm still fighting to get fired. Let's go on with my life there. And with another kick and I'm Zahdi, who became suffering. with everything. I do not agree with this. And I do not agree with you as an interview. People should be respected because I am a human being. That's all, and this is my bad experience with this marriage. Anyone who is about to marry an American woman should think before deciding, good luck to all.
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On 7/14/2021 at 2:55 AM, Mezyan said:
Sorry things didn't work out for you. You deserve to be happy in your relationship.
I am slightly confused by reading your past posts though, the first posts from the account are from a woman who married a moroccan man.
Regardless, I wish you the best in your future.
She was only lying to me. I don't her whole life . Little what she tell me I was trust her . I don't know it happens I didn't find anyone to advise me I can't all women are bad. But this one I marry was so bad . doesn't respect me
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I don't know what to say but my story is longer . I meet a woman from USA and we get married about 5 years ago. Out love story was nice. We applied for the ir1 visa with everything and proofs that our marriage is true . After one year or waiting the process she changed alot start to cheat on me and date other men there behind I get hurt alot from this woman besides her unrespectful and lied Everytime and from her and her family . It was a hell I didn't deserve that am good man. I was good with her . I remember she told me if they don't approve the visa. She will leave me because she don't love anymore. Our relationship was like 5 years of time it along time we waited and even the process takes longer . People's advice told me that to go to the interview even if this problems between me and her. I went to there . I have a hearing problem and people should be nice with me and understanding. But the officer were so rasict and doesn't care about my situation as we hear here many times they ask alot of questions answered evethings he told me I have admin procces. Have to wait. After two months they called me for second interview it was with two Moroccans work there and they were asking me the same but this time I felt like they unrespectful and hard with me it's like want to fight me . I was there for 3 hours after they say we call you. After one week I checked I found that my Visa is refused forever. I told her what happened with me she laughed alot like she is happy they did it hurt me more. I know no one knows me but am good person I never think to hurt someone but it's fine. God will reward them back of all my suffer from this. My advice to any men marry from USA don't make hopes alot Marrying a woman doesn't mean things will work out. Be sure the woman is ready to be petient and fight them and she loves from her heart. Not the onese one who love to drink alot and so everything with me. Every night and who is moody alot and doesn't care about people feelings. Marry the right person. Before. Because your way is not easy it will take many years atleast they refuse your visa they won't care how you suffer. . I have trust in God for me will reward me better I believe. Good luck to everyone thank you for reading
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8 hours ago, Karim2018 said:
Usually they'll ask for a joint-sponsor after the interview.
I know but you dont get my quetion . You said the status changed to refused so when this changed after it how long till they let you know that you need join sponsor
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How long till they let you know you need join sponsorr . After you saw the ceac say refused . Can you answer
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Am the same problem brother
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17 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:
i believe the refused post was what he saw on CEAC site
You said CO treated you rude during 2nd interiew
Is there a big age difference?
i know you say you are disabled but in the US that does not mean a person can not work as many do
How about your education? Did you continue in school so a job is possible
not sure when u married but you only applied march 2018
did your USC spouse add you to 2018 tax returns to start commingling of finances?
this is important to Casa embassy
you have to prove more than you love someone
you have to prove the relationship is real / it has to be one of trust and beginning the commingling of tax returns is a start
plus things like giving the USC a POA (power of attorney ) so spouse can add you to taxes and then to bank account with the ITIN you get from IRS'
gotta do the above or you will keep getting denied
I messaged you jeny whataup
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8 minutes ago, missileman said:
Does it say a letter is being sent?
No just refused this all
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3 minutes ago, missileman said:
EXACTLY what does it say? It says more than just "Refused"?
It say refused and more say if i want to know more information about it i can check visa travel site . This is all said at this status
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Just now, missileman said:
Can you post a screen shot? Exactly what does it say in its entirety?
