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Logan & Eli

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  1. We got her visa expedited for the same reasons that you are citing now; my wife was having some medical issues that were difficult to address in Mexico, and was also causing us significant financial hardship. I provided credit card statements and a breakdown of expenses to show how, for however long the wait continues, our financial situation will just continue to get worse. I also asked for a written letter from her doctor specifying her conditions and explaining how the added stress and anxiety of the situation was making her health worse and more difficult to manage and that the best way to help her would be for our wait to end. I compiled it all, wrote about a 4-page letter explaining our situation in extensive detail, and sent the letter, along with all extra evidence, to the NVC to be considered for expedition. It took about 2 weeks to hear back from them, but it worked.

     

    Just go about it with the understanding that the more evidence you provide them, the easier a decision it will be for them. Do your best to show how the waiting is causing you unnecessary hardship and how health and financial issues would be significantly alleviated if they were to give you an interview.

     

    I believe I also provided a complete and detailed timeline of our process, to show how we had already waited about 14 months and still had not received an interview. :) I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck! Please let me know if there are any other questions.

  2. Update -- 

    23 hours ago, treppenwitz said:

    She should go in-person to your local SSA office. She can also take a ready SS-5 form: https://www.ssa.gov/forms/ss-5.pdf

    We downloaded the form and filled it out and took a trip to the office. They looked up her information and said that there still has not been a request to process a SSN for my wife. We gave them the application, he gave us a receipt and said that it would arrive in 1-2 weeks. 

     

    Thank you all for your help and responses. As always, I'm incredibly grateful for the help this site has given me and my wife :)

     

    Now we just have to wait for a GC. Hopefully  that will arrive before we have to remove her conditions haha

  3. My wife arrived to the US 4 weeks ago. When we filled out the DS-260 form, we marked that she needs a Social Security Number and a Social Security Card. We still have not received any sort of documentation regarding the SSN, and I'm beginning to get worried. On the Social Security website, it says that if it doesn't arrive in 3 weeks, to contact them. I called the listed number and the guy on the line told me to contact my local SS Office. I called my local office, explained our situation, and they said that my wife needs to come in and fill out an application. I then reviewed the SS website and it specifically says that if you marked the information in the DS-260, "you do not need to fill out a special application or go to a Social Security office to get an SSN".

     

    I'm getting conflicting information from these two different offices for the same branch, and the website associated, and I'm not really sure what my next steps should be. Any help is greatly appreciated as we are ready to get her SSN and get bank accounts, drivers licenses, etc. 

  4. 2 minutes ago, starz87 said:

    is she in Mexico or the USA? i have heard that people who have never been over here in the USA is a faster process, but i don't know.

    She is in Mexico without a tourist visa for the US.

     

    Just do your best to use it as an opportunity to visit your partner's country, explore, get to know their friends and family better, and let your love grow. This process isn't easy on any of us and can be incredibly trying, frustrating, and at times it will fill you with desperation. You've got a great community here who will help you get through it and to remind you that you're not alone.

  5. 2 hours ago, JFH said:

    Expect 12-14 months for the entire process to be done.

    I would say you should expect it to take longer. My wife is from Mexico, we sent our documents away on January 10, 2018 and our interview is on March 19, 2019. This was with an approved expedited interview, so we hit 14 months on an expedited case. Ciudad Juarez takes forever to give out interviews; from what I've gathered perusing other people on this site who went through Juarez, most people end up waiting about 6-9 months after NVC Case Complete to get an actual interview. Stay strong and stay positive, it's a long road ahead!

  6. My wife and I were approved for expediting our interview. I just got on to schedule an interview at Ciudad Juarez and it says that the soonest appointment is August 22...is this normal? If I schedule my appointment, can I change it if a sooner appointment opens up? This is so incredibly stressful, we've been married for 14 months with still no end in sight...any perspective will help.

  7. Yes, sorry. I used license and certificate interchangeably. I submitted a copy of the certificate with all of the relative information regarding time and location of the wedding along with the registrar's signature. It's an exact copy of the original certificate so I'm not sure why I got the RFE.

  8. Good morning,

     

    I received an RFE  that states the following:

     

    Submit a photocopy of the original marriage certificate for the marriage of ____ and ____. The marriage certificate must be issued by an appropriate civil authority. In order for the marriage to be considered valid for immigration purposes, it must have been legally valid in the location where the marriage took place. The document must include the date of registration and signature of the registrar.

     

    I have copies of the I-130 form that I originally submitted and it has the marriage license, so I know I sent it before. I noticed that when I sent the photocopy it's on 8 1/2" X 11" paper, rather than legal size, can this be the reason they want it resubmitted? Could the size of the paper be a cause for them to re-request it? Or could there be another reason they could be asking for this document again? 

  9. My wife and I met 6 years ago when I studied abroad in Mexico through my university. I never made a move while I was there because I was too much of a chicken, afraid of rejection. After I left, we continued to talk all of the time; we talked through facebook, skype, and eventually whatsapp. We continued talking but neither of us told the other one how we truly felt about one another. Over the years we have both dated other people since we lived in different countries and didn't really know if a relationship between us was actually possible with work and school and all of that fun stuff. I had always been afraid to tell her how I felt about her because I was afraid she wouldn't feel the same way and then I would lose a really important friend.

     

    In September of 2017, I finally told her how I felt about her and realized that she has shared the same feeling for the last 6 years and I got a lump in my throat realizing I had missed all of this time with an amazing person. The issue was that I was dating someone. I broke off my relationship at home and got things situated before I began pursuing a relationship with my now wife. We started video chatting every night for hours-on-end around the end of October which I guess is when we can consider us dating. In November I told her that I didn't want to spend another day without her and I wanted to marry her (I did this over video chat because I wasn't there in Mexico with her and I didn't want to wait). We planned a wedding for December 23 and invited family and friends.

     

    My wife had previously (in September/October) applied for and been denied a tourist visa and she is now concerned about a few things regarding the interview at the end of the CR-1 process and I'm looking for some reassurance:

     

    1) Will the short timeline of dating to marriage seem suspicious despite the fact that we've known each other for 6 years?

    2) Will the fact that she applied for and was denied a tourist visa to come and visit me and then we were married quickly after seem suspicious?

     

    After using tons of resources, I'm feeling pretty comfortable with the situation since we followed our hearts and are together because we want to be together and because of nothing else but I'm just looking for some direct reassurance regarding my specific circumstance. And there's one last thing I'm hoping for:

     

    This process sucks and is incredibly long and discouraging due to the lack of visibility regarding where in the process the I-130 is (I submitted Jan 10). My wife and I both spend a lot of time struggling with the wait times and the anticipation of being together and the worry that the process will take longer than we anticipate (I'm hoping to have her here around our anniversary, December 23). Can someone just tell me it will be ok? :) Thanks for being such a great community and resource!

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