Ahmed amin

hey i have sad story  after my interview my case send back to uscis fir review and they send me noir after i aswered the noir my status change to revocation notice was sent  and they give me 30 day to appeal  i dont khow i should appeal or file new case  i went to lawyer and he said we cand appeal and file new case in the same time   this is the letter the uscis send it to me   what shoud i do give up and ask my wife live  to come to me or appeal or file new case please help 

I think a lot more information on the timeline of the relationship, how often and how long you saw each other in person (both before filing the I-130 and afterwards), etc. would be helpful here.
There does appear to be a couple red flags, which would increase scrutiny of the relationship. Besides the age and religion gap, are there any otgher red flags (short time together before getting married, or doing so on the first visit?) No way to avoid those, but it can be overcome with enough relationship evidence. Time spent in person is the best evidence.
 
A lot of the reasons provided in the denial refer to providing documentation for the sake of having documentation, not of showing an actual bona fide relationship.
Can you provide a full list of:
1) What was provided with the I-130?
2) What was provided at NVC and/or the consulate interview?
3) What was provided in the response to the NOIR?
 
According to the denial, it sounds like the majority of the evidence provided was from friends and family, unverifiable sources, which held no weight.
Can you explain the wedding situation a little more? It states that the wedding was an event for the family, but there were no photos with them provided and the beneficiary did not explain why they were not in attendance. Is that accurate - were they not there?
 
Moving forward, it doesn't sound like an appeal makes much sense unless you can show they made a mistake or have other evidence - from prior to filing - that was not previously submitted. It appears that the best thing is to get more time together in person, gather plenty of evidence, and then file again with a well prepared packet.
Option 2 is to migrate in the other direction. Even if it's just temporary. Although I do understand the challenges in doing so when she has 2 children...it just might not be feasible but it is worth mentioning.