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~~~water~~~

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  1. Wow !!! That is really harsh. Just bide your time ... When they see your happy and he is not a bad person in time they may come around.... If your mom is making the effort though he is burning briges to appply his values to the situation, it just is not the same here

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  3. Hello all...

    Long time no post but just wanted to let you know that we had our 130/485 interview this morning. The woman we met with was very nice. Here's a gist of the interview process in case some of you, like I, were wondering how it went:

    - Arrived

    - Were called in (both my wife and I together).

    - Officer introduced herself and put us under oath.

    - We went through our package and she verfied some of our answers

    - Asked for additional documentation that we lived together (provided bank statements/lease)

    - Asked for employment letter. I provided the same one I had submitted with the application.

    - Asked me to step out so she could speak to my wife (my wife is the one sponsoring me)

    - Called me back in after 5 min or so and asked me the same questions...they were along the lines of where we met, when we got married, parents/sibling names...all pretty straight forward.

    - She told us that she believed our marriage was real and that she was approving me for conditional residence.

    - Said a card would be arrive within 3 weeks and to call if not....hopefully no issues will arise with this.

    - Provided a "conditional residence is approved as of today" piece of paper

    - Gave us some info on the removal of conditions (after 2 years) and citizenship (if desided...after 3 years).

    Best of luck to all of you moving forward. I know it feels like a long process but it's just a waiting game. Keep your head up and you'll be there soon.

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    My Timeline

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    29 Sept 2007 - Married USC (I'm a Canadian working in the US)

    17 March 2008 - Sent Package (I-130, I-485, I-765) via Fed-Ex to Chicago

    18 March 2008 - Package Received

    21 March 2008 - Checks Cashed.

    27 March 2008 - NOAs received (Notice date: 21 March 2008)

    27 March 2008 - Biometric Appointment Notive Received for 15 April 2008

    15 April 2008 - Biometric Appointment

    30 April 2008 - Request for further information (sent in the wrong form for I-864)

    16 June 2008 - 765 approval

    30 June 2008 - Interview appointment for 485/130 received (11 Aug 2008)

    11 Aug 2008 - Granted conditional residence (told card would arrive in 3 weeks)

    :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: thanks for the update!

  4. my youngest starts high school thursday and her brother will be in 11th grade! She's missing the first 2 days because she is part of a wild horse training program where you train a young wild horse so it has a better chance at adoption. She is quite the horse trainer, her horse has gone from completely wild to sweet a puppy dog. Now she brings her to Reno for the adoption fair :)

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  5. its hard to say what's a red flag and wha'ts not... you guys are the same age and met in person instead of online very good things. He will have to make his divorce final before you can start....

    My best advice is visit as much as you can it really helps to know each other as much as possible in person before you commit to life together forever ...

    good luck on your journey

    water

  6. I agree I have never cleaned or worked this much in the house in all my life. my husband helps by not making a mess but the day to day things somehow all end up on my shoulders. I have had to cut back on the cooking as i just feel its to much to try and do it all. I He does do little things to help (the dishes here or there, watering the garden) and I do appreciate his effort. I have just had to lower my expectations and give myself a break cause between work and the chores of the house I feel exahusted.

    I feel for you and having to be a caregiver on top of all the home responsibilities and work is enough to make anyone insane. hang in there i am sure things will improve!

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