I dont know how to post it sorry . It say refused you can google it can find an example
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After my case placed adminstrative proccing . Today changed to refused i dont understand i proved to them all the evidence i know my wife 4 years visited me times i gives them all the evidence they ask for . Chat log weeding pic ...they didnt call me or say anything visa type is ir1 . Am confused
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Is there anyone get approved after second interveiw . If yes for how long . Consulate casabalnca morocco.
Please share
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Just now, Jorgedig said:
This could raise questions also, regarding the public charge issue.
Thank you
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1 minute ago, abdo1 said:
i had 3rd interview two weeks ago, my case never returned, they told me they would send me
Abdo can you help bro
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2 minutes ago, Marieke H said:
How did they treat you? COs are trained to ask difficult questions that may make you feel uncomfortable. They look for signs that may indicate you are hiding something.
Your wife's income isn't nearly enough to support her 4 children plus you plus any ex-husband she may still be responsible for financially. A cosponsor can help, but it's up to the CO's discretion to accept that.
Your case is not as straightforward as you think, it's not just about the two of you wanting to be together. You will have to be very patient, or start working on a plan B.
I agree with you . They were not nice . Second they ask me quetions verry rude about my life you know i dont have problem to tell but its diffirent someone ask nice way to know with respectful and ask with rude way and yelling to me . Its like the police at any film movie . Plus I have a physical disability, you know someone who is like me is worthy of good treatment, but they insulted me about it ans didnt feel respecful i felt hurt .my wife not sponsoring any ex she is done and we have co sponsor
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Just now, Jorgedig said:
You posted on a public immigration forum, looking for advice. One option that has been pointed out to you is that your wife can move to Morocco. How is that in any way a judgment on your marriage?
Not everyone who wants an immigrant visa gets one, and sometimes one must look at other options.
Yes advice but seem to me like this way do you ask me i dont know am just come here to see understand why they treat our case like it because we never think they will we never heard about it anyway thank you for your information we will wait we didnt say not .
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4 minutes ago, Boiler said:
When will the children be old enough so she can move?
Yes she can move normal but do you know how long . Its not about it right i didnt post here and people have to say things about my marriage this is not your buissnes . My wife and me want to be togather we didnt not nothing wrong we just couples loves each other like all
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4 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:
Calm down. There is no "deserve" when it comes to US immigration. There are statutes and regulations and guidelines.
No one knows for sure why certain cases get put into AP. You have no choice but to wait.
Ok thank you bro . Am like all haman but the way they treat me second interveiw its like am bad person like i did a crime if you undrestand
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9 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:
No one is doing anything to you. You both chose this relationship, right? No one is owed any immigration benefit. The USC has a right to petition for eligible family members. That's it.
If the goal is to be together (vs just to be together in the US), maybe your wife can move to Morocco?
I dont know what are you trying to say to me but to let you know my wife cant move to morocco ahe have kids to worry about and no one can care for them plus the court decide with her ex so she cant move . What is wrong with pjr relatioship then we deserve to be togather doesnt matter where we wait so long for this procces to end you dont have any idea so dont tell me if my wifw should move to morocco we pay uscis and nvc the consulate the fees whish was hard to manage to treat us like this way i didnt do anything wrong i love my wife no one know me to judge
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2 hours ago, Jorgedig said:
Incorrect. The reason is the myriad of red flags in your case.
Ok i agree with you . But arrent they should decide before we wait one year at uscis and 10 month fir nvc and the first intweview all this time not enough for them to decide about mt case something fair when i say simething fair i mean like all application its hard for me to see my wife crying every night hope to see me why they do this to us because she married before and this is a red flag this mean we dont deserve to be togather i just think its not fair
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Had anyone of your spouse two inteeveiw with ap and get approved if yes for how long at casabalnca embassy morocco
Expérience with marriage an American woman visa cr1
in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits
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Seem like you don't understand this happens after the interview. If this happens before the interview am not stupid why i should go. And she was telling me to go she want to work out. The relationship what is the problem. Am not desperate if you like to judge people then do. Your problem not me. Say something nice. Of move on. And yes i can move to another country if i want you don't need to know where is not your business. Ok. Am Human. And a good man i deserve respect from any country like i respect others .