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    Interview in Nigeria

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    I'm currently one of those people who is just as aggressive in asking the immigration to deport my ex-husband back , as I was in bringing him here, and we have a child together.

    His first son. At the end of the day none of that mattered, and I feel he'll receive his justice soon and take his flight back to Nigeria with his mind wondering how did this happen!

    I am trippin'! I never heard about an african man leaving his child...I am not being rude or funny, but I am really trippin' off this...

    USCIS gets rid of any bridezilla tendencies!

    in Off Topic

    Posted

    Sounds to me like you have now taken on a man's perspective, or my perspective anyway. It should always be more about being married and together than a ceremony. sounds to me like the process maybe awoke something very valuable inside you. Keep it close to you and remember it is about being together, nothing more.

    If nothing else, I too have truly learned patience and how to prioritize in my personal life through this visa process. Congrats on your epiphany.

    ladies a noa2

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    wanted you all to know about the approval i got today, i was tirrrrrrrred of waiting and didnt even want to check my emails today, like you all say, when youre so tired of waiting, it comes. I know there is still a long road ahead, but to have this out of the way, is a big relief.

    :dance::dance::dance:

    Congratz!

    Interview in Nigeria

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    Oh my! I didn't know they delve into people personal lives to that extent! I mean to question a baby's father...wow! That man is your husband! You have really tripped me out...I can't believe they are asking for DNA tests! I am so sorry about that. My question is how are they supposed to do the test? Isn't the baby in the states and the father in Nigeria? How will they compare the DNA?

    long distance relationship

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    hello vj members

    i read all the posts about the long distant relationship. i see that vj members are really up on giving good advice. i was glad for that because all advice was appreciated and taken very seriously. well my guy(uchenna) and i are still doing the online dating stuff. lately i have been so involved with the internet and our chats that i havent really had time to do much of anything else. :lol:

    I will continue to chat, email, and phone him. I really like this guy. I think Im falling for him. Im so excited. We havent talked much about the visa processes or anything like that. Just mainly talking about us and our families. I think I will do as most of you said and just take my time. I don't want to rush into anything. Thanks again for all the advice. Im glad to be a part of the vj family.

    Uchegirl

    These folks on here do give great and very HONEST advice. You will grow to appreciate it even more as your relationship develops. Remember, don't hesitate to "throw anything" at us in the form of questions you may have and we will try to help out or at least give you our very healthy opinions. :no:

    Ask lots of questions and take your time. Best wishes!

    Anything we are missing?...Naija Vj's

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    i have to agree with donnaal. Nigeria is a country with very HIGH FRAUD!!! If ANYONE knows how to make use of that passport, it WOULD be a NIGERIAN. WHATEVER you do; DO NOT SEND that passport; rather it be cancelled or not. That is something you do not want to do. I'm giving you this advice per my husband and a few of his Naija friends. DO NOT SEND THAT PASSPORT there!!!! Girl, do u realize that the mail system there is just as worst. Even if you send it DHL or FEDEX, you are DEFINITELY TAKING A RISK!!! B-4 you get the wrong idea, Im not stating that your husband would use it against you, but it's a possibility that it could end up in the hands of someone who would. Do you realize what a USA passport means in Nigeria? Ask you husband or any other Naija about it!!!!

    Sweetee

    I have sent a photo copy of my passport in Nigeria because I did not have the copy of my previous tickets I used to go to Nigeria with. Would that be a threat to my life in any way? I had used it for my husband to ne able to get visa for the CO. I was asked to get phone records, & a coloured photo copy of my passport. Well, I am thinking of purchasing a new passport ASAP if this will be a problem because my husband and I are coming home together in May.

    You should start a new topic and post this as a new thread so you can get some advice from the always helpful VJers. This is a good question.

    Canadians Marrying Nigerians

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    First of all I do not know you, so your opinion does not count for anything in my life. Secondly, you have no idea about the outcome of my situation and unles you know me personally and have walked with me as a friend for the time I have known this man, you will never know. I did not post my story for someone to make judgment calls on me, but for some friendly supportive advice. And you are right, you DO NOT KNOW my whole situation, therefore you are not allowed the privilege of making judgement calls on me , this man, or my life.

    Relax Love2Laf, we are very supportive, laid back and helpful in this forum. When someone says something to you its not to hurt, but to help. Please don't feel attacked. Best wishes to your and your fiance.

